GIRLS DO ME DIRTY! Victoria Monét Gets Brutally Honest About Her “Disappointing” Dating Life With Women!
Media Take Out has the absolute “Heartbreak Hotel” tea on one of our favorite R&B superstars! Victoria Monétmight be winning Grammys and topping the charts with “On My Mama,” but when it comes to her love life, honey, the “Jaguar” singer says the jungle is looking a little bleak—especially when it involves the ladies!
During a deep-dive conversation on Angie Martinez’s “IRL” podcast, Victoria decided to keep it 100% real about her dating history. While many fans see her as the ultimate dream girl, Victoria revealed that her experiences in the dating pool have been anything but a “fantasy.”
“Girls Do Me Dirty”: The Harsh Reality of WLW Dating
Victoria, who has been open about her bisexuality for years, didn’t hold back when Angie asked about the differences between dating men and women. In a move that had social media gasping, she admitted that her experiences with women have actually been “a little bit worse” than her relationships with men.
“Girls do me dirty,” Victoria told Angie candidly. She explained that while many people assume dating women would be more emotional and supportive, she has found the opposite to be true. According to Victoria, the ladies she encounters often lack the “serious intentions” she’s looking for, leaving her feeling more drained than desired.
More Than Just A “Sensual” Fantasy
One of the most relatable—and heartbreaking—parts of the interview was when Victoria discussed how she feels perceived by other women. She noted that because of her public image, women often fail to see the “real” her.
“Girls don’t really approach me seriously—they approach me sensually,” she explained. Victoria expressed a deep frustration with being reduced to a sexual object or a “fantasy” rather than a human being worth building a genuine, long-term connection with. She made it clear that she isn’t interested in being someone’s “experiment” or a temporary thrill—she wants the real deal, a “serious connection.”
Looking For That “Masculine Energy”
As for what’s next for the singer? Victoria has a very specific “vibe” in mind for her next partner. Regardless of whether it’s a man or a woman, Victoria revealed she is looking for a partner who can bring stronger masculine energy into the relationship dynamic.
She seems to be craving a balance that provides stability and leadership, rather than the “sensual” games she’s been dealing with lately. After years of being the one to “provide the vibe,” it sounds like the Queen of R&B is ready to be taken care of for a change!
The Final Word
Victoria’s honesty has sparked a massive debate online, with many women in the “WLW” community nodding their heads in agreement about the “toxic” nature of the current dating scene. It just goes to show—you can have the Grammys, the beauty, and the “face card,” and still struggle to find someone who treats you right!
Ladies, have you found that dating women is “worse” than dating men, or is Victoria just looking in the wrong places? Let us know in the comments!
