If he went on to get in a relationship with someone AFTER he said it to you, then YOU just weren't the ONE.

That means they are just not ready. Keep it movin!

^^^co-sign

If he went on to get in a relationship with someone AFTER he said it to you, then YOU just weren't the ONE.

or he was in a relationship with someone else but enjoys your company.

problem solved

If someone says 'I'm not read for a RELATIONSHIP' doesn't mean that the person they said it to is necessarily is the problem.

I agree with Fel...

Although that *** is *** up *gigglin*

The saying is true. "Men only do to you what you allow them"...

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If he went on to get in a relationship with someone AFTER he said it to you, then YOU just weren't the ONE.

If he said that to me he's *** *straight face*

yes! because when you're ready for a relationship you know!!

You prolly cheated on him or you prolly were talkin to other men why you were wit him

thats why he left you

Dont no *** man want to keep chasin yo *** around why you joke around wit his manhood

Wow Vers3tile! Thank you for your very positive input.

"He's just not that into you"

U kan always run 2 me ma

IF HE SAYS HE IS NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP, IT MEANS HE ALREADY IN ONE....WITH SOMEONE ELSE!!!

LMAO @ Verse's comment....

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Vers3tile Flag post You prolly cheated on him or you prolly were talkin to other men why you were wit him

thats why he left you

LOL.... that is a good point thanks Slomo

**Coming in Looking @ topic**

SIGH....

yes..it means we could *** but thats about it

Awww @ cfullilove

Hi cfullilove!!!! Nice to meet you!!

*smackin hand*

I must be ovulatin or something because I've doing A LOT of flirting lately... (so glad nobody can see ma face...LAAAWWD)

(((((((Blacc)))))))) *kisses*

ELM...**SAD HUGGS**

Hey chic,,,how u be...**SIGH**

Elm itz kool yo persona make u sexc

Buttafly why are you **SIGH** ??

Auberney...Hello ms lady....My siggy says it all...**SIGH**

! ! ! ! ! ! V

ATLEAST HE TOLD YOU! and didn't string u along! But yea i have to say u wasn't the one!

yeah....BE GLAD HE @ LEAST GAVE U THE COMMON COURTESY OF TELL U...VS. JUST *** U OUT AND LEAVING U TO WONDER WHY!!!

@Verse...*** LOL

But Champhf is right, from a guys point of view

@auberney

im sorry

I didnt mean to be so mean about it

Lately Ive just been seeing so much negative *** about

Black men this and black men that and that was the first thing that came to mind

I really didnt mean any harm

if i want them and they want me but there not ready...i can't force them...i don't even want them too.

i want them to WANNA want to be with me

Okay fellas if a lady tells you that but still wants to *** u! how does that make yall feel?

@ Blacc ... ummm what is goin' on??

Vers3tile....man....I need to holla @ u off line...i need to pick yo brain...LOL

Honey-B

You really think that would offend a guy??? *** with no strings attached???

elmcitychick Flag post @ Blacc ... ummm what is goin' on?? --------------- ".....in my opinion." ****************************************

**listeing to MJB'z What the 411**

HEATBROKE SUGA...can't seem to shake the ***.it!!!

<------JUST SICK!!!

@ Vers3tile

I understand.... No harm done. All of the comments have good points in a way

@mister yeap someone that really wants to be with you! but if he ain't looking for a comment then hell no that's his kind of woman! LMAO..... I MEAN LOL!

@ Blacc... gurl I know how it is.

Just "DO YOU"....

HONEY-BROWN Flag post Okay fellas if a lady tells you that but still wants to *** u! how does that make yall feel? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ you trying to make them laugh right?? lol

elmcitychick Flag post @ Blacc... gurl I know how it is.

Just "DO YOU".... --------------- ".....in my opinion." **************************************

*SIGH*

That's the hard part...

that mean they not interested and dont wanna hurt yo feelins

LOL @ Soony

If a guy REALLY seemed to be into you then stops...and you ask about ur status and he says he doesnt wanna be in a relationship, believe it or not...alot of times its not about his female.

From the cases I've experienced and my friends, alot of the times its the company she keeps. Friends and Families can *** up a good thing too. If a guy feels like he gotta compete with ur friends or fam, then he knows thats not the relation_shit to be in...yeah, relation_shit. lol

it also means he got options....and he wants to see how it goes....the best thing you could do is walk away like it doesnt matter. dont take phone calls, when you see him keep conversations to a minimum. you have to make him feel you are no longer interested....

you weren't the one

But as for "I wanna *** u but not be in a relationship"...

A guy hearing that is like finding the Ark with the Ten Commandments! Thats like the Angels are singing a song written especially for a guy! Music to his ears!!!

this also works on females too....just cut all ties...they will wonder what happened and usually come and find out why they phone stopped ringing.

Mister_Meaner is on point...also

From the cases I've experienced and my friends, alot of the times its the company she keeps. Friends and Families can *** up a good thing too. If a guy feels like he gotta compete with ur friends or fam, then he knows thats not the relation_shit to be in...yeah, relation_shit. lol

======== I AGREE SAME HERE! IF u got to much going on in your life it will *** some things up!

now if u just got a nosey aunt,sis or a uncle or cousin i can't stand then i don't care cause i will tell them were to go! CAUSE IM NOT *** THEM IM *** U! SO THEY DON'T MATTER!

it also means he got options....and he wants to see how it goes....the best thing you could do is walk away like it doesnt matter. dont take phone calls, when you see him keep conversations to a minimum. you have to make him feel you are no longer interested.... ----- TEE HEE GULITY!

A guy hearing that is like finding the Ark with the Ten Commandments! Thats like the Angels are singing a song written especially for a guy! Music to his ears!!! ----- DEAD!

Its so funny how on here ppl make it seem like only females phones stop ringing!! unreal cmau!!

champhf Flag post this also works on females too....just cut all ties...they will wonder what happened and usually come and find out why they phone stopped ringing. * *** **** *****

oh yes..i mastered this ***...

LOL

@Soony - As for family, I'll take in their advice, but to a point. Most guys will shake off all advice but listen to their Moms and Grandmas...

But watching my female cousins, I never understood WHY they were in good relationships, but would burn up their minutes on the phone with their bitter friends. It always led to a competition an ultimately, the guy knows he's gonna lose that one and peace out

if he said he's not ready for a relationship...that means he's not ready for a relationship! WTF is wrong wit women thinkin we speak in codes and ***? yall are the only ones that do that....

if a lady tells you that but still wants to *** u! how does that make yall feel? ------------------- it would feel like i just one a million bucks

No comment cause I just told somebody that I wasnt ready for a relationship and he *** sure was NOT the one.

@ doingit_well.... Thanks for your NON-comment. I get it. <hint-hint>

It doesnt take a rocket scientist!! sheesh!

@Auber You're welcome

yea thats basically what he meant. he jus said it in a way so that u wouldnt get hurt.