Rihanna Tells Mag That She’s Looking For A White Boyfriend!!!

: MediaTakeOut.com has learned that R&B singer Rihanna made a startling admission in this months issue of Vibe Vixen magazine. During the interview, she claimed that "every" attractive man that she runs into nowadays is White. Here are her exact words:

I wouldn't have wanted to date White guys before, but they're killing it right now - Justin Timberlake, Orlando Bloom, Paul Walker ... Every hot guy I see is White

We really hope she's just exaggerating. Anyway, here are some pics from the magazine...

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honeydip211

honeydip211
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HHAAAAAH ALWAYS FIRST


sexy4life07
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i dont kno but rihanna iz strange now.i used 2 like her but DAMN!!!i still like her music tho.she's juss tryin 2 hard now.


lmwhead
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something kinda sexy going on


sexy4life07

ladylibra22
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white boyz do draw sex appeal.


77Born
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THIS BI-ATCH IS KILLIN IT...AND LOOKIN GOOD DOIN THAT ISH!


honeydip211
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I KNOW SHE AINT RACIST


MissEducated
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MTO she didnt say she was "looking for a white boyfriend"..she just said that all the men she runs into are white and hot.....quit adding s.h.i.t....Anyway...the pics are nice...as usual. Miss. Educated


fashionroCz
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6th lol j/p but yeah honeslty as a fashion stylist i must ay rihannahas beenn catchin my eye latey im lov me some ri ri myspce.com/omme


77Born
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White boys are steppin there game up....especially in the Summer they got their little tan..peanut butter..caramel..thing going!! hmmmm..let me stop!


bigqutie4life
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shes pretty but she done lost her mind chocolate is where its at babt! ewwww gross could you imagine a pink penis? lol


V8SPLASH
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mine is white heyyyyyyyyy!!!!!!lol but I was'nt looking for any one and he came along as long as they treat you right


blackdaddy1696
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Thats not a surprise, The love interest in her videos are always white boys. Hey if thats what she wants then thats her biz. I just hate those black women who put down blackmen when there dating a white guy .That realy bugs me when they do that. myspace.com/blackdaddy1696


RNW
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is it just me or does the new hair look like a helmet??????



Classybuttafly
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Black men better not being getting mad at this, this is what most of you say anyway.


money1177
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i like white men too lol wow look at her green eyes


ladylibra22
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dam i like justin timberlake,orlando bloom,and paul walker riri.I will always luv chocolate but dey fine too.


RNW
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LMAO @sexy4life thinking she was 2nd more like 6th


livelife
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@ classybuttafly: very true. most of them talk about how they want to "do" white girls and what not, so i think black females should have the same options. never dated a white guy, but i think some of them are cute. isn't one of rihanna's parents/close ancestors white? i like her though, wish she would consider doing Caribbean tours, seeing as she is an island chick, but oh well.


ladylibra22
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sexy4life actually was second..so whose laughin now..lmao.


sorryIdontwantu
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@blackdaddy1696 That's how I feel about black men when they get a white woman. So what if they prefer them, just don't put us down in the process. BTW, Rih looks really nice and she seems to be very creative with her style. Go on girl.


jucija1
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I want a white man too. Orlando Bloom and Paul Walker are fine Looks like Rhianna got good taste.


smitty254
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rihanna lookin mighty good and I dont know why mto is twisting her words around to make a headline story


MissUrbanChic

money1177
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i agree i don't care if a black man has a white woman and i don't expect them to care when i date a white man people love whoever makes them happy everyone enjoy your life


Official
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AS BLACKMAN SHE SHOULD GO HEAD AND DO IT SHOULD LET WHITEMEN PRODUCE AND WRITE HER RECORDS FOR HEAR ON OUT. SHOULD WILL NOT BE PROMOTED BY BLACKMALE MAGAZINES WHITEMALE ARE OFFICIAL HER AUDIENCE AND IF THIS HER PREFERENCE, IAM TOTALLY COOL WITH IT.


blackdaddy1696
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sorryIdontwantu I totaly agree with you on that one . Do you dont down a whole race of men or women in the process. myspace.com/blackdaddy1696


Official
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AND THESE COMMENTS GO TO SHOW YOU HOW HYPOCRITICAL BLACKWOMEN OUR IF BLACKMALE DID THE SAME THING HE WOULD GET BASHED FOR THIS AT LEAST VENUS KEEPS HER PREFERENCE OFF RECORD


Annie
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Flame! All she said is that she wouldn't date white men, and now she sees a lot of hot ones. She never said that she wouldn't date black guys or that only white guys are hot. MTO is putting fuel on a non-existent fire. Anyways, there isn't much black male eye candy in the music/movie department who are above 5'7 and under 40, so I don't blame her.



Ihavetosay
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She's such a pretty girl. How tall is she though? People always say she should model but I don't think she's tall enough for real modeling, meaning, if she's not tall enough I don't see her doing runway, and everything else with the real money is for endorsements, once her 15 minutes is up, it's a wrap. For some reason I don't like any of these pics except for the faux "catwoman" one and that's just eh. I think it has to do with the clothes and her hair does look like a helmet.


focus
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@Misseducated: I agree. What's so wrong with her statement about: I wouldn't have wanted to date White guys before, but they're killing it right now - Justin Timberlake, Orlando Bloom, Paul Walker ... Every hot guy I see is White. She said she wouldn't have wanted to date a white guy in the past but the ones she sees now are HOT! People need to read and comprehend the quote before casting negatives on someone's words. Reading comprehension is very important.


Ihavetosay
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Oh, the comment about the white men sounds deliberate IMO. She knows which audience is actually buying her CD's. The same dummies who wish they never paid for Brittany Spear's LOL.


Uncle_Tom
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shes practically white anyway. I see no harm in her gettiing back to her white roots...Im surprised that all mixed people are automatically classified as being black anyway... what about her white heritage? she may not want to date me but shes still sexy with that football forehead. she dont have any body though and she cannot sing and has no real talent...her attempt to infiltrate black culture has failed because she couldnt sell us any of her CD's, so shes going to try to ingratiate herself as a C-list whore to A-list white Hollywood stars much like Paris Hilton... Rhi Rhi knows her 15 are almost up and shes putting all her cards on the table now... I hope you hook up with a famous white man Rhianna because if you had to rely on your talent to be a star in your own right, you would be turing tricks for cocaine at those tourist hotel/clubs in Trindad like before. Do your thing sis.


kimpeach
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First of all, she didn't say she is looking for a white boyfriend. That is MTO version of this interview and even if that's her perference, who cares? The girl is not that talented!!! Second, most of her fanbase is white. So I expect her to cater to them mostly. Third, she is young. She will learn. Fourth, she is probably mad that Jay-Z didn't dump Beyonce for her her. (Ha ha) I don't take her serious anyway. This is not he first time Rihanna made a stupid comment (remember her dissing her own country). Rihanna just needs to sit down before she lose all her fans. Unless Beyonce say something dumb like this, I won't put too much thought into it.


yeah_and
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I'm not surprised. But you love who you love....


Official
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Blackman(superstar): only attractive women i see is whitewomen angelina jolie drew barrymore jessica biel What will blackwomen response be??


Uncle_Tom
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black people have rejected her because she has no talent that we can discern...she cant sing, she cant dance and she has no soul... she kinda like stale white bread...shes okay if you toast her a little and put a little peanut butter on her but thats about it...we have no use for her and she knows we rejected her first.. I like her though and I do hope some ncie white people drafts her and picks her up on waivers.she exercises hard and takes good care of her body...she would make a good escort to some lucky white man.


kimpeach
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@ Official Reading comprehension is very important (as focus stated). Apparently, you didn't read her REAL comments. Anyway, MOST black women don't agree with Rihanna. Look at the stats...that should tell you something!


Uncle_Tom
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where are these white women getting these butts from all of the sudden? jessica biel has a butt kim k. has a butt. coo coo has a butt i know where jessica alba got her butt from, she has a little african in her from her latino side, but dammit kim, k is armenian... Maybe this is something that Rhianna should think about...Buying some butt and becomeing a video vixen. it just dont make any sense.


Superwoman
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Justin Timberlake?????!! Oh plz this is such an obvious ploy to sell CDs and cross over to ANOTHER audience.Just listen to her music anyway. That's not traditional R&B.Say what you will about Beyonce,she never had to beg white men to like her .Kinda sad. BTW where are all the brothers at to get angry over this comment.(Cricket sounds) I'll stand by my opinion. Black men and white women don't give a damn about this stuff. We Black women need to move on as well. To each his own no need to make a big deal about it anymore. Really.


blackdaddy1696
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Focus Thats because the white media wants it that way.Every time I watch tv or at the movies they have as the ladies would say (cuz im not gay) Fine ass black dudes in leading rolls on tv and in films . If they do have one brotha then you best beleave they will have 2 to 3 white guys on the show to cancel the brother out. If you dont beleave me then take your remote and flip the channels and watch the bias that they have as far as having a hansom black man as the lead. And if you notice on most tv shows and movies that have black men on them, They will always have a taller model looking white guy and a shorter average looking black guy. They know that most women are atracted to taller guys anyway. The black guy is always shorter and heaver than their white counter parts


Official
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Kim Peach I was refering to the blackwomen on this board....i totally excluded blackwomen in my personal life from my statement. I just fill she should promote her music to white masses only.


shecue
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SO WHAT! AREN'T WE ALL LOOKING FOR A WHITE BOY


travieboo7
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yeah she say's she wants to date a white guy but she neva said she didnt like them black



Official
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Superwoman You pointed it out clearly Beyonce never worship whitemale our talked about whitemale period and she still is selling(she boasted blackmen). kelly rowland called orlando bloom the sexiest man alive. but orlando never responded to her comment


kimpeach
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@ Official Oh, I see.


djenx
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WHY EVERY TIME A BLACK DUDE DATE A WHITE GIRL, SHE ALLWAYS FAT AND UGLY? BUT WHEN A WHITE BOY DATE A BLACK GIRL, SHE ALLWAYS DOPE. SHE WHITE PEOPLE DONT CARE ABOUT INTERACIAL COUPLES CUZ, BLACK PEOPLE ALWAYS GET THERE UGLY THROW-AWAYS. WE GOTTA START KEEPIN THESE SEXY SISTAS, AND GIVEN THEM OUR THROW-AWAYS


CHRISSYSNOW
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Yeah Ok honey. You can take all three of those guys as long as you give me Djimon Hounsou . Ok is that a deal?


DirtyStarr
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MTO..RiRi did not say she wanted a white boyfriend. She simply said she's been seeing some hot white guys! She is right because Paul Walker and Justin Timberlake can get it. Also, Gerard Butler from the movie 300 can definitely get it all day! Have you seen his body in that movie!!?? Anyways, I don't know why people make such a big deal when a black woman finds a man of another race attractive. What does it matter? I get that shit all the time when I go out with my boyfriend who is Puerto Rican/Costa Rican. If two people love or like each other it shouldn't matter. Love is Love and Lust is Lust. RiRi go get you some Justin, Orlando, and Paul Walker. Nevermind the haters!


Official
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Djenx I can see you live in differenct city in mind it's totally opposite.


iloveyou
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who cares who she dates..ppl such a big deal about race shut the fuck up ! All 3 are sexy men..she forgot David BECKHAM !!!


chocolatedeluxe
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Some of you weren't even saying "so what" when Mike Tyson started dating that light skinned woman (in the other MTO post) but NOW it's okay all of a sudden...double standard. So stop the hypocrisy and be real with yourselves. Anyway, so what if she does wanna date a white man? Just as so what if a black man wants to date anyone outside of his race? Just don't start making generalizations of an entire race b/c of your shortcomings or personal experiences within your own race.


DirtyStarr
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lol @djenx I never thought about that but its kinda true. lol


Ihavetosay
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You know, this chick couldn't model, she has the same Forrest Gump looking expression in all her photos. I just realized that. Pretty, but NO expression whatsoever.


flygirlph
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S0ME WHITE GUYS P0CKETS D0 L00K G00D!


chocolatedeluxe
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Oh yeah, and her style is VERY fashion forward.


Uncle_Tom
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true, kelly rowland also tried to shout out to white boys to increase her woeful CD sales.. These women dont know the formula to selling out the black ocmmunity... The first step is to actually become popular and be accepted (CD sales) by the black community FIRST, then sell us out...Thats the formula White boys,white people only latch on to something black when it is given the stamp of approval by the black community as being "cool".. Then white people buy into it because they follow the tone and the trends that we set, even if they have to steal it (Timberlake, Eminem, Elvis, Thicke, Brittany, Christina, )... Ask Mariah Carey and Lionel Richie how it works, they'll tell you the formula... You got to come through us first to get validated by what we deem as cool of not baby... Going in the media and begging to blow white guys aint gonna get it..They can get that kinda action anywhere in Hollywood when you are wealthy and famous.


DirtyStarr
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Damn I forgot David Beckham in my list. lol thanks iloveyou.


tmarti30
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She's basically saying no brothas wanna holler at her. I guess they know J ran up in there and don't want his cast-offs. She looks like she's too desperate and trying to hard. That head is huge! I'm sorry, but dayyyyyyuuuum! That wig is not helping ..."phone home, Ri Ri". To me she's overated- terrible singer, good single- horrible dancer and stage presence. I like CiCi better.



Prettythinker
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What about the comment about jayz why was shE unablee to look at him or talk to him. RING TE ALARM, BEY!!!!


Superwoman
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OMG @blackdaddy1696 That is the truth. See that fact in itself makes me suspicious of white ppl overall.They always have to skew the media perceptions of themselves in their favor. Blondes have more fun and all that garbage.They do the same TRICKS with black and white female actresses in movies and TV as well.


chocolatebee
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no where there she said she was looking for a white guy. damn MTO get it together and quit exaggerating like you claim rhianna was. and if she did say it, can u blame her? most black men are screwed up as hell or dating outside they race. so i say more power to her if she is. those are some sexy ass white boys she named and there are plenty more out there.


Uncle_Tom
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theres alot of confued black women who willingly date white men if they could but most white men would not demean themselves socially to be seen in public wih a black woman although they will frequent strip clubs where they will do business with a sister on that street level then white himself off after he finishes... Black men, when they find a white woman they like, they are proud to bring them home to meet momma and the family, because he feels he has a prize... White men more than likely are embarrased to bring a nappy headed sister before his people as a mate because in this society its seen as taking a step down for them...There are some maybe who are orphans and who are brave enough to deal with it but most repectable white men will never bring a sister home to meet his family...They have sex with you and admirable your beautiful bodies and your beautiful choclate skin and maybe even get "whupped" for awhile but most would not take that step down on the social ladder to lay with a black woman when all they have to do is visit a strip club and get a whore who is black and there are many because of the economy and many are just confused and abandoned by black men economically and emotionally.


babydoll185
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whats the big deal, she should be with who she wants. Black men are leaving us Black women at an alarming rate anyway for those White sluts,so who the fuk cares.


ardentgirl30
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who the hell cares about rihanna her cd was plain shitty, and she has gotten big headed if you ask me. on 106 and park tryna get people to vote those bullshit ass videos on the audience wasnt feeling her clown ass they were just being polite. she's a real comedy act take her ass back to the barbados where she come from. its many sexy black men out here what the hell is she talkin but that forehead is blindin her 4 real. oh yeah and rumor had it she and omarion were spotted going back to his room huh undercover hoe.


bew-t
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She's right - there are a lot of hot white guys out there...(BUT there are also a lot of hot black guys too)... I don't personally date outside of my race which I'm black, but to each his/her own... The color is not important - whatever floats your boat...


Uncle_Tom
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THANK god, that most white men dont see black women as attractive to them..If they did, there would definitely be very few sisters left for us brothers...Black women wear their hair all fake to try to appeal to white men, but in most cases it looks fake and a little amusing to them...The conqueror always gets the cream of the crop of the women of those they conquer...Its tradition. Thats why there are so many light skinned blacks today.


Superwoman
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@Djenx We as black people have to stop looking at the world with a white persons perspective all the time. Black men ( most latinos and some europeans) like women that are shapely or "thick ". If you see a black man with a white female, is she really fat or is she what white ppl would consider fat. Think about. I see black men with latina and white females all the time. They normally have pretty faces and most have better shapes then the average white female. Having a shapely figure doesn't make them fat.Then again this is one black female's perpective.


Ihavetosay
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Uncle_Tom, you are one funny dude. You got me dying laughing over here. You speak a lot of truth although 90% of it is meant to be inflammatory. MTO must be glad you came along, unless you work for them. I'm taking bets. This thread will cap at 450. Any takers?


sheman
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Dont get mad the girl is right i bout to look for a white man aswell cause n.i.g.g.e.r are lame


ardentgirl30
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uncle tom i feel you on all you said thats the damn truth. iam so glad to see someone on here with some serious sense about it all. a black women like i stated what sometime this week has no place with a white man ever, and i mainly feel that way because of the blatant honesty you just put out there. i mean damn it doesnt take a rocket scientist to figure that out a white man aint demeaning and embarrassing hisself by dating no black woman. they gon hit and quit where no where will notice.


kimpeach
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@ babydoll185 I am trying not to have that view of black men. I would hope most black men still love black women. Is it that bad between black men and black women?


Uncle_Tom
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If MTO cared so much about my contributions here they wouldnt have taken down the Michael Vick thread from the front page...We had a great discussion going on there... You hear that Fred?


MTOpoo
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whitemenforblackwomen.blogspot.com



Swirl_girl
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@Ihavetosay Nothing less than a cool 1,000 posts. Uncle_Tom be breaking records.


ardentgirl30
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damn sheman is it like that. is the head good first good lawd.


MTOpoo
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Ardentgirl30, and others, you're so wrong. White men marry black women all the time. Why are you all so negative about black women? Justin Chambers from Grey's anatomy has a black wife, Wolfgang Puck, Robert Deniro, Roger Ebert, Robin Thicke, Danny Modine, and many others in Hollywood...not to mention several European princes. Take a look at this blog, and see for yourself. There are tons of pictures of these couples..and yes, the white men MARRIED them, not just saw them at the strip club. bfinterracialmarriage.blogspot.com. It's sad that so many black men and women here refuse to believe that black females are desirable to others. I guess that attitude is why so many black women choose to find happiness with white men nowadays. They're more accepting of black women than other black people even are!


kimpeach
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Uncle_Tom I think black women are becoming fed up with waiting on black men....in a few more years, I think you will see more and more black women dating and marrying outside their race (especially Hispanic men). I see an increase already.


Uncle_Tom
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MTOpoo If you can name them(and count them on both hands), then OBVIOUSLY, there aint that many...LOL


sheman
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@Uncle_Tom why dont you go put a dildo in your ass. You always got something to say BITCH


Uncle_Tom
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kinda reminds me when black people bring up racism in America and then they get "the list " out and name them off: Bill Cosby Oprah Winfrey Michael Jordan Michael Jackson Puff Daddy and a couple of others... My response is why are white folks keeping a list anyway and if there is a list then THERE AINT THAT MANY! lol


Uncle_Tom
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@sheman do you kiss your mother with that potty mouth?


TNBHOTTIE
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WHO CARES MYSPACE.COM/TAMATHANICHELLE


babydoll185
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@ kimpeach yes honey its really that bad. I'm seeing the shyte everywhere. It pisses me off too but I know there aint a damn thing i can do about it.


flygirlph
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UNCLE-T0M I AGREE WITH AL0T F WHAT U R SAYIN. MY 1 F MY GIRLFRIENDS USED T0 STRIP @ A WHITE CLUB AND I WENT UP THERE WITH HER A FEW TIMES AND THEM WHITE MEN L0VE THE BLACK STRIPPERS M0RE THAN THE PANCAKE STRIPPERS AND I USED T0 BE AMAZED. THAT'S WHERE THEY PLAY 0UT THEIR FANTASIES AND THEIR FAMILIES NEVER KN0W.


sheman
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Uncle_Tom potty mouth? FUK YOU BASTARD.


MTOpoo
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You're an idiot, uncle tom. If you go to the website bfinterracialmarriage.blogspot.com (unless you're too lazy and shiftless to even do that!), you will see way more IR couples with BF and WM than any number that can be counted on your hands. Not to mention the THOUSANDS, including myself (married to a handsome AND successful WM who couldn't wait for me to meet his family)of black women married to white men recorded by the US Census. And by the way, your bitter ass sounds like a REAL keeper--not. With men like you, it's no wonder black women are fleeing to date out, lol. How abusive can you be to black women's egos? Your mother must have done a real number on you! Do everyone a favor and don't date anyone, buddy. People like you really should be alone to stew and wallow in your own insecurities and anger. I feel sad for you :(


flygirlph
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I MEANT T0 SAY I AGREE WITH AL0T 0F WHAT U R SAYING MY 0 BUTT0N ACTIN GAY THIS M0RNING!L0L


Ihavetosay
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MTOpoo- that "perception" ticks me off too. There are white men that will f*ck black women for the "experience" as white women will f*ck black men for the same thing. My best friend f*cked nothing but black and Latino men all her life, but you know who she married to right? Black women ARE desirable to white men, thing is, white men (on average) AREN'T desirable to black women, so you don't see it as much as black men with white women. Don't get me wrong, I've been through it in school where white guys get pissy ass drunk and stalk your ass throughout the bar/club and then in class don't say a word to you. But I also know several white men right now who would jump at the chance of marrying me. YES I said MARRY. To make it seem like black women are worthless is a lie and a MIND GAME to make black women FEEL LESSER THAN, so that they will continue waiting on black men to "sow they oats" while bringing more diseases and sexual deviancy into the black community.



djenx
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@Superwoman I GET WHAT YOUR SAYING, BUT LATINAS AND BLACKS ARE SO CLOSE U CANT PUT THEM IN SEPARATE CATEGORIES. BUT THICKNESS, BUT THICK IN THE RIGHT PLACES. BLACK FEMALES HAVE SOMETHING IN THEM THAT THEY CAN BE THICK IN THE RIGHT PLACES WITHOUT BEING THICK ALL OVER. BUT YOU RARELY SEE THAT IN A WHITE LADY. SO IF YOU WANT A THICK WHITE CHICK SHE GONNA BE THICK ALL OVER=FAT


esotericdredz
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People have the right and the freedom to be with whomever they choose. I am always fascinated by the very apparent double standard in how black women who enter interracial relationships are perceived as opposed to black men who do the same. If a similarly situated black male 'celebrity" had made the exact same statements as she made in the magazine (not including mto's spin) there still would have been an avalanche of negative reaction. When a black female does it, it is met with a shrug of the shoulders. When two similarly situated black people engage in the same behavior (dating someone out of their race) a black man is seen as giving up on or turning his back on black women, yet a black woman is seen as taking a reasonable and justifiable step. It's that double standard that's wrong, not the choice to date whom you please.


Swirl_girl
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I agree with UNC in that white is what's right and there's a concept that a white person dating blk is a downgrade so there aren't as many white men marrying blk women. That answers the question right there. Why there's a double standard. The white man is powerful and when he chooses to wife...not just hit up...but wife what's considered undesirable, he gets madd respect for that. It's easy riding the easy wave (blk man with the white "beauty")He's considered as going upward since she's on his arms. That's the eay route. So when the underdog comes along, (wht man with the...excuse my language my blk people---porch monkey)<<<<according to European standards, they get my respect. They're basically saying they could care less. This is MY BEAUTIFUL AFRICAN WOMAN. Robert Deniro---deep in the chocolate for so long...that's my dawg! Shoot someone loves us! And with folks like Beyonce redefining what beauty and curves are, there will be a whole lot more of wht men wifing blk women.


babydoll185
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unfortunately white women have always been the representation for what is considered beautiful, and everyone is dumb enough to believe it.


kimpeach
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babydoll185 Wow! I don't understand. I know what you are saying, but I read that 90% of black men are married to black women. Well, maybe its time for us (black women) to do what the black men are doing.


flygirlph
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THIS IS F0R SHEMAN Y0 THIS IS N0T A P0RN SITE 0R THE CLASSIFIEDS. U ALWAYS 0FFERING UR SERVICES AND N0B0DY WANT U. U PR0BABLY G0T S0METHING WITH UR NASTY ASS. G0 SUCK A DIK UP TIL U HICCUP!!!!!


DG1
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JUDGING BY THIS PHOTOSHOOT SHE WOULD BE LOOKIN FOR A WHITE BOYFRIEND.....IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN.


Ihavetosay
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MTOpoo- I guess I should have saved my breathe as you clearly see through that BS and what it's about. Black men will continue to tell black women that "WHITE MEN DON'T DESIRE YOU" to keep black women in check.


Uncle_Tom
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kimpeach there is something you all can do about it... Be yourselves...Start rocking your natural hair and DO YOU...tHATS whats sexy....CONFIDENCE... STOP TRYING TO wear fake and artifical hairstyles...You do that not only will black men have more respect for you but white men will too... The woman sets the tone for her people and the black women is the mother of humanity itself...Dont lower yourselves by trying to emulate races that wont even be in existence 100 years from now... Be your beautiful African selves and the world will kneel at your feet again and the world will return to a state of peace under your motherly care and love. As long as the black women is off balanced and off her center, the world will remain in a state of chaos and disorder, because mother earth(you) are in disorder with your selves... But dont believe me, I just an ole Uncle Tom


pharcyde1us
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I consider myself to be a pretty liberal guy but I have to say that when I take a look at black people around the country its easy to ascertain that I don't think that we love ourselves and our own kind enough to be going totally ga ga over people of other races be they Caucasian, Japanese, Latino, or any other media forced beauty that we have all been saturated with living in America. If we loved ourselves and treated eachother better (African American People)I would have no problem with seeking other races for relationships and possible marriage but in my humble opinion I really don't think that we love ourselves enough for this. You have to love yourself before you can even fall in love at all. If you don't have love for self then how can you be in love with any other race?


Ihavetosay
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esotericdredz- that's b/c it's not reasonable and justifiable for a black man to date a white women. Sometimes double standards are warranted. But let me put the disclaimer out there: It doesn't bother ME personally when I see black men with white women b/c I KNOW just based on that, I wouldn't want him. It just bothers me to see other black women so bothered by it, and when it makes black women feel less than. I shrugged off Rihanna's statement b/c she's doesn't come across as that bright so I can't take anything she really says seriously.


Uncle_Tom
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Beyonce aint redefining jack... In America the mulatto image has always been forced on us sublimally as the symbol of black beauty...It stems from slavery when the bastard children of rape by the slavemaster was given preferential treatment by the slavemaster because his bastard half black children resembled themselves...Thusly the slaves were also forced to treat these children better and differently to gain the favor of the slavemaster....Sublimally and sunconsciously this caused the black slave woman to want to make themselves look more like the lighter or the whiter so they could possibly get some better treatment on a peripheral level... And this also had a rebound effect on the black men because they seeing that the lighter got more compliments and better treatment therefore connected in their minds that the lighter and whiter the woman the prettier and the more desired was the woman and thusly the prize to attain... btw 233rd Bytches!!!


Ihavetosay
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Swirl_girl - I think you may win this bet.


ardentgirl30
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MTOPOO WELL WOLFGANG PUCK'S WIFE IS NOT BLACK SHE'S FROM ETHIOPIA LAST TIME I CHECKED THEY WEREN'T BLACK PEOPLE. AND YOU MAY BE RIGHT IAM NOT DISCRIMINATING AGAINST INTERRACIAL DATING, BUT IAM LOOKIN OUT FOR MY BLACK SISTERS THATS ALL.YEAH YOU MAY FIND YOUR WHITE MEN WHO LIKE THEM SOME BLACK WOMEN BUT IAM TELLING YOU THE PERCENTAGE IS NOT LARGE AT ALL. LIKE UNCLE TOM STATED WHEN ITS ALL SAID AND DONE THEY WILL NOT BE INTRODUCING YOU TO THEIR FAMILY AS THEIR WOMAN AND HARDLY THEIR FIANCE IT JUST AINT GONNA HAPPEN.I BELIEVE THAT YEAH THE ONLY WHITE MEN WHO WOULD DO THAT MAY BE THE ONES WHO ARE ACCEPTED BY BLACK PEOPLE OR WHO ACTS BLACK AS WE SAY. THOSE CORPORATE WHITE MEN WITH THE MONEY, AND THE HIGH EDUCATION WONT DARE SHOW SUCH DISGRACEFULNESS TO THE EYES OF THEIR FAMILIES EVER. BLACK WOMEN THERE ARE GOOD BLACK GUYS OUT HERE DONT LET THE ONES WHO HAS REALLY HURT YOU MAKE YOU GO ASTRAY THINKIN WHITE WILL BE DRASTICALLY BETTER THEY TOTALLY DONT FEEL THAT WAY ABOUT US. BLACK ON BLACK LOVE IS SEXY, STRONG, AND BEAUTIFUL.


Swirl_girl
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@UNC It's not what we do or don't do for the blk man because trust we bend over backwards due to our innate love. It's this damn European society that pushes the agenda with every ad/commerical that blonde hair blue eyes is the thing to be. Just like the blk man sees the dope boys everyday around their way and think they're rockstars, they see what society shoves down their throats and the white woman becomes the forbidden fruit. They want to put their packages in their mouths and between their pink holes. I've heard this straight from blk mens mouths btw. They want to brush up against their Ivory skin. It's brainwashing more than it is our so-called attitudes or hairstyles. Light skinned females used to be what's up. Now it's the white women. Again, it's not what we do, because truth be told, men in general like a woman who upkeeps herself. And I've rarely heard anyone complain about the perming of the hair. As long as their woman is on point. And on point doesnt necessarily equate to Afros and or dreads. And if that was the case then every dreaded female would have a man and they're right next to us "sellouts" who perm our hair complaining too.



Uncle_Tom
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and i all reality a child of a white slavemaster (biracial) should not officially and automatically be considered black (Rhianna).. Rhianna looks biracial to me so why is she automatically considered black anyway? She definitely has plenty of white heritage so why does it bother some that she getting back to her white roots...Shes entitled to love anyone she pleases...Shes is black and white...Well that I dont know, but shes defintely got alot of white DNA and that is obvious.... Theres no way a white man can sire an African child because its not possible with the dominant and the recessive genes...Biracial people need their own racial category and they need to be proud of both sides of their lineage and we need to stop forcing them to "choose" sides just because the rest of us are so insecure with our silly racisms...I feel so sorry for biracial children sometimes...Never really fitting in .


Swirl_girl
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@UNC I meant more to say her being curvy and anti waif is redefining beauty. That blks aren't "fat" we're "phat". Yeah I know light skinned was/is considered beautiful from the beginning of time.


MTOpoo
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Ardent, I feel SO sorry for you and how clueless you are. You really have been brainwashed. :( Ethiopians ARE black. Go to school, please...your ignorance speaks volumes. And my husband doesn't "act black," whatever that means (I assume that in your stereotype laden mind, "black" probably means "ghetto" or "thug"). So sad. My husband is a CORPORATE, white collar investment banker, and we met in graduate school. Yes, I said CORPORATE. He wears expensive, nice suits to his wall street job every day, if that imagery makes it any easier for you. He's also quite handsome, and often pursued by women of ALL races. But he chose me--the person--not the black woman. You all need to stop reducing yourselves to a freaking skin color. It says a lot about your low self esteem. Ardent, please, go experience the world, and stop making an idiot of yourself on the internet. Everyone is NOT their race. Get past stereotypes. I love black women and want to see them all succeed, and it's why I encourage them to date outside of their alleged "boundaries." I can't express how sad I am for you as a black woman if this is the way you view the world. I genuinely hope you're just young.


Uncle_Tom
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@swirlgirl, not that you overstand the problems, now what are the solutions that can bring black love back and reunite black families and start having black children to grow up with the benfit of a black father and a black mother in the home... I think the reason why the black booty clubs and strip clubs have soooooo many sisters up in their willing to demean themselves is because 95% of them did not grow up with the benefit of a "strong" black father or male in the home to love...


kimpeach
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Ihavetosay Alot of black women feel rejected and some black women see it as black men rejecting them because he thinks we are ugly and/or not good enough for him. I don't know. While I see black men and biracial men date women of other races, I find most tend to marry black women. I am dating a biracial man who mostly dated white women in the past and we are happy together. I think its time for black women to look at other options, too. Its not healthy for us to beat ourselves down because we can't (shouldn't) control how others thinks. To each his own...


KEEYSHAJ50
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I'AM WITH U RIH RIH DO THE DAMN THANG GIRL AND WHITE BOY WOOO ;)~ WWW.MYSPACE.COM/KEEYSHAJACKSON WWW.MYSPACE.COM/ITSKEEYUHOAZZNICCA


esotericdredz
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@ Ihavetosay The numbers and statistics dont back up the double standard that exists in how the black community deals with this issue. When you look at black men who get married, only 10% of them are marrying outside of their race. That means 90% of black men still marry black women. So when 9 out of 10 black man are marrying black women, how is that 1 who doesn't worthy of being treated with a double standard? We can't allow media perception to impact the reality. The media may love to showcase black male-white female couples and hookups, but that doesn't make it the reality of what's really happening when people go to the altar.


Uncle_Tom
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@swirl girl, no ...light skinned was not considered beautiful from the beginning of time...LOL this is a phenomenon that has happened under the current caucasoid rule of the last 2000 years or so when their rule began.... Time goes back much much longer than that...The Pyramids and the Sphinx, predates your bible and any of your holy books...White people are recent additions to this planet, relatively speaking...Documented history of thisplanet goes back further than 50,000 years and white people werent even in existence during most of that.. In fact we were the ones who civilized them and taught them to eat with utensils, properly dispose of their sewage, mathematics, physics, engineering, architecture, medicine when we encoutered them as the Moors in Spain or when the Greeks and Romans came to Africa to sit at our feet and learn... No, ourstory didnt start 6000 years ago...HIStory did ;)... We are an ancient race and we have seen many transient races come and go and always we are the ones left standing... We are the mothers and fathers and we have seen many cycles come and go... Damn, Uncle Tom is dropping science today...Let me go outside and get off this damn computer.


malik
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Uncle_Tom** They took off the mike vic post. Go to the Community News room for my reply.


money1177
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evia love your site


Uncle_Tom
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and for those of you who think that breding yourselves out of existence is the answer to our problems as a black family are obviously deaf , dumb and blind to your self and kind... But it will be what it will be...Destiny must be fulfilled and this planet must be cleansed before it is repaired... This has all been prophecized and must be fulfilled.


money1177
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kimpeach well stated you know i've always kept my options open i like white men approach a lot better in general not saying all black men don't know how to act


Swirl_girl
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@UNC There's nothing we can do to bring back the strong blk family unit. Those who refuse to date outside their race will hold that down, but for the most part, everyone else is jumping ship sort to speak. LOL (Just look at the responses in this one thread) There's no answer. That's like asking what we could do to unite blks so that we're not looking at "good" hair vs "bad" hair or light skinned vs dark skinned. Or so there won't be so much blk on blk crime. Nothing can be done. It's all gone to the dogs and we'll forever be divided. IMO That's like asking how do we solve the war on poverty or on crime. We know what's kicking us in the ass but will we ever change? We know more blk men need to be around in the households, but that's not happening is it? Everyone just has to do them and find happiness, be it with their own race or outside. Sounding cynical? Nope. It just is what it is.


kimpeach
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esotericdredz You have a point about the "media perception". Like I stated in an earlier post, my fiance is biracial/black and dated white women most of his life. However, we are now engaged and I am black. I think alot of black men date outside their race, but they tend to marry black women. I still say black women need to explore their options more just like black men are.


andik20
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I love those boots!!



Ihavetosay
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kimpeach- I know that black women feel rejected by black men, I USED to feel that way too. Has anyone read the book "The Street" it's fiction yet does a wonderful job of illustrating the complexities of problems in the black community. On one hand you had the black woman FORCED to take care of the household b/c the black man couldn't work. But then the black man feels like his manhood is taken away and becomes resentful against the black woman. At the same time, the black woman is resentful against the black man b/c she IS the one taking care of the family while he's not doing anything--through know fault of his own. This actually extends all the way back to slavery while the black woman was raped by the white man, how does the black man feel NOT being able to protect his wife? Or the fact that once the white man realized there was a family, he would intentionally break it apart. Moving on forward, then we've got the black women who realize all this intentional destruction of the black family infrastructure, and to make up for it, they overcompensate and raise "baby boys". How many of us women grew up in a household where we cleaned, cooked, and reared while our brothers barely did sh*t? I bet more than we realize. So the women go on to college since they were taught how to be responsible while the baby boys are slinging dope etc. But it doesn't end there, b/c whether you're an college educated woman or not, there's a high probability that you grew up without a father and therefore are constantly seeking love and attention. So you act out or you let a man treat you like sh*t. This is a neverending cycle. And don't even get me started on social welfare, that's one of the WORST things that happened to black people. We've got generational welfare families! Then we've got the have nots and haves. The black people who are haves look at the have nots like "why the f*ck should I help you when I busted my ass and you could of done the same?" Well, because unfortunately and sadly, the have nots didn't know any better. Actually this is less a color issue than a political/social issue. What's the answer? Damned if I know. If I knew it I'd fix it. For me personally I just work my ass off and look out for self and family, trying to leave something for children that I either have or adopt. I don't date white men but I also know I ain't gonna end up alone "waiting" on something. I don't see myself with a white man though b/c I don't feel it in my soul, but if it were to happen I wouldn't breed. But I also don't want other black women to feel like thay have to "wait" on something that just might never come. Or to feel LESS THAN just b/c some BLACK MAN tells you that no one else wants you. It's just not true and it's a lie to brainwash you. I think I've said enough <obviously> I need to get back to busting my ass with work.


merrell
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rihanna is pretty ! she should consider modelinq becuz the whole sinqinq career isnt workin. her sonqs are alriqht but they are not leqendary. she is beautiful.


esotericdredz
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@ kimpeach Agreed...I think everyone should approach dating with an open mind and consider their options. In the end, a person is going to settle down with the person who best suits them, be they of the same race or different.


ardentgirl30
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MTOPOO I COULD CARE THE HELL LESS WHAT THE HELL YOU THINK OF ME AND WHAT I SAID.IF YOU HAVE FOUND YOURSELF A WHITE MAN GOOD FOR YOU THATS GREAT AND FIRST OFF I DONT DATE ANY MEN AT ALL ITS BLACK WOMEN ALL DAY EVERYDAY FOR ME. I DONT HAVE NO REGRETS SWEETHEART, BUT GUARANTEE IF I WASNT GAY IT WOULD BE A BLACK MAN YOU BET THAT .AND IAM VERY MUCH EDUCATED BABY AND IT AINT NO NEED TO BE SAD FOR ME I FEEL TREMENDOUSLY SAD FOR YOU. FUCKIN SELLOUT AND YEAH I SAID IT BITCH YOU CAN KEEP YOUR WHITE ASS HUSBAND NO BLACK MAN WANTED YOUR ASS SO YOU KNOW YOU WENT ASTRAY. YOUR HUSBAND AT HIS WALL STREET JOB GETTIN HIS KNOB SLOB BY ONE OF THOSE WHITE GIRLS. I LIKE TO SEE WHAT YO ASS LOOK LIKE OH YEAH YOUR HUSBAND PROBBABLY WOULD MARRY AN OMAROSA IF YOU BLACK ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND THAT ONE. YOU CAN KISS MY LOW SELF ESTEEM AND WHATEVER YOU STATED THAT WAS OF NO IMPORTANCE ME GHETTO THUG ASS. THIS HOE TALKIN A LOT OF SHIT SHE PROBABLY ONE OF THOSE HOTTIE TYPE BITCHES FORM MONIQUE'S CHARM SCHOOL. A HOT FUCKIN BLACK WANNA BE WHITE MESS. TAKE THAT.


QueenOfNewYork
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Enough already of RiRi. Who cares who she dates. Say whatever you may like, but she's trying to reach the white community b/c her albums don't sell in the black community. RiRi is a wash and in my opinion not that talented. Moreover, who would want to date a white man? I wouldn't!!! There is nothing better than a BLACK MAN. Justin Timberlake, Elvis and many other white artists as a previous post stated have stolen what BLACKS have started. How many Black artists have you seen that tapped into a white demographic and have had a stellar career? You can count on one hand, now I employ you to switch the script and see how many whites' that have transgressed into the Black community. Quit buying their music and support your own because at the end of the day, the white people don't give a damn about you!!!!!!!!! Have em RiRi, just maybe you'll last a little longer.


BUTTBREATHBEYONCE
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SO. if thats what she wants,then thats what she wants. she looks BEAUTIFUL ON THE COVER TOO :)


BUTTBREATHBEYONCE
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and that goes 4 BLACK men too. if they want A WHITE CHICK,SO FVCKING WHAT!!!!!!!!!! THATS THEIR BUISINESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Ihavetosay
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ok ONE thing LOL. @esotericdredz - I'm not talking about 90% black men marrying black women THAT MEANS NOTHING WHEN black women OUTNUMBER black men as a whole. So there is no shortage of black women. Even if black men were to marry black women 100% of the time, there are some women who will be left out in the cold (and I'm ignoring the homosexual issue as it more than likely equals out or makes the plight worse for black women). Added to that, the # of educated black women makes that statistic even more sad. Plus the ones in jail? No black man with a straight face can say that he can't find him a good black woman. So NO. The is no "reasonable" reason for black men to date outside their race but the only justifiable one would be--that's just what they prefer. THAT is what I'm fine with, b/c I don't want NO MAN that finds a white woman more desirable than a black woman. They've got their own issues. I'd just ask that they stop polluting out community with these skanky, non-intelligent having ones though.


Uncle_Tom
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ihavetosay I never said nobody else wants the black woman... I said that white men appreciates the black womans body just like everyone else does but no respectable white man is going bring a real black sister home to his family... You brng up Robert Deniro all the time, but what he has is a sick FETISH for black women...He has no loyalty to any particular black woman....He just has a black woman fetish just like some have a foot fetish or a spanking fetish...Thats not what makes for a healthy relationship and his fetish is certainly not a good example fo interracial relationships... I said that white men and black men would learn to respect black women more if they worre their hair in natural styles that fir for African women....Confidence is sexy and beautiful...Black women wearing perms and blonde wigs is a sign of mental illness.


prettylatina
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MTO stop the madness. She said nothing of the sort. She has noticed lately the white guys are killing it right now. Meaning at this time white boys are doing their thing. So what. And if next week Asian men are representing then she would consider one too. lol Good for her. If she likes it, then I love it.


not-an-angel
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i live in raleigh, nc and yesterday i was at the bank and i saw the most put together sista with her her small son. nice biz suit, nice 'do, nails done, etc. come out hand in hand with a MEXICAN. me and my mother was like dayum! hey if the brothas can't do it i say DO YOUR THANG MA MA! white, latino, etc men see bothas f^%$ing up and step right on in....


atlsfinest
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Well i am not a hater and if that is what she thinks then so be it. But as far as for me i love BLACK MEN, i love your swagger, the way you handle business, your sincerity, your passion, hell i will even take yall atitudes. I think that so many times we can take black men and put them in one category but every person is different. Alot of white men want to be black men so bad they want their courage, their ability to just "DO THEM". Of course with everybody there will be problems but i am the type of person that will be there to help my man out when he is having issues and notice i said help and not carry! Black men have it hard and black women have it even harder but when you both of you are together and helping each other out there ain't shi- that you can't accomplish! SO TO ALL MY REAL BLACK MEN KEEP STANDING STRONG AND SUPPORT THOSE BLACK WOMEN THAT HAVE YOUR BACK TOGETHER YALL COULD BE UNSTOPPABLE!!!!


MsCheeks84
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Whether you love him or hate him Uncle Tom comes with some knowledge everyday!!


QueenOfNewYork
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@ Uncle_Tom...while your posts are articulated well, I feel offended that subliminally, you imply that Black women are somewhat subjugated to white men and women. We are not coquettish like white women, who go after Black men principally for $$$. Black women should be venerated. Perhaps you take a course in African American History. @sheman, I love your posts!


MTOpoo
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Ardent, be honest...you're 13, right? Good luck in life, you sad girl. I only hope you get out of your actual AND self-imposed ghetto, and go to high school/college/graduate school and travel the world. I wish you the best even though you're clearly bitter and angry towards me for whatever reason. (And you claim to love black women? You're so typically abusive of them, though! I guess you ARE quite the little stereotype, huh?). Enjoy your racist and derogatory BET and VH1 television shows that tongue-in-cheek make fun of your race and heritage and everything that makes your life harder while your ghetto falls down around you, and wonder why no one cares. I, and others who love ourselves, educate ourselves, and know our value to the world at large will have moved on.



ardentgirl30
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QUEEN OF NEW YOR YOU GOT THAT RIGHT. COULDNT HAVE SAID IT NO BETTER THAN THAT. FINALLY SOME COMMON DAMN SENSE OF IT ALL. LMAO THAT WAS A NICE CUP OF STARBUCKS TO WAKE ASSES UP.


Uncle_Tom
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and some white men like to make sexual conquests of black women because they feel inadequate sexually in comparison with the black men (whether that is real or imgined) and to have the woman of the man that you feel inferior to make them feel like a man...To be able to bed the women of those you wish you were (black men)... Thats one of the many reasons why the slavemasters couldnt stay out of the slave shacks at night screwing black women...They see those strong black bucks in the fields in the daytime and they know the brothers were puttin' it on them...But he made sure he kept his white woman out of bounds because we all know they would have given their right pinky to get an hour with Terrell Owens or Uncle Tom on those hot steamy lonely georgia nights when her inadequate husband pulled his 3 incher out of her leaving her unsatisfied, angry but of course, she was at least still WHITE... BTW. 257th Bytches!!!


kimpeach
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Ihavetosay You are like one of my favorite posters...your last post really hit the nail on the coffin. prettylatina You probably don't know me because I rarely post on here, but I enjoy reading your comments. You are a true sista!


Uncle_Tom
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that fact that you profess a love for "shemans" posts says volumes about you...


derekdee
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this sell out no singing Beyounce wanna be, huge 8 head is wack, Jay z is kicing her off the label for NOT SELLING RECORDS,sogo get soem small love


kimpeach
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not-an-angel I am seeing that more and more everyday. Tired of this topic (for now). I think I will head over to the Bobby Brown or Michael Vick thread.


esotericdredz
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@ illhavetosay I see where you are coming from..I hear that perspective often. I still hold to the view that if black women widened their view and considered all their options, then there would not be those "left out in the cold". Black men should not be criticized for considering their options, nor should black women for doing the same. Fair is fair. In this day and age you arent going to have a 100% marriage rate....There are many factors beyond race and ethnicity....social class, education, personality, values, religion, etc...that lead people to connect and spend time with one another. It is inevitable that some people will date and marry across ethnic lines because they find a common ground aside from skin color.... One thing: Its interesting what is considered to be a "good" man or woman....Sometimes there is a tendency to look at the "resume" alone in determining that...I know plenty of men and women who are professional and educated who are NOT good people...Bad morals, ethics, values...unappealing personality traits...Just not "good people", even though they are accomplished. As much as wanting someone professional and accomplished is desirable, there are many other things that go into finding an ideal mate. Not calling anyone out, but often people who claim they cannot find a partner have a LOT more going on to explain why they can't find a partner. There's also geography...Some cities have much larger black professional communities...making it easier for black professionals to meet...But in other cities the numbers lead people to have to look outside the box much more... It's just not a black and white (no pun intended) issue....There's a lot of factors and no simple answers, nor do I think there need to be. I think if people are open minded enough and know what they want, there's someone out there for everybody.


Superwoman
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@ ardentgirl30 WTF! Are you insane. Ethiopian's ARE BLACK !! If you have any doubt go ask them geezzz! White men don't walk around with Black women as much bc THEY CAN'T TREAT BLACK WOMEN LIKE THEY TREAT WHITE WOMEN. Also it gives black people in this country to much power in their eyes. How can we be all bad as blacks and yet you still want to date and marry us.White ppl in this country are very power conscious. It's different in Europe bc Blacks aren't considered economic or political threats over there. The whole upgrade and downgrade stuff is a mind game. Black women plz stop the begging. If you want a white man go get one. Don't come on here and state we need to have more options too and then sit there waiting. Plz go get one! I have dated white men and it was an eye opener. It's just like going to a fully integrated school.The curtain is pulled back and the mystery is solved.You realize all the hype and propaganda is just that. Whites are not all smart,rich, attractive or successful. You say to yourself is that what it's all about? Damn! Okay bring back the brothers now. No wonder they wanted segregation or could only feel comfortable dealing with a black woman as a slave. These dudes are BULLSH!T !! LMAO! White women chase black men all the time and are never called on it.Black men are always accused of chasing them and that's not true. Going to school with white females I know this. Again were are all the BLACK MEN on this site complaining about Black women dating white men. AGAIN CRICKETS!!! Ladies our men don't care. We should take a page from their book.


QueenOfNewYork
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@ardentgirl30...Thanks! Rarely do I post on MTO, but Uncle_Tom has some nerve. Now, in white typical fashion, he's trying to defend that he didn't mean his posts to be taken the way they are. Typical of a white man and your SN speaks for itself Uncle_Tom.


ardentgirl30
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MTOPOO YEAH WHATS YOUR MY SPACE PAGE NAME SEE IF YOU ARE WORTH ALL YOUR BULLSH'T TALK. YOUR FUNNY AS HELL A REAL KATT WILLIAMS LOL. BUT EVIDENTLY YOU STILL DONT GET IT. LOL IAM MAKING FUN OF MY RACE BABY YOU GOT THAT TWISTED IAM UNLIKE YOU SUPPORTING MY PEOPLE DARLING.WHEN YOU GET A BLACK MAN THAN YOU CAN SPEAK FOR US UNTIL THEN SILENCE PLEASE YAWWWWWWNNNNN.A WASTE OF SPERM.


Ihavetosay
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Uncle_Tom "no respectable white man is going bring a real black sister home to his family" So basically, only the gutter white trash men would want a black woman as a wife? I mean you seem to be saying that what MAKES a white man respectable is the fact that he DOESN'T want a black women? That's a LIE as well, and some of you black men have done a real BANG UP job of convincing black women of that. Sounds like the same crap abusive men say to their women in a whisper "nobody else wants you". Sorry, but it does. And poor women start to believe that. I've had idiots say some of the same crap on those lines "girl, you should hold onto me, there's not too many GOOD black men out there life me". And I immediately know to leave his crazy ass alone. Many (not all) black men have taken that sh*t and RAN like triatheletes with that mess. And unfortunately black women are hurting from being beat down both by society, but ALSO by the black women that supposedly have their backs. "No RESPECTABLE white man would want you". Disgusting! That's just as bad as the Charles Barkley's of the world, he's at least upfront with his hatred, that mess you're spewing is subliminal and subtle but just as destructive. HAIR??? HAIR??? That fixes the problem? Well I've gotta let all my friends rocking the natural styles who get played and hurt as much as unbeweavable women know that. The most ignorant, looney, self-hating people I have EVER met in my life rocked dreads and fros. Dreads ain't even a African thing (at least not for women) when women rock them it's an black AMERICAN thing. It's absurd to think that HAIR can undue the centuries of brainwashing and psychological terror that's plagued black people. Uncle_Tom, people like you really scare me. B/c while your clearly intelligent and spit a lot of knowledge, at the same time you having that knowledge, and the way you carry yourself, can cause a lot of destruction both in your delivery, and in preaching your own personal preferences.


nessey9
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Why is this turning into a raciast thing! why do we care if rihanna like white guys! SHE GAT NO TALENT! SHE CANT SING SHE CANT DANCE I STILL TRYING TO FIGURE OUT HOW SHE GOT A RECORD DEAL SHE IS TRYNA TO SAY STUFF ABOUT WHITE MEN CUS SHE NO NO BLACK MEN OR BLACK WOMEN LIKE HER NEW TECHNO MUSIC AND SHE BETTER STAY AWAY FROM JAYZ CUS SHE NO BEYONCE GA RING DA ALARM LOL!


Superwoman
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Uncle Tom ,there are tons more white based strip clubs with white women demeaning themselves. White women have been demeaning themselves in the strip clubs,porn and music videos for years so plz stop the pathetic mind game about Black women and strip clubs. It's getting tired.


QueenOfNewYork
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@ Superwoman...are you nuts girl or what? White women wait until our Black men have made it the NFL, NBA, music mogul, rapper, actor etc.. or to want them. Where were they before the multi-million dollar contracts came in? I went to a predominantly white school myself and college. And, I, like you can attest to most of it. Lastly, most Black men that do date white women feel like they've garnered a trophy when in all actuality, they got nothing but a gold diggind wh*re.


Uncle_Tom
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ihavetosay, I have the love of a beautiful black woman is is by my side ...I want you to be happy to..If that means you need to try to get a white man, then by all means do it if you think that is the answer for you... Im just telling it like it is and I have no ulterior motives in my missives...Im just the reporter and an observer of life in this culture and an I like to read historical documents tha pertain to todays social strata. For those who dont learn from past mistakes are doomed to repeat them..... Dont be mad at me...Im just calling them like I se em....Truth is sometimes a bitter pill to swallow but evenatually it'll make you healthy.



Superwoman
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@Ihavetosay Plz don't be fooled. UncleTom is a white PERSON not a Black man.


travieboo7
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she looks nice in pic 2


Ihavetosay
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kimpeach- u're sweet ;) esotericdredz- I understand where you're coming from as well. Like I said, I've heard "you should hold onto to me, I'm a GOOD black men" from dudes pulling in crazy money and they were straight maniacs. And some of my sis who are educated are just as crazy. But I know TOO many sis who are dating Tyrone on the block, who sells dope out of their house, lay up on their couch all day, who truly aren't crazy, just lonely, while their black male collegues date Becky, while digging out Renee with the fat ass. Uncle_Tom- I wanted to clarify, I NEVER brought up Robert DeNiro.


Superwoman
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Uncle_Tom The truth is your full of garbage. Why don't you go debate CrackerDevil.


Uncle_Tom
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How many good white women with nice jobs and nice homes and cars do you see dating black men who wash cars for a living? How many black women with nice jobs and nice homes and cars do you see dating black men who wash cars for a living? Please, everyone be honest and thnk this out before you respond with an emotional response... Now tell me why they (both black and white women) wont, if they clearly have the means to take care of themselves and the black car washer also? So now tell me if a black man cannot get anyone to holler at him seriously until he makes a certain amount of money and the corporate power structure keeps the black man on the economic peripheral through racism in the banking system and the educational system, why should black men feel the repsonsibility to have any loyalty to anyone being that he is the kicking stool for American society?


ardentgirl30
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superwoman insane lol no dont thank so. i have a friend whose girlfriend is ethiopian SHE HAS SAID SHE'S NOT BLACK and doesnt consider herself black and thats coming from the horses mouth itself. where did you get your info from wtf.


Uncle_Tom
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@superwoman, just curious...what makes you believe I am a white man and why would I have to hide it from you if I were?


QueenOfNewYork
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@Uncle_Tom...Enough of your rhetoric. A Black man does get someone to holler at him when he makes a certain amount of money - gold digging white whor*s. Black spending power in the U.S. is in the billions. So much that when I took a Marketing class several years ago in college, if Blacks in the U.S. were our own country, we would rank 5th in the world with our spending power. Media propaganda is what makes society think that the White man has power. But, slowly, the power is changing. Look at Obama!


num1missnikki
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I like rihanna and it does not matter what color men she like to date cuz she is the one that has to be with them but on another note Y IN THE HELL ARE SOME OF YALL TALKING ABOUT BEYONCE YALL COMPARE EVERY GOT DAMN BADY TO HER WEAVE WEARING AZZ


Ihavetosay
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Uncle_Tom- Save that. You know damn well if you read my posts that I'm not looking for a white man. Instead of trying to change the focus, why don't you address the absurdity of your claim that HAIR is the ultimate answer, that people with "natural" hair aren't fucked up in the head either, your double talk that you love black women while in the same breathe expressing how black women are less than?


prettylatina
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Kimpeach (smile)Thank you. Just say it how I see it. UncleTom- I dont 100% agree what youre saying on here today. But I still love ya! QueenofNY- What's up Wendy Williams. I just know its you! How you doin??...


Uncle_Tom
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@ihavetosay, you calm down...I never said black women were less than..I said THEY ARE PERCEIVED BY WHITES AS LESS THAN and also by negroes who fall into the white supremacy trap set up by the mass entertainment media.. In fact ,in my eyes, the black woman is MORE THAN....and all that.


Uncle_Tom
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but then again, Im not your average Uncle Tom ;)


MegRai
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Now brothas do you see how we feel when we see and hear these comments like Rihannas?? And for those of you saying sistas are hypocritical? WE don't date Black women(unless they are gay), so why would be mad about who they date or find attractive. I'm worried about Black men cause I like Black men.


QueenOfNewYork
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@ prettylatina...no sweetie, I'm not Wendy Williams, even though I love her!!!



num1missnikki
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UNCLE TOM I NEVER READ UR POST CUZ UR NAME IS STUPID WHY WOULD A PROUD BLACK MAN CALL HIMSELF UNCLE TOM JUST PLAN CRAZY A


Uncle_Tom
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Obama is a sign that the strings are still being pulled by puppet masters who are making you think things are changing... The game aint set up like that boo... Obama is back and financed by the EXACT SAME PEOPLE WHO FINANCE BUSH, GORE, KERRY, CLINTON, etc.........dONT get pulled in by the skin game and the skin tone.... ITS A COOKBOOK!


weneedtostop
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She must be living a very sheltered life. She needs to get out more and mingle with average people. There are fine men of color everywhere. Even if this statement is true, I am sure she just broke the hearts of some men of color. Probably lost many of them as fans in the process. She is exotic looking, but I don't see her as a very beautiful woman. Cute--yes. Average--yes. Gorgeous--No www.weneedtostop.com


CHRISSYSNOW
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@Uncle_Tom Sorry honey but women in general have been the kicking stool for American society? In a recent pole more Americans are more willing to elect a black man then a women. Cracker Devil wrote: "the TRUTH IS WHITE WOMEN ARE UGLY!! They're pale and built like teenage boys.They have big long noses, flat butts, no hips and no lips They need long stringy animal hair or we wouldn't be able to tell what sex they were. " ------------------------ Whatever dude. I have a nice shape and a Jlo butt.During this season I can get my Kim K on too so I have no problem getting any kind of guy. So FU.


Uncle_Tom
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AND BELIEVE me on this..dont get lulled into that stats that black America is the 12th or whatever largest worldwide economy... Those numbers and very misleading...African Americans are CONSUMMERS and employees... Once most of us get those paychecks that cashflow circulates in the black community ZERO times before it gets to Walmart or whomever... A mexicans dollars circulates in the Mexicn community 11 times before it leaves.. In 1875 99% of African Americans worked for white people... In 2007 99% of African Americans work for white people... Roll those stats around in your head ... The only thing that has changed is the illusion of freedom.


Ihavetosay
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Superwoman- I believe Uncle_Tom is a black man. I've met several Uncle_Tom's in my lifetime. Actually, think of "A Different World" the dude that dated Freddie? (The real actor is on CSI). That's the type of dude we're dealing with here. Intelligent, charismatic, but sometimes full of Pure-D-Bullshit. Uncle_Tom- My dear, I'm not upset or hyped up. I'm quite amused. "No respectable white man would bring a black woman home to his family". That's what YOU said. In a moment of what is called a "Freudian Slip" you expressed YOUR opinion and are now attempting to back paddle. Or was it a grammatical error? (I'll give you that out). In addition to your backpaddling advising me that you want me to be happy, ordering me to calm down, it's all an attempt to take spotlight off that fact that you don't even know where to go with your argument anymore. Now, I'll ask you again (I'm quite persistant) can you please explain to me HOW, on earth can a certain hairstyle reverse the centuries of psychological terror on black people especially in the light that many (not all) people who wear "natural" hairstyles need therapy, along with answering, WHo defines what qualifies as "natural" :)


babydoll185
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UNCLE TOM YOU ARE SUCH A RACIST.


Not_Ghetto
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So what if she wants to date white boys? And why are you putting your name on those images? They are already copyrighted and under ownership of VIBE magazine. You can be sued for that.


QueenOfNewYork
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@crissysnow, I agree with your assertion about white women although not all are ugly. There is beauty and ugliness in all races internally as well as externally. @Uncle_Tom I see you have no idea about politics in regards to your comments about Obama. Next, if you're black, it's only on the exterior because you covertly, everything about you is white. Oh, statistics are just that...they always seem to be manipulated - just what you did in your post. PLEASE PEOPLE, LET'S QUIT RESPONDING TO THIS LOSER


malcolm
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cant blame her she's from the Caribbean especially Barbados. the thug mentality does not go over well with the average Caribbean person


kszyu
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I knew it :D I'm waiting for u too RiRi :**


Superwoman
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Cosign -QueenOfNewYork on the potential financial power of the Black community. If more of us could wake up and stop focusing on rims and ice,we'd be a lot better off. @Ihavetosay I'm becoming a little suspicious of you too.Is this some pre-arranged dialogue involving you and Uncle_Tom. Plz don't tell me this white person calling themselves Uncle_Tom is intelligent and charismatic. What are you his press agent.I don't gleam those personal characteristics while reading his post. His style is no different then the person calling themselve Cracker Devil. That person subconsciously disses white people and Uncle_Tom does the opposite. They are simply trying to get responses from people. @MegRai - Don't hold your breath waiting for a response from brothers. Where are all the Black men crying about Rihanna's statement? CRICKETS SOUND.They don't care and neither should we.We black women have the power in our hands if we use it.Financial and political.We need to raise our sons to be the kind of men we want and respect. If black men have so many issues ,who's fault is it? Maybe it's partly the people who raised them? You think ? To hell with white people and what they think.They're hypocrites anyway.


Rin246
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Well that is what white media won'ts you to think. I think she just won'ts a rich white guy, but she is not what white guys checking for. Sure she is pretty but she has no education and can't really sing or dance. I am a Mixed Black woman and I don't date black guys at all anymore. To many baby mama's and half of them ain't finishing High School. Who Cares about what Rihanna dates. She is boring.


MegRai
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Her dad is white


Superwoman
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@Uncle_Tom where did you get those stats.That's just typical pure white voodoo mind control. So what about all the small and medium Black owned companies that Black people work for.How does that figure into your 99% statistics. FOOL!



scoutfinch1984
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There are attractive men and women in ever race. Orlando Bloom, Johnny Depp and Brad Pitt are all very handsome men. On the other side there's Denzel, Boris Kodjoe and Obma. This is 2007, ladies don't limit yourself by dating one race of guys exclusively. There are a lot of good men out there in all shapes, sizes and colors.


MoveOverBeyonce
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Ok, JT is a cutie, but those other two are fugly.


BajeKueen
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MTO where did she say she wanted to a white boyfriend in that extract. Damn yall some instigators


MegRai
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Johnny Depp sexy as hell though. He and Brad Pitt could get it at the drop of a dime.


flygirlph
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ARDENTGIRL30 I H0PE AND PRAY UR N0T HUMAN,[I WAS G0NNA SAY BLACK] BUT U CAN'T P0SSIBLY THINK THAT ETHI0PIANS AREN'T BLACK. WHERE IS ETHI0PIA? IT'S IN AFRICA U IDI0T. PLEASE G0 BACK T0 THIRD GRADE U MISSED 0UT 0N S0CIAL STUDIES!!!!


scoutfinch1984
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I've never heard one of Rihanna songs and I don't know that much about her. I personally don't think she's that pretty. Her features are very strong compared to Beyonce or Nia Long's. I just don't see it.


scoutfinch1984
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MegRai , I'm a married woman..but I agree with you LOL!


BajeKueen
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oo n dont think she buffling this image is not a image at all this is how she really is. from the dress to the snobby attitude n everything its all Robyn


flygirlph
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MEGRAI D0N'T BE PL0TTIN 0N J0HNNY DEPP!! L0L IF I EVER WANTED T0 BE WITH A WHITE MAN THAT W0ULD BE HIM!!! HE IS FINE 0H YEAH AND R0BERT DENIR0 BACK IN THE DAY HE WAS FINE ESPECAILLY 0N G0DFATHER PT 2


Swirl_girl
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The only one on the list who's a cutie is Paul Walker. Justin can go choke on something. He and Eminem get on my LAST nerves. Want the blk swagger and wanna be down; acting like they appreciate blk women then they go and love off the whitest of the white. Justin (wifed blonde pop tart Britney Spears and blonder, blue eyed Cameron Diaz) He was down until all that heat came onto Janet. He sure turned into a white punk. Eminem (pu55y whipped over that white skank Kim. Even took her back after she had a baby by another man then went onto white Mariah.) Can't stand those two.


scoutfinch1984
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My sister is 39 unmarried without children. She's had a few serious relationships and most of the guys have more problems than a math book. She would like to marry and have children before she's too old. I told her to open her mind. Yet she continues to pursue the same old same old. I really wish she would have more of an open mind when it comes to dating. She has been asked out by men outside of her race, but she's afraid to take that step. One of the guys she was dating , cheated on her with a woman of a different race. I'm working on her, I think she'll come around.


QueenOfNewYork
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@superwoman...you're point on. We do have spending power, but much of it is channeled in the wrong way.


c
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She could get it, She is bangin in that cover pic! But the only brotha she would let hit it is Jigga! LOL, Just Kiddin, Bey would kill this girl! Ring the Alarm on this girl! LOL!


catnaye
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@CHRISSYSNOW I feel ya gurl....Djimon Hounsou is one tall drank of water that I would LUV to sip slowly!!! SEXUAL CHOCOLATE!**umph,umph,umph**


ardentgirl30
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FLYGIRLPH IDIOT NOT HARDLY AND HUMAN IAM VERY MUCH LIVING AND BREATHING THE SAME DAMN AIR YOU ARE I GUESS. FOR ONE I WOULDNT COMMENT ON SOMETHING I KNEW OR HAD NO CONFIRMATION ABOUT. IF YOU ARE BLIND TO WHAT I SAID BEFORE I WILL OPEN YOUR EYES FOR YOU SINCE YOUVE MISSED IT. MY HOMEGIRLS GIRLFRIEND IS AGAIN FROM ETHIOPIO AND DOESNT CONSIDER HERSELF BLACK AND,IS THAT OR IS IT NOT COMING FROM SOMEONE WHOSE OF THAT RACE HUH.WHY WOULDN'T IT BE TRUE THAN SHE HAS NOTHING AGAINST BLACKS IF SHE DID WOULD SHE BE DATING MY FRIEND WHO IS BLACK YOU THINK???? AND ON YOUR IDIOT NAME CALLING I WISH AND PRAY YOU COULD SAY THAT TO MY GODDAMN FACE FOR REAL WITH ALL THIS SHIT YOU SAY BEHIND YOUR COMPUTER SCREEN. MISSED OUT ON THIRD GRADE LOL IT MAY SEEM THAT WAY TO YOU SINCE YOU HAD DROP OUT TO TAKE CARE OF WHAT YOUR FOUR OR FIVE KIDS. WTF I HEARD IT FROM THE SOURCE ITSELF MAYBE YOU NEED TO RETHINK WHOSE THE IDIOT HERE. GIRL GO HEAD WITH THAT SHIT THE TOILETS YOUR PLACE FOR THAT. OH BY THE WAY YOU NEED A ROLL OF TISSUE. HOLLA BACK.



Ihavetosay
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@Superwoman- NO!! I don't know Uncle_Tom LOL. For all I know he could be a 15 year-old geek white boy. But so could you! None of know who any of us on here really are. Some people you just get a feeling about and like I said, he reminds me of that dude from "A Different World", intelligent, but believes he knows it ALL and is on a whole nother level than everyone else and we all should get on his level when in reality he's full of it 50% of the time. But just because I vehemently disagree with him on most things, doesn't mean he can't be an intelligent person, or I have to attack him or anyone who agrees with some of the stuff he spews. As far as spending power: when black businesses pay their black employees, they don't then go and spend it at another black owned business, they spend it in another community. Our dollar doesn't even circle our neighborhood once. We have an unbelievable spending power, and we hand it right over to the white & asian communities.


YusefX
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The cancer of white supremacy is in her. Very sad. Its very prevelent in the islands. The clubs down there are outragious and the way oomen treat themselves pains me deeply. The whole goal of the white supremists is to destroy the black race in the world. They are accomplishing this in america by locking up brothers left and right, leaving the black woman without mates. Then black women look at the black men as animals,triflin, no good lazy people. Adding insult to injury are these anti black propaganda films like guess who ,something new to name two. Portraying the black man as a criminal/thug/pimp/swindler. Then a white man with very eurocentric features as a wonderful,beautiful productive and sweeps the sister off her feet and falls in love. heres Law # 12 of power Use Selective Honesty and Generosity to Disarm your Victim One sincere and honest move will cover over dozens of dishonest ones. Open-hearted gestures of honesty and generosity bring down the guard of even the most suspicious people. Once your selective honesty opens a hole in their armor, you can deceive and manipulate them at will. A timely gift – a Trojan horse – will serve the same purpose. Black people are dissappearing from the planet faster than anything else . Im sorry for taking things so far off base, but I had to say something revolving around some of your posts.


ardentgirl30
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FLYGIRLPH AFRICANS ARE NOT BLACK ASSHOLE. ITS OBVIOUS YOU DIDNT LEARN MUCH. AND FURTHER MORE I WASNT TALKIN TO YOU. MIND YO DAMN BUSINESS.


HauteCoutureDiva
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Well, the white boys can have her ALIEN looking a**. Guess she doesn't want Jay anymore huh?


HauteCoutureDiva
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I say this A LOT...MTO, y'all mofos need some REAL stories man. You think I wanna get outta bed to read about this 10-head girl all the time?!


ninja
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I co-sign with MTOpoo. My boyfriend can't wait for me to meet his conservative, upper middle class parents, that so happen to be white. No he does not act black...whatever that means. Yes he is attractive and yes he treats me well. We talk about getting married and kids in the future. I am not skinny or light skinned with long hair. I am thick and brown with a short hair cut. Sometimes when I don't feel like doing my hair...I might wear a wig. That doesn't make me confused or hate myself. I am thinking about getting it locked because of the efficiency. Hair does not make you black. White people are not the only race with straight hair...get a clue. My man loves to show me off. I also thought I'd throw in that he likes to suck my toes...you know...just for fun. Peace.


strwby_cheesecake
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Wow aren't we way off topic - Rhianna do you. As far as the issues with black women - the day we as women respect ourselves and get our own shit together is the day we can demand respect. A group of us went to a basketball game last year and sitting in the row over was nothing but black groupies wearing hardly nothing, I was so embarrassed. This is what society sees, trampy black women who are willing to do anything for a dollar. We have to do better - there is no excuse for this. Please don't comment to me about women who do it feed there kids! First these women have 2 to 5 kids by 3 different daddie, all of which are in prison! Get a CLUE


strongblackwoman
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wow alot of comments, alot of over exaggerated opinions.... First and foremost, to each its own, and I see MTO is at it with their infamous spin to a story, but hey white guys are hot just like black men, just latino men, etc. Its just a description, and one race isnt sexier or hotter than the other, it just depends on the individual. I find it so funny how these kind of stories always get spinned into that white male/black woman vice versa debate. The problem with America is they so busy worrying about everybody else and what they are doing, we never can get anything done that's worth doing or debating about.... As for Rihanna, I agree KIMPEACH, she is of no importance, this chick has made alot of dumb statements, remember? she was the one who stated she wanted to be like alicia keys sell millions without taking her clothes off, then turned around at 18 and went buckwild, lol, then she also dissed her own nationality, so what she say is useless, and hey I figured she'll be with a white boy anyway, she doesn't even cater to our race, style wise, and there isn't nothing wrong with being different, hey to each its own.... And you guys are hilarious, man that mike tyson post with that light skin woman was screaming about black men getting money and dating lighter women etc. now here is a young black girl being attractive to white men, and yal are cheering her on because some of you assume MAJORITY of black men are loosers and won't step up etc, I LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS IF YOU IS SINGLE AND YOU FEEL YOU ARE GETTING TOO OLD TO BE BY YOURSELF, ETC. THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH OUR BLACK MEN BEING USELESS, THAT IS YOU, ALL YOU, so please stop trying to point fingers at others because you can't get yourself together. MOST of the time, women don't know what to do with a good black man, speaking from expereince, I've let a couple go because my priorities were fuked up, thank God I was blessed with another one, but my point is most of the time if you sit back and analyze the situation at hand and think about all the men you let go etc, sometimes in the end it might be you just dont want to be with anyone and that is why you are single.... I'm not going at anyone in particular, I'm talking in general... I just get real annoyed when I read post that try to bash majority of black men as being scumbags who are lazy etc. MTo has proved that we have so well educated bros, miamiblack, blackdaddy, Uncle Tom (when he ain't being sarcastic), mrblackman, od26, dcalltime(when he isn't yelling)bklynrogue,c, smitty, princecharming, etc. and the list goes on and the ages of these men start from 18 up to thirties... women please stop listening to Oprah, lol, and those dumb ass statistics that try to tell you why you are the way you are.....and sorry if anyone takes offense to it, i wasn't going at anyone.... myspace.com/kia02_07


strongblackwoman
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HAUTECOUTUREDIVA lmao, behave!


Swirl_girl
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@UNC Please clarify---Bobby D has a "fetish" for blk women? It's not the case he loves himself some chocolate more that he has a sick "fetish"? So when a rich white man wifes many blk women and show them in public, they don't appreciate blk beauty? They just have a freaky "fetish"?


trinigirly
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as far as i know...rihanna is half white,so she grew up with that diversity.so it's cool if she chooses to date one eventually.


InYourDreams
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Ok look, When people say " we have no use for her"..that makes no sense......What, do you want her to cook, clean, make your bed...what. She is a singer..Since I have read so many comments about why you guys dislike her, now I know why she is making non R&B music. You can't rely on a black person for anything. She can't even rely on her own countrymen to give her support. We find so many faults in her, why not find the good. She is just 19 years old, give her a break. She can dance, If you took the time to watch her video, she is the only singer who has did pointe ballet in her damn video...She can sing, but if she cant sing like mariah then i guess she can't really sing. I wish some off you lames would get out there and try to sell records. If she wasn'tso out there, she would be right in the box with the Sunshine Andersons, the Vivian Greens and the India Irie's...not selling and not endorseing shit..Singers have to appeal to everyone, black, white, asian..whoever..this is America.


InYourDreams
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@ trinigirly , You need to do your research before you post bull like " she's half white". Last time I checked, she wasn't Half anything...


sorryIdontwantu
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@ Uncle Tom If Rihanna looks biracial, then wtf do I look like? www.myspace.com/mrsdsyn


MrChuck
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Uncle Tom, it is your choice to not like black women but you don't have to be so mean and put them down and act as if we white men are superior to you. I am white and I have never looked down on black women or even black men. If we are degrading ourselves when we bring home black women then white wome do the same things and they do it more obviously. I'm challenging you to come talk all of that what you said here on this board that I co-own because until a white man actually tells you those things, you are basically exposing your own negative feelings about your own women and so far, I have only seen black men do this. I think black women deserve better and if that means dating white men then maybe that is the next step for them. It's not as hard as you think it is for them to do so and believe it or not, some of us white boys are not always a step up, my woman makes me better and she's black! http://www.ebonywomenandivorymen.com



ThatsBangOutOfOrder
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Why do people say Rihanna is both black and white? I sawa photo of her mum and her mum's very dark - like African looking dark. There was even a temporary photo of Rihanna and her dad at the Music awards back in her country and he's no white man. He's light skinned but not white. He had nappy hair like an ordinary black man. People need to realise that alot of people from the Caribbean and the Americas in general have mixed blood from generations and generations before. Genes get caught up from generations before and would appear now. Beyonce is as light as her and she's not half white, so are many other singers. Also there are creams and cosmetical agents which helps to create a fairer and even skin tone. So stop saying she's half white when she really isn't.


MrChuck
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You are definitely one of those brainwashed negroes. I'm a white man and I have never heard a white man say what you have said and even if he thinks that way, he has enough decency not to say it where black women can see it. You want to demean women of your own race and any white woman who would bring home a black man like you is lower than trash. But my challenge to you is still on. Come talk that over here and see what feedback you get. You just might learn something or go away madder than you are at Rhianna right now for wanting men who are not of your race. http://www.ebonywomenandivorymen.com


Ltcmdr49022
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Another sell-out. What a surprise!


MrChuck
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My message were directed to Uncle Tom (what self respecting black man would take on that moniker) but anyone else who has strong ideas or misinformation to share is welcome too. Otherwise you stay where it is safe and spew your ignorance.


ThatsBangOutOfOrder
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Another thing, in 2005 when Rihanna came out just 2 years ago, she was darker than she actaully is now. Look at her Pon de Replay cd or whatever it's called. She had a darker skin tone. I even noticed spots on her skin in the photos back then and now, they've practically cleared up. It only takes money for the finest, quality creams. She has an image to display so she needs to look her best at all times and that means presenting a clear skin tone.


MrChuck
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Yusef you should be concerned about how black men degrade their own black women too. I can't think of other races who do this as much as black men so you can't really blame a black woman for not wanting them. It's not white supremacy cancer, it's black women realizing that they can do better and black men are a last resort and many black women rather be single than to deal with what a black man has to offer, or doesn't have to offer I should say. You actually have a black man on here degrading black women and blaming white men for his lack of interest in them and calling himself Uncle Tom. How sad is that, but he's typical of what I hear about the black male and black women can do much better.


MrChuck
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weneedtostop I can't believe you said that. She doesn't owe black men any loyalty. She can date who she wants to date just like they are doing. And yes, you need to stop with the foolishness.


Olan
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BLACK PEOPLE ARE SOOOO DUMB. Do you ever hear white people saying anything like that about black people, let alone a white man saying that about black women. You guys are so stupid, self-hating and ignorant. Keep glorifying white people. That is why the run this s**t!


ThatsBangOutOfOrder
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Why do people go on and on about black men, white women, black women, black men. Can't people actually realise that EVERY SINGLE PERSON on this planet is INDIVIDUALLY DIFFERENT. When you speak for a particular group, you're not actually speaking for all. It's like saying black women can't cook or white women can't love sports. It's ridiculous because not every single black woman or white woman or white man is going to be that way. Everyone's just different. So whoever's saying that rich, upper-class black or white women wouldn't want to be with a black man get a grip. For fk sake!


MrChuck
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Black guys like Uncle Tom is the reason why the black community is in the situation it's in now. Black women who date white men know this and they want better for themselves and there are some decent, respectable white men who are very interested. It's just that too many black women have bought into the message you are trying to convince them of, that nobody wants them, especially not us great, superior white men. So it's hard for them to take us seriously because you have pumped us up so much to where they feel like we are out of their league and they have no other choice but the likes of some black man who is going to rub in her face that black men date interracially more. So what? What else do you have worthwhile? I don't see anything.


MrChuck
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ThatsBangOutOfOrder He was saying that no white man about anything would be with a black woman other than for secret sex. He sounds like a huge fan of white men.


MrsSJackson
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Nice photos Ri Ri.


cute-n-intellegent
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tell dem bitches bajan fa life


MTOpoo
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strongblackwoman posted earlier: "MTo has proved that we have so well educated bros, miamiblack, blackdaddy, Uncle Tom (when he ain't being sarcastic), mrblackman, od26..." To include on this list someone as racist, vile, judgmental and abusive of black woman as Uncle Tom on this list shows how deep the problem is for many black women. The guy can barely keep his grammar together and writes as if he's a maniac--totally off his rocker! Always saying the most negative things about black women...and you rush to his defense. It's pathetic. Black women need to wake up and have some respect for themselves. Stop letting these negative "brothers" use and manipulate you, and just find someone who treats you well. Seriously...any black man who really loved you would just want to see you happy and taken care of--no matter what race your significant other is. My dad and my brothers all love me AND my white husband, because he is a good man, who wouldn't dare to say the things to ANY woman that Uncle Tom said to ALL black women here today. Any body who doesn't want you to be happy and can't joyfully share in your success and mental well-being is your ENEMY--regardless of their skin tone.



montoya
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If Rihanna wants to date white guys, that's her prerogative. Nothing wrong with that. Believe it or not, some Black women really are better off dating a vanilla brother. Besides, isn't she half white, anyway?


MrChuck
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It bothers black men like Uncle Tom to see a girl like Rhianna have little or no interest in black men. That is why they are saying harsh things about her. If it did not bother them, they would wish her well and move on about their business of being jealous of white men and worshipping any white woman woman who will give them the time of day no matter what she looks like.


Bronx_Representative
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Black is beautiful


shawna19
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rihanna looks cute but what is the big deal her father is white so its not like she would be dating outside her race if she's half white herself


MrChuck
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Swirl girl Yes sadly, that's how many black men seem to be. When we like their women, we have some fetish but when they like our women, they are to be taken seriously and they are some how doing better now. At least that is the image they put out there. I'm only observing these things but it really is sad how they talk about black women. I think it's an attempt to take the spot light away from them and how they have failed miserably as a race of men.


MrChuck
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MTOpoo In a society where men are valued over women and white over black, who else can black men like Unlce Tom lash out on and degrade other than black women. But what he doesn't realize is white women are often looked down upon when they get into relationships with black men and have mixed offspring. White men to some degree are celebrated for doing so. I've yet to meet a white man face any real backlash for marring a black woman but white women have been run out of communities over black men. When given a choice I would say most white families would prefer the woman over a man who is stereotyped and often times, unfairly stereotyped as violent, ignorant, self loathing, criminally involved, and animalistic by society. They think since they date interracially more that they somehow have a seal of approval and it is not the case whatsoever.


QueenOfNewYork
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@MrChuck....You have some nerve! White men have defiled Black women for centuries. For you to make some of the comments in your post was not very incandescent on your part. Furthermore, I take offense to your comment that Black women who date white men know this and they want better for themselves. It was your evil race that has raped and humiliated Black women or shall I say the Black race in general. We have been stripped of so much and it continues on today...To have the audacity to come in here and say what you have said is boorish. Surely there is some website that caters to your kind. Why not utilize Google and find it Basta*rd!


MrChuck
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Queen of New York I won't argue with you and I admire your loyalty and the fact that you defend your men. You should do that and I hope you are receiving the same loyalty from black men in return. Again, I admire you very much.


PreppyNoir
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Uncle_Tom sounds intelligent with some kernels of truth, but also misguided. You could have made your points a lot better, but there was too much else coming out in them. You know what, perhaps the black family is dead. You know what, it's true. Black men have been colonized to feel that white and light are right. But at the same time, I have never met a black woman who didn't find white men attractive. Trust, black men are not the only ones who buy into this. Also, black women and white men like MrBennett, I mean MrChuck, are not the only ones who feel that black men are the problem. There are black men, white women, Thai intersexed, etc. who feel that way too. CALLING ALL BLACK WOMEN WHO BELIEVE THAT BLACK MEN ARE THE ROOT OF THE BLACK COMMUNITY'S ILLS: Go to those interracial dating Web sites that have been posted. Date non-black men. Go marry the most blone-haired, blue-eyed man you can find (e.g., Paul Walker). (As much as we complain about interracial dating in the black community, we are a lot more likely to accept a white spouse than the white community is to accept a black spouse, MALE OR FEMALE!) It OK. In the words of Nike: Just do it. But shut up about it already. INTERRACIAL DATING seems to capture discussions in the black community more than anything else. It's funny how everyone is pointing at somebody else, even when they say they are not. And I understand reacting to somebody pointing at you. But I would have a lot more respect for these discussions if MORE people came at it like, "Yeah, date who you want to date," instead of people, including what seems to be a white man, saying, "It's their fault!" Stop blaming, rationalizing, intellectualizing, and pseudo-intellectualizing and JUST DO IT.


MrChuck
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Queen of New York I forgot to say those white men you speak of disgust me and they do not represent me and I never said Uncle Tom represent all black men and for black womens sake, I hope he doesn't. Continue to defend your own, I think it's a great and it's one more reason why I so admire and adore black women. Their passion and loyalty is rare these days.


PreppyNoir
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AND YES, BLACK WOMEN ARE ATTRACTIVE AND WHITE MEN DO FIND BLACK WOMEN ATTRACTIVE. (It's just that back in the slave days they didn't know how to ask properly the way they asked their white women or, in modern times, white and non-white women.) There are many black women who are loyal to black men. But if you find that you are getting angry at black men for being single and you feel like it's time to date a white man, all I am saying is JUST DO IT. Do you really have to attack members of your own race to do it? Do you have to sever yourself so completely to justify it? I AM NOT SAYING THAT ALL BLACK WOMEN DO THIS! Quite the contrary. But damn! LOL


QueenOfNewYork
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Why are we still entertaining Uncle_Tom? He came in here to do just that. @MrChuck...you are making some sense. Our loyalty is rare these days.


MrChuck
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QueenOfNewYork I know you got very angry with me but I never meant to upset you. I am not fond of black males but it's only because of how I have seen them degrade black women in real life and online. They don't have any loyalty and a disloyal person is worthless. When I say loyal I do not mean black men have to date black women only but why talk so negatively about her in a public forum? Have some respect for yourself and the race you were born into. Now other than that, I would not have an issue with them and you are right, ignorant white men are to blame for a lot of the problems too but instead of black men like Uncle Tom calling them out as you did, he is online praising white men and hinting to the fact that they are too good to really be interested in a black woman for something serious other than sex.


MTOpoo
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PreppyNoir: Your comments are some of just a few here today that make any sense, lol. And that will officially be my last word on this topic, b/c it's taken up enough of my time. Have great lives, everyone...break out of your boxes and be positive!


QueenOfNewYork
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@PreppyNoir...I like your comments and I'm not pseudo intelletualizing when I say...It is their fault.



hottie10
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well i guess all the black men must think she looks like an allien lol


PreppyNoir
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LOL That is too funny. Then do your thing. You know full well that when you say that, people will feel the need to defend themselves, especially when they are screwed over by the same processes that are causing you problems. Dare I say, it's especially screwed up for black men, given that the definition of masculinity in the black community has been warped and twisted beyond recognition at this point.


Ladies1st
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ummmm,forget all that crap MTO tell us what the hell she way sayin about Jay-Z in the mag...and why she couldnt stand to look at him any longer


PreppyNoir
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MTOpoo, I'm sitting out of this too. These debates never seem to be productive. And MTO will keep posting these things as long as there are 400+ comments that go along with them. I am going (to attempt) to boycott this topic from now on.


strawcream
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ok well if you notice RiRi is very light skin therefore I would not be surprise if her mommie or daddie is white. White men stays in Barbados anyway that is why so many of the children there are of a lighter complextion. Karine aka super head is from Barbados so check that! And to you RiRi child its not about being with a white man then it is being with the right man...


Daywalker
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Who cares she's wack. @Uncle_Tom My Brother you tell the truth.I look foward to reading your comments.God Bless You.....


PlayaRushous
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LMAO @ folks comments.. As hor her, to each is own I guess... IF thats whats she likes, then so be it..Love her hair, love the bike in the last photo.. That bad boy is HOTTTT....LOL


JukeBox
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WHY RICH BLACK FOLKS ALWAYS WANT TO GO AFTER WHITE PEOPLE? THIS SH*T IS DISGUSTING. THIS WOMAN WANTS TO END UP LIKE DIANA ROSS, ALONE WITH 15 KIDS. ONLY A BAJAN MAN WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU AND MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE A QUEEN. RIHANNA IS A TRAITOR, SHE DONT WANT NO WHITE MAN BECAUSE OF HER PREFERENCE. SHE JUST DOING LIKE OLD SCHOOL WEST INDIANS DOES DO. THINK WHITE IS BETTER. (SPITS)


JukeBox
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@ RNW LOL HER HAIR DOES LOOK LIKE A HELMET.


Daywalker
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To all you Sistahs out there DATING OUTSIDE boys will be boys!


mayfield1970
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the Willie Lynch theory is becoming increasingly apparent. Its unfortunate


JukeBox
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@ DJENX- THAT IS VERY TRUE


thediva
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i'm down with the swirl


dropdead71
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Hmmmm...something is just not right with any of this. Why is that quote on the front of the magazine about her feelings toward Jigga? And why do I want to hear about her personal attraction to white men in VIBE MAgazine? I give up. Also, I have to agree that if this was about a black man and a white women, the post woulda blown up by now. Lots of hypocrisy out there.


MONIQUEP
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OH WELL EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN PREFERENCE MYSPACE.COM/POODIE_N_ILLA



Punkie
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Who the hell is Robyn....Is that her real name??? Who cares if she's into white guys. Big deal. I honestly think this new look of hers is all one big act that Jay-Z is making her do. I think she's trying way to hard, and she comes across as very corny to me.... She wanted this whole rebel, not give a damn about much image, yet her album sounded like it was a Hilary Duff album...


Lavi
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Yea, like it blew up on that Mike Tyson post *rolls eyes* That was a mess. I give up on trying to figure out why Rihanna keeps opening her mouth. She can do what she wants. I mean, she's saying that she sees some white guys, and thinks they're hot. I see hot white guys too. And fine black guys. And same on Latinos, Asians, Italians. The point? I'll just sit back and see how many posts are on this one by...Monday.


flygirlph
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ARDENT PLEASE LIKE I SAID UR DUMB AND I WILL SAY IT 2 YA FACE WH ARE U??? ANYWAY I HAVE 1 CHILD AND AND A VERY SUCCESSFUL HUSBAND AND I AM SUCCESSFUL AS WELL AND I'M IN C0LLEGE GETTING A PHD U DUMBFUK. LIKE I SAID AFRICANS ARE BLACK AND U NEED 2 GRADUATE FRM 3RD GRADE!!! U SEE H0W I DIDN'T REALLY CURSE U 0UT? THAT'S BECAUSE IT'S 0NLY A BL0G AND IT D0ESN'T GET ME UPSET! I'M 2 C00L F0R THAT!!! D0N'T GET MAD BECAUSE UR UNEDUCATED JUST PICK UP A B00K THAT'S ALL. N0 HARD FEELINGS!!!


Punkie
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BTW all she's saying is there's alot of hot white guys and she wouldnt mind trying em out.


MyLoveIsLikeWoah
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I don't really see where she says this but who cares? With that voice, nobody wants her anyway


cutie64
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Shes not wrong at all. Its her perference, and a free world she can like white men. I know I do!!!!I feel like they are better looking than black men,on any given day.


Daywalker
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@Crackerdevil Damn you and Uncle_Tom sound like tha same person lol.Any way I agree with you also.White women don't do it for me.Most of them have this I'm white happy and careless about anyone attitude.Plus they just have no flavor.I don't hang out with some of my friends because I refuse to mingle with white women.Some of my friends go out their way to get a white girl to look at them.They are the biggest bullsh.i.t .artist and gold diggers on earth bar none.No Cave B.i.t.c.h.e.s. for me.


cutie64
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Stop hatin you ugly darkies!!!!!!!


cutie64
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You black girls always got a additude about something. Learn to relax, you up tight fat, bitches!!!


hired_gun
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Wait...so let me get this clear. From what some of you black women saying on here, you need get with a white man in order to feel accepted and beautiful? ...lol... Damn! we've come a long way. Black women are now accepting validation and approval from white men. lOll....Some of you black women have really poor self-esteem, no wonder many of you are single.


hired_gun
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@ cuti64....your atttitude is unbecoming to your name. Such hostility towards black men...lol... Man! it seems like black men is the gift and curse of all women...ahahahah


JukeBox
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@HIRED_GUN YOU DUM*SS, BLACK WOMEN ARE SINGLE BECAUSE UNLIKE WHITE WOMEN WHO DO NOTHING BUT CHASE BLACK D*CK ALL DAY, ARE HOLDING DOWN THE FAMILY. IS THAT HOW YOU TALK TO YOUR MOTHER?


hired_gun
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let me make it clear...if you are a black women and loves white men...you don't need any validation from black men. You are grown, go ahead and do what makes you happy. But, i will tell you this, if you think white meat is the solution to your happiness your are naive and mistaken. No one controls your happiness, accept yourself. They can add to your happiness, but no one can make you happy if you are inherently miserable. A lot of black women ( not trying to generalize) are miserable. And if reflects in your attitudes and projections towards people. smile sometimes, you will be surprise how a simple smile will make you feel.


hired_gun
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@jukboxe....i got 99 problems, but a bitch aint one.. listen, that is powerful statement by Jay-z. It is simply stating, you and only you have control of your life. I have no doubt, there a bunch of lousy men out there of all races...but, i dare say, there are a bunch of lousy women as well. But, i am not bitching...i am learning and every experience with a bad woman is a learning experience. I hope to learn from all of my experiences, so i can become better prepared to make the right decisions when the time comes.


hired_gun
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@honeyluv Her comments are trivial at best. it sounds like a highschool crushing on some famous actors... It is a superfical statement by a superficial naive little girl...lol..



hired_gun
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orlando bloom? Justin Timberlake?...lol...am i the only one who sees these two as effiminate men? lol...i am sorry...i am not hating...they are talented, but they are so feminine...


JukeBox
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@ HIRED_GUN OK. THANKS FOR EXPLAINING, YOU FOOLED ME WITH YOUR RANT ABOUT BLACK WOMEN BEING SINGLE BECAUSE ALL WE ALLEGEDLY HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM. BUT YOU KNOW WHAT FUELS THAT LOW SELF ESTEEM? BLACK MEN LIKE YOU WHO DROOL OVER H*ES LIKE KIM KARDASHIAN, AND THEN TURN AROUND AND TELL BLACK WOMEN THAT WE ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGH....


hired_gun
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@jukebox..."you are holding down the family" i wouldn't use those exact words. Most black women are doing the best that they can do with the hands that were dealt to them. Most likely, many unwed mothers, got involve with a boy ( not a man) who probably grew up with out a father. Now, they are raising boys themselves, without a father figure. This boy will grow-up to get another naive, sexual active girl pregnant. She will try to raise her kids without a father. If she has a girl, the girl will most likely grow up with issues, not trusting men or becomes sexually active at young age, trying to find love in men that only see her as a good lay. She too will get pregnant have bastard child. You see, the cycle continues. You blame black men, but truth is, black women is as much to blame.


soseductive23
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MTO,I don't see anything wrong with her wanting to date white men. She has her own preference and to each their own. Black men date and marry white women all the time. So why is it such a problem when a black woman wants to date outside their race?


hired_gun
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@ jukebox... baby...don't buy into the hype. Trust me, not every black men wants a white woman. Trust me when i say this. Satistically, more successful black men are marrying black women. Sure, you haver your exceptions, but they are not the norm. There are many good brothas that is searching for black women. Didn't essence come out with a issue that shows 60 successful, rich black men searching for black women. There were the rich ones, imaging all the other brothas who are holding a 9 to 5, going to school, taking care of business. Some of you women woulnd't know a good men if he spat on you. Some of you women need training in spotting a good man.


hired_gun
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@ soseductive.. This is not a game show...you going by the logic of tic of tac...lol if white men stirs her passion, then it is her god giving right to go after them. But, if you are going by the logic, black men do it, so can i, then you are cheating yoursefl..


hired_gun
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i don't give a fuck in rhinna or any black actress vow to swear off black men for good. That one detract from my attraction to black women. My attraction to black women is inherit..it is genetic. For me to deny this attraction is to deny who i am as a person. It would be cheating myself.


hired_gun
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correction: i dont give a f#ck if rhiana or any black vow to swear off black men for good. forgive me...a lot of mistake...this is it...i am gone...i gotta go


hired_gun
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I don't give a f#ck in rhinna or any black actress vow to swear off black men for good. That will not detract from my attraction to black women. My attraction to black women is inherit..it is genetic. For me to deny this attraction is to deny who i am as a person. It would be cheating myself. i had to correct it once more...peace..goodnight..and stop fighting amongst yourselves. One person view is not reflective of an entire race. That's her view. leave it a that. peace


mshotbrown
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I don't understand why the hell every body hating on riri comments,because black seem to date outside their race all the time


Xlisse
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sooo who cares


Valgas
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She is a half breed so her words and "preferences" are less offensive. I've been told by plenty black women how long term relationships with white men are rosy in the beginning but in the end it turns REAL sour. The first time a black chick hears him utter the n word it's over. He is gonna treat you like a slave from that point on. But hey, some black chicks love that. This one chick told me how here white prince turned out to be the grand dragon of the KKK (metaphorically folks). Dude verbally and mentally abused her for a while till she felt like running away [like a slave]. Black women are more willing to put up with the BS from a white boy it seems.


PreppyNoir
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Oh Lord... Paging Jesus Christ...


flygirlph
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cutie64 I know ur just joking!! Because u r making some outlandish comments and if u aren't black I suggest u watch ur mouth. Secondly who told u all black women were fat? I wear a size 4 and the last time I checked that was petite. Really now we're all on here bloggin but u takin it tooooooooo far and if ur for real bring that talk to Philly and see how far u get!!!!!!!!!


YusefX
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United independant compensatory code neely fuller jr excellent book that breaks down white supremacy and why until there is racial equality there should be no interracial marriages or dating. In the book he explains that since a marriage is mutual, that no black person can be married to a white person because the white person has more power than the spouse, the offspring cannot be children because a white person cannot properly nurture and non white child. Those interacial couples who say love conquers all, dont kid yourselves, if you have offspring they still have to operate in a world of racial tribalism. In school all the races sat together at lunch, there were exceptions but fpr the most part thats how it was. Nature intended black women with black men, white women with white men etc. The white person of the attempt marriage will by default have the upperhand in all areas of existence over the non white partner. Like I said earlier, the plan is to destroy the black race, if you date outside your race you contribute to your destruction. State governments across the country are debating right now if violent offenders should have gps tracking chips implanted in their wrists. This is the future we are facing, who makes up a huge percentage and ratio of violent offenders. Black folks. Some companies are requiring implanted chips so that if they steal they can be tracked and captured. Lets seriously get off this trivial nonsense on this website. We are on a slippery slope and if you dont take a stand and open your mouths now you may never get the chance again. Sorry to drift so far off topic



Nevurary
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whatever!?! =P if a guy was doing it~~> which all of them.. of all races have been since the dawn of time! it would not be a big deal.......let a woman drift and IT IS THE APOCALYPSE!!!! REALLY DOUGH......evolution moves in a forward progression, no matter how many of us would like to think we have some say in "The Big Scheme" of things.......the world revolves and changes and will continue to be different moving into the future....you can not stop it......there is no "Pure" race, there is no "Pure" anything, we are all vulnerable creatures. Everything was derived from something else, we just wish we knew, but we never will.


sp1duh
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I dunno why this is even an article. If she's feelin' white guys, then fuck it, that's her perrogative! Besides, It's fucking Rihanna! It's not like she's Beyonce saying that shit. C'mon, she went from this pretty young girl from the islands to looking like an unlockable character on "Tekken 4." lol. And she can't even sing, so it's even NOT that serious. This is the same girl that said she aspires to be the "Black Madonna"....whatever.


youarejinxed
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Who is Robyn???? That's what I'd like to know. Is that her alter-ego or something?


dropdead71
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@Valgas You make a very good point! The "N" word will always slip out at some point. NO THANKS!!!


soseductive23
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@ hired_gun I wasn't going by "logic" and I never stated that the reason she should date white guys is because black men always date white women. I said that everyone has their preference and to each their own. That means she should date white men, because she is attracted to them. I included the fact that black men date white women, because MTO is making it seem like it's a big deal or like something is wrong with it. However, I do not see them make it a story when a black man choses to be involved with a white woman. Re-read their remarks. Do you see the double standard?


dropdead71
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@YusefX I've read many books that explain exactly what you're talking about. Maybe you could share some titles so people can get out there and read these books. BTW: The Isis Papers is a book to read.


dropdead71
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Personally I think Rhianna makes these comments to make Jay-Z jealous. There was an article about her dating a white guy not long ago in a music magazine.


dropdead71
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I meant to say: "trying to make him jealous, he probably could care less."


mistyshere
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There's nothing wrong with dating white men, you ladies need to wake and learn how to be treated right. Dating a black man just because you are black is crazy. I've been married to a white man for 10 years and we are still very happy. No infidelity, no baby mama drama,no downlow lifestyle, no drama -- just a mellow kicked back life and marriage. I love it. Wake up!


sojournertruth
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MTO lies, she never said that she wanted to date white guys. She said that there were some fine white guys. You all are just trying to get Black people all worked up, which is what you do best.


Halle
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Whoever RHIANNA dates is lucky to get her! SHE IS BEAUTIFUL!


dropdead71
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White men do look @ sistas as prostitutes in a deep sense. The woman could be more successful than the white man, but deep down that is his "real" perception of her. And no, socially not many white men will bring a sista home to mom and dad.


strawcream
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word on the street is: Especially in Barbados people are saying........ RiRi is a man stealer RiRi is ing Jay Z RiRi sleeps with white men Ri Ri is a barbados whore Now that was on the radio Wendy Williams show and people are talking so now you be the judge!


dropdead71
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She will regret it.


strawcream
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@ dropdead71 WOW! Thats really nice you met you a nice man first of all and being that you went out your race and met a decent white man who respect you and treats you like a woman thats really special. I agree with you about waking up because I'm right at that breaking point. I'm not saying all brothers are bad or disrespectful but the majority which is a large percentage are. I'm tired of the down low garbage, the cheating, lies, betrayal, childish ways...etc A real man regardless of what race he is should know how to handle a real woman and put it down in all areas of that relationship.



strawcream
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Correction: @mistyshere oh my that was meant for you not dropdead71 to read sorry: WOW! Thats really nice you met you a nice man first of all and being that you went out your race and met a decent white man who respect you and treats you like a woman thats really special. I agree with you about waking up because I'm right at that breaking point. I'm not saying all brothers are bad or disrespectful but the majority which is a large percentage are. I'm tired of the down low garbage, the cheating, lies, betrayal, childish ways...etc A real man regardless of what race he is should know how to handle a real woman and put it down in all areas of that relationship


hired_gun
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What amazes me most is that people who date outside of their race always try to justify their action by demeaning their own race. I only see this in black people, not so much white folks. A black woman dates a white guy, she will say, well white guys are faithful, they don’t have babbymomma drama, they are not down low. A black guy dates a white woman, he will say she is not ghetto, she is non-combative, and she has no baby daddy drama. Why do you people do that? It is as if you are saying, well, I only date outside of my race because of frustrations or being hurt. Do you absolutely love the guy (girl)? I mean, to get into a relationship other than love is to cheat yourself. And in the end, you really are setting yourself for problems. And one more thing…that downlow shit you black women are hyping up needs to stop. I work out in Bally’s Gym. There is one white dude I occasionally talk to in this gym. One day, he revealed to me, the number of gay white men who are fronting like straight men. I asked how you know. He said, “he slept with them.” Now, upon first look, this dude doesn’t appear gay or bisexual. And the most shocking thing is, this dude is married and frequent the gym with his wife. So, all of this shit about majority of black men being downlow is a fucking myth. The white males’ secret societies have been known to perpetuate homosexual behaviors. Most of these guys have exclusive clubs where they can entertain and practice their deviant behaviors. Some of you black women on here appear bitter and sad. Listen, like I said, if a white floats your boat, that’s great…don’t expect it to work for everybody.


hired_gun
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seriously, how many of you women have been with a black men that's been downlow? i mean seriously, if you knew your man was downlow..then he can't really be downlow? it seems like you women are extremely insecure. Anything that is hyped up in the media plays on your emotion. Damn, i feel sorry for the dude, (black or white) that ends up with some of you women


MissEmpress
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Some of you are taking this discussing a bit to far. This is no point in pointing fingers a any particuar race as being low or anything of that nature. It all comes down to that individual's character. It shouldn't matter whether or not rihanna is interested in white men, thats fine. What is important is that she finds the right man....If that is really the case here. But I think Rihanna is a naive young girl that is manipulated by the record industry. She will do whatever is takes to remain mainstream and sell records. She has to appeal to the masses so it only makes sense that she makes such statements. People of all races:please stop pointing fingers here and focusing on such trivial issues.


hired_gun
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and one more thing...if you don't think white men cheat...lol...go watch the show cheaters...lol people can we stop the generalizations?


stephensn
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Work it out Rihanna. Date whomever you want...after Jay-Z says it ok of course.


dreamwifey
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MAN LOOK..I DON'T THINK SHES SAYIN SHE PREFERS WHITE GUYS IT JUST THAT SHE'S BEEN COMIN ACROSS SOME HOT ONES...MTO YALL R SUM SCHIT STARTING MOFOS SEARCHING FOR A HEADLINE THAT PULLS US IN...SMH FURIOUSLY


hired_gun
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lol @ stephens... i mean if she wanted to sell records, she should go after Timbaland...Timbo produced most of Justin Timberlake hits... lol...ahahaha. justin is Timbo's bitch...


hired_gun
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Name all the top producers right now... Timbo, neptunes, dr. dre, will.i.am, jermain dupri, swizz beatz...(you may get scott torch)..neyo ( great writer). but seriously, if she thinks catering to white men will get her hits, she needs to wake up.


hired_gun
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The only things white men know how to do...is steal and lie and pretend they came up with everything. I mean shit, they lied about Iraq, they lied about the leak (levy's tape)...they lied about Enron. This fucking country was built on lies fabricated by the white man to perpetually keep certain groups in check and keep America running. I don't believe 90% of the things i see or here in white media. it is all propaganda.


kayleon
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strawcream you are right and also a gold gigger she need to look for her own man she is no good home raker


soseductive23
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@ hired_gun By most of your comments, it sounds like you have a deep hatred for white men. Yes, SOME white men steal,lie,and take credit for other people's work. However, so does black and hispanic people especially where I am from( Chi-town). It depends on the person and not their race. You have SOME backstabbing thieves inside of every race and gender.


hired_gun
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@soseductive If I show hatred for white men it is not born out of miss-information. Look around you, and look around the world. When I speak of the white male, I am not talking about every individual male, specifically. I am speaking collectively, as a group and as an institution. The white power mongers of the world are systematically responsible for almost every war, directly and indirectly. People blame black men for murders, crimes and theft. Well, everyday, white elitist have systematically raped every land they’ve step foot in of its resources…and literally and figuratively have raped its people of their customs, traditions and beliefs. My dislike for white men (collectively) is not because some choose to date black women. I am not that trivial, and truthfully in the bigger scheme of things, that’s a non-issue. My dislike for them is because I know their history, I know what they are capable off, and I know what great length they will go to protect their belief system. Truthfully, I have been previewed to lot of things. I am sorry if I offend some white folks on here and some black women who are married to them…I have nothing against you personally…I just don’t trust you as a collective society, as a government and as an institution.


Drmdl
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In this day and age, she can date who she want. I'm feelin those men she mention too. I'd hit Nick Lachey too and he like a lil Flava cause Vanessa part Negro.


soseductive23
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@ hired_gun Now that you have went into details, you seem less judgmental.I kinda have an idea where you coming from, because a lot of the things you said in your last comment were true. They are true, because they can be supported by facts.I am young but not naive, and I am very much aware of my surrounding. This means that I know what is going on in the world. All I was saying, is that white men are not the only ones capable of messing us over. We can get messed over by anyone. So therefore,we all must be aware of our surroundings and not just focus on one group of people.



Uncle_Tom
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Okay, very good... Now that we have one anothers attention and we have gone through all the emotions and the venting, I challenge US to work on the solutions, right here and right now...With all due respect to Rhinna, this issue is bigger than her and this is a sign of whether we are going to survive as a people or better yet, WHETHER WE WANT TO SURVIVE AS A PEOPLE!!! This is serious business and the survival of our furture generations depends on us falling in love and respect with one another again as black man and black woman... Now everyone here who says they are done with black men and they are going to date other races exclusively, YOU ARE DISMISSED FROM FURTHER DISCUSSION IN THIS THREAD...we dont need you over here trying to bust up a family trying to get back together...Go to your interracial websites and we wish you all the best and all the hapiness in the world...Good bye to you..."Mr. Chuck" or "MrCharlie" or whoever you are, please escort all the black women over to your interracial website who desires to mate with you and your kind...We have to write them off just as they have written us off... Okay, now that those distractions have been taken care of what we have left are those black men and black women who sincerly want to figure out what the hell happened to us and how can we get our love and admiration for one another back.. 1: Sisters, would you marry a brother who made significantly less money than you? I mean a man making less than $25,000 a year? 2: Sisters would you marry and mate with a black man who was a garbage man or a hospital orderly if hes making $35,000 and you are making $135,000? Could you get over the fact that you make much more money and still agree to share your lives and your wealth 50/50? 3: If not, why not? 4:Sisters you always say you cant find a good black man...Is that really true or could it be you really dont want to share your life with anyone? I have met many sisters when I lived in Atlanta who are 40 and over , making big bucks and living alone never had any children ...They would rather masturbate every Friday night and get drunk alone for fear that she may meet a black man who isnt doing as well economically as herself...She got the money but shes is alone and has no one to share it with... 5:Obesity...Could it be that obesity in black women caused by the constraints of artificial hairstyles ("Im not going to exercise and sweat this $300 perm out)has made many black women obese and unhealthy and dare I say less attractive to black men as she could be? Then which sets a cycyle in motion of disgust and binge eating because of loneliness? In other words can some blame be placed on all of us as a whole for not knowing enough about proper nutrition, cleansing the body and proper exercise? Im going to stop right there and you may not want to answer these question on this board(although I wish you would) because you may not like what I have to say here, but put our egos aside for a moment and lets try to figure out what has happened since 1965 WHERE IN THE BLACK HOUSEHOLDS, 85% HAD A BLACK FATHER LIVING AT HOME AS OPPOSED TO TODAY IN 2007 WHERE 90% OF BLACK FATHER DONT LIVE AT HOME... and dont think im just bagging on the sisters... after we deal with these 5 questions Im going to have 10 questions for the brothers because I feel we are twice as to blame as the sisters for the demise of the black family and black children running amok with no discipline...


Uncle_Tom
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and please disregard "Queen of New York" telling everyone they need to not respond to me... What is this the fuckin' 5th grade? Grow up Queen of New York and dialouge with us like an adult and not a 12 year old girl.


rtyo
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she has nice legs but an ugly face


Uncle_Tom
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one last thing, I have been here a couple of weeks (dont know how much longer I will be here), but I've never asked anyone to look at any websites until now... Please check these 2 websites and read them very carefully...this is from a sister a powerful articulate and intelligent sisters whose literally been around the block... www.poetwomen.50megs.com/about.html www.doorofkush.50megs.com/about.html Uncle Tom


Uncle_Tom
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and to all the sisters who say they are going to get them a white man... whats stoppin' you? Dont talk about it, be about it and adios to you. Dont wait another hot minute...Do it tomorrow morning if not sooner...Have a nice life and dont be playing our black music anymore either.


rtyo
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This is all gods fault he made 2 races knowing one of them would be imperial and reign over another.


tarrilove
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I have to add to her list: Shia LaBeouf and Josh Duhmel ! I know that's messed up. Riri telling the truth, it's whiteboy season!


dropdead71
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Boy what a joke!!!!!!!!!


dropdead71
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And it will never be "whiteboy season" come one now......this site is a HOT DIRTY MESS!!! Justin Timberlake wishes he was black.


dropdead71
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So if I understand correctly, if there are so many sistas that are willing/interested in dating white men, then why don't I see this combination more frequently? Obvious answer -- most white men wouldnt be seen with a black woman, so why would you want a man like that? Why would you want to be with a person who automatically feels superior to you because of their skin color? I'm just put out over this one. Personally that was a low blow from Rihanna.


dropdead71
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@strongblackwoman I never said anything about wealthy black men only going for light-skinned women? You have it twisted and took bits and pieces and turned it into what you want to say. And yes, I do know you are referring to me. I am so sick of women who are such hipocrites. When I dared say that I could finally see why brothas do switch, ALL HELL BROKE LOOSE...buts its okay for women though right? Who really sounds like the fool? And I noticed you could only give men credit for being what you consider "educated" in one of your posts. Sounds like you just don't have much use for women at all. Matter of fact, I want you to go pull any quotes from the Mike Tyson thread where I said black men with money go for lighter-skinned women....I will be waiting.


dropdead71
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@strongblackwoman Thank god you will never get the chance to see me in person, you would really be hatin then. Hah!


Uncle_Tom
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@DROPDEAD. you are a perfect person to tell the interracial hopefuls what they have in store for their children born of their union....confusion and frustration...they think they are going to go of and live in a vaccuum but the present world is built upon racism and racial caste and white racist institutional rule... These poor confused women think they are going to be accepted by white people and the white community with open arms....If they are very very light skinned as to not have any African features left they may be tolerated somewhat but generally they wont be accepted...Even is they get the biggest straigtening comb they can, the harshest skin lighteners or the most potent chemical relaxers they can find..They are going to be rejected by mostly everyone except their white mate and they will be isolated from his community and isolated from their black community also...But to me its better to let loose our weaker minded people like them and discard our weak links so that only the most intelligent and healthiest blacks will reproduce with each other to create the future rulers of this planet.


msscorpia
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What she's saying is ok! She has a right to be checking out white guys. I really don't understand the black and white issue. whay can't people just like who they like, without any ridicule. Why, don't we just stay focused on all that she has accomplished in her young years and lets pray she doesn't become a britney! VISIT MSSCORPIA.BLOGSPOT.COM YOU CAN SHOP TOO!!!


TheGreatDame
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Most black people love eachother, you have a small percentage of people who are screwed up and lost because a n*gga or n*gga b*tch did them wrong in the past...Wesley Snipes & Rihanna would make a beautiful couple, don't you think so?...LMAO...Who really cares about who dates who?...As long as it's not Venus Williams ugly azz, I ain't tripping...It's too many hoes out here too be flipping out about some skin color you hoes!...To my brothas, marry your paper...I don't care if you have a snow bunny, or a gummi bear, or a lemon head, keep your moolah 1st brotha...The hoes come second, then your wife..If your wife is tripping and don't ackrite, guess what?, you still got your side hoes, plus your scratch...It is what it is!...You hoes just don't get it!...You hoes can date whoever you want, but that don't mean that yo azz won't get played like a playstation 3...Playas come in every color, any job status, white collar, blue collar, poor, rich, gay, straight, handsome, ugly, wallstreet, garbage suits, hot damn me!...These black women on here talking about how they date outside of black man to find a good man...LMAO...You hoes don't know about your white man, do you trick!...We (as man) might look different, and act different, be we speak the same language at the end of the day...Trick or Die!...Don't matter what color you hoes are, you can get it too!



ninja
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tarrilove I have to add to her list: Shia LaBeouf and Josh Duhmel ! I know that's messed up. Riri telling the truth, it's whiteboy season! ************************************************* Don't forget about Ashton Kutcher, Rob Lowe, Ryan Phillippe, and Robin Thicke. : ) Whiteboy season it is!!!


ninja
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Oh yea Bejamin Bratt too...I know he isn't white but he is sexy as hell. I would give up a kidney LOL, LOL, LOL.


ninja
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I was just kidding about the kidney thing but I would hit that.


princessof_la
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Uncle_Tom honey, you need prayer. You really need to read the bullsh*t you write. You contradict yourself in every sentence. If white women are so superior, why aren't you communicating and/or blogging w/ them? We don't want your self filled hatred here, you have no place here. You're just a waste of dust! Prime example of white girl vs. A Black Queen http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=1284086717 but we all know how you Uncle Tommers' like to play yourselves, don't we?! Biotch!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Really a sick person. everything you say, still pertains to Black men when they date/marry white women. what's the difference? You're clearly stating that, in this order white men, white women, & black men are superior to Black Women. That's just plain crazy. Do you think you are superior to the ONLY Women on this earth that can actually give life to your nappy headed a**? Thing about Black Women & White men, is we are about power & stability, while White women & black men are about material things & the Joneses. Who in the hell do you think started hair extensions and hair straightening? Fake hair color, eyes, fake lips tits & a**? Fake skin tones, fake feelings & professional lies? Ultimately, you need to be B*tch slapped for all the caca that comes out of your little dirty mouth. There are more successful White male/Black Female marriages & relationships then you are obviously aware of. We just don't shove it down peoples throat like Black Male/White Female relationships. Besides, who can say, whose more ashamed of bringing the other one home to family? No one has more pride than Black Folk!


princessof_la
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I can imagine how unattractive you are. Black women don't want your a** & obviously neither do white. At least w/ white girls all you'll need is $$$.


Official
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Rihanna and kelly rowland or desperate women They are shouting out men that dont care for them Orlando bloom still has not made reponse to kelly rowlands statement. All the men rihanna mentioned has not been on scene with blackwomen So in my eyes this sister seem very desperate


ThatsBangOutOfOrder
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RIHANNA IS NOT HALF WHITE! HER MUM IS VERY DARK AND HER DAD IS LIGHT SKINNED. THERE WERE PHOTOS ON HER WEBSITE WITH HER AND HER PARENTS FROM THE MUSIC AWARDS BACK IN HER COUNTRY. THERE ARE OTHER YOUNG GIRLS WITH LIGHT SKIN OUT THERE AND THEY ARE NOT HALF WHITE. SO PEOPLE GET A GRIP!


ThatsBangOutOfOrder
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Rihanna isn't that good looking anyway, not naturally. Imagine if she had really dark skin she wouldn't be anything hot or special. It's basically her light skin that makes people say she's gorgeous. All them hours of make up as we can clearly see, also I think her skin got much better that when she first came out.


Barbara_Open_Bush
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MS RIHANNA FINALLY SPRUCED UP WITH MAKE-UP AND WEAVE, THESE PICS ARE HOT, KEEP THIS NEW HAIR DRESSER AND MAKE-UP ARTIST. THIS IS THE WAY TO ROCK IT. YOU ARE GOING TO GET BOOED AT THE NEXT SOURCE, B.E.T. AWARDS, SOUL TRAIN AWARDS IF YOU ANNOUNCE YOU WON'T A WHITE BOY, YOU THINK THEY ARE HOT WAIT UNTIL YOU GET THEM IN BED. MOMMA GOING BACK TO THE HOOD FOR SOME BEEF IT IS SO ORDERED.


Ihavetosay
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Uncle_Tom - I could stomp mudholes through your posts but I just don't have the time. But I'll just point out this: ATLANTA? What you said in reference to that just goes to show sometimes you let your quest to be "enlightened" and "right" blind you to reality. You do realize that in Atlanta 50% of the black men are gay (OK being facetious but its a high percentage) and black women outnumber black men 8 - 1 (last I checked, may have increased since then). Those women of which you speak are more likely unattractive either both inside or out. Plenty of us probably know male friends in Atlanta have between 3 -4 women ALL making more paper then them. I mean I was with you their for a moment but the more you post, the more absurd you get IMO. And to ASSume that everyone who disagrees with you must be "emotional" is just as juvenile as the people who campaign others not to speak to you. You wanted your audience, you got it, now when people challenge you instead of FIGHTING with you, you respond by posting at some odd time of the night so not to be challenged. THEN, continue to be insulting and cast people off as emotional when they call out your BS. Maybe it is because you rather argue, fuss, and dictate than DISCUSS. Seems to me (and I could be wrong as I have been before) you are just another brother, spouting rhetoric because you think you know it all or some "teacher" has taught you that. EB sang it best, "the wise man knows that he knows nothing at all". So it just may be the time for you to move on and spout your rhetoric to gain attention, then once people get hip to you, you run away blaming it on THEM not "getting it" to another audience. I would just ignore you but some of the things you say are so egregious or just out-of-touch with reality that you need to checked. Maybe a suggestion for you is to wash your dreads 'cause the energy you're carrying is too stale? To answer one of your questions: ONE characteristic of the black family in 1965, was that the black community wasn't as secular as it is now. As much as you condemn religion, christianity was used in that time to hold black families together. Just food for though. Everyone have a great day, I wish I could chill but alas not today.


UwesizzY
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GOD Almighty spent sleepless nights creatin RIHANNA,Shes da most beautiful thing i ve eva seen in dis world so far,in short she is an eighth world wonder....she is a GODDESS,evrything abt her is so perfect...her voice is amazin and she can sing better than any otha diva like mariah,whitney,shania,celine...her albums are great u just cnt skip a song while listenin 2 her cd..good girl gone bad for real...let her do her thang and its her time 2 shine am hopin rehab,dont stop da music,push op on me will be singles in future so wat if she likes white boys,its in her traits since her bilogical father is white irish barnadian..so mto lv her alone she is so photolicious,thats the one and only ROBYN RIHANNA RONALD FENTY...


africanchild
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TO ALL THOSE LIBERATED SISTERS OUT THERE WHO PREFER TO DATE OUT OF YOUR RACE, GOOD LUCK TO YOU BUT JUST MAKE SURE YOU PREPARE YOUR CHILDREN FOR HOW RACIST AND UNBALANCED THIS WORLD IS GOING TO BE TOWARDS THEIR RACE. THE VERY REASON SOME OF US BLACK WOMEN PREFER OUR OWN MEN IS THAT THE VERY THOUGHT OF OPENING OUR LEGS AND GIVING OUR BODY TO WHITE MEN MAKES US CRINGE AND THE IDEA OF PINK PENIS DOES NOT APPEAL. THERE ARE A LOT OF GOOD MEN AROUND WHO FEEL THE SAME AND WOULD NEVER DATE OUTSIDE THE RACE!!! YOU KEEP ATTACKING UNCLE TOM, DO U HAVE ANY IDEA HOW MANY BLACK PEOPLE FEEL THE SAME! IF U ARE LOOKING FOR VALIDATION FROM BLACK FOLKS ABOUT YOUR INTERRACIAL MARRIAGES, YOU ARE IN THE WRONG PLACE, HE IS JUST TELLING IT LIKE IT IS!


Uncle_Tom
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@princess la leave the hate and emotonalism aside and discuss and work on solutions...getting emotional and getting angry at your ole Uncle Tom for telling the truth wont do you any good but only give you some temporary and false satisfation...get your self a punching bag from walmart and vent your anger on it...Im just the messenger...Dont beat up the mailman because he brings you a bill.


Uncle_Tom
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@IHAVETOSAY i just wrote a post and again it seems that every other post I write does not go through and beleive it or not I dont have unlimited time to be on this computer... I will try again later, but this is getting frustrating.


blackdaddy1696
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Superwoman Flag post OMG @blackdaddy1696 That is the truth. See that fact in itself makes me suspicious of white ppl overall.They always have to skew the media perceptions of themselves in their favor. Blondes have more fun and all that garbage.They do the same TRICKS with black and white female actresses in movies and TV as well ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I totaly agree with you . Watch the tv shows & these movies and it says it all right there. myspace.com/blackdaddy1696



HauteCoutureDiva
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@ Strongblackwoman: What's up ma?? Dang, every time I come on MTO, there's someone who's got beef with you!! What's up with that hon?? People are hating WAY too much. You must be doing something right chica. Holler!


HauteCoutureDiva
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and @ MTO staff writers: It's 10:15 on Sunday morning. WHERE ARE THE NEW HEADLINES?!?!?! Unless y'all are in CHURCH, this is unacceptable.


Uncle_Tom
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@ihavetosay I know your were being sarcastic with your 50% gay black man figure but you probably have been conditioned to believe that it this down low LIE is still a high figure and its a BIG LIE...its psychological warfare waged against the black family to make us believe that black women have no choice but to become lesbians or date men of other races (POPULATION CONTROL and eugenics)...


ninja
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I digress... I like me some pink penis...mmmm it tastes so good....like bubble gum.


Uncle_Tom
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@ihavetosay, now at least you have dealt with one of my questions and that being the one to find out what it was tha happened in 1965 and now to put such a barrier between us and have us looking at one another as adversaries instead of potential mates.. It has nothiing to do with "the church"..Thats a whole other pathology that I wont delve into right now because its off topic... What happened in 1965 was President Lyndon Johnsons so called "GREAT SOCIETY PROGRAM" which was a 4 prong attack on the black familiy (POPULATION CONTROL and eugenics) 1:The Manufacturing base and corporations what once supplied jobs to black men were shifted overseas to Asia...Black men were already in a position of oppression because they had these jobs only because in post WW2 the gov't needed them to fill those positions during war time (just ike always, they come at us as fellow Americans during a war)... 2: In place of those jobs, they started Welfare and food stamps programs, and this took the place not only of those manufacturing jobs but of the black man in the home...WEL-FARE...FARE-WELL black male... 3: The Corporate elite transferred head of household status from the black male to the blak woman offering her education enough to be able to sit up in his corporate offices and serve in his institutions to be able to supply jobs to her...White males because of nstituonal racism in the banking system controlled the money and the business loans and black men werent getting any..So the women became breadwinner by serving as eye candy in his corporate offices...And black man who sought to get work there were usually rebuffed because white men being insecure, feel more confortable arouund black women instead of a strong black male..This is also why you see so many homosexuals in the corporate worlld of the white man...They dont want real black men reminding them of their past. more later....my pancakes are ready


Uncle_Tom
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btw, pigs have pink penis's also... black men were made for black women and vice versa...God made it that way..Man has put us asunder... To each their own But I for damn sure dont want no pale, stringy hair cracker in my face when I wake up in the morning...I love me some soul woman...I love the way yall walk..the way you talk...the way you look...the way your beautiful brown skin shines in the midday sun...I love your booty, I love the way you love when you feel loved in return...Happy Black womans Day Today 7/22/07! We appreciate you sisters holding it down while we black men have been away... We're back now and ready to negotiate a truce.


ThatsBangOutOfOrder
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How the hell did this talk about Rihanna being half white came to be? Rihanna is not half white - how many times do I have to say it? HER DAD IS A LIGHT SKINNED COLOURED MAN AND HE IS MORE THAN LIKELY OF BLACK AND WHITE DECENT LIKE THE MAJORITY OF CARIBBEAN PEOPLE WITH LIGHT SKIN. SHE'S NOT HALF WHITE SO GET OVER IT.


Uncle_Tom
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@ihavetosay what does a black man having 3 0r 4 hoes in his stable have to do with building strong black families...? ans: NOTHING, because whoredom doesnt buid nations... Look at the newspaper on Sunday (AJC) and you will see that although Atlanta is 65% black only 10% of the wedding nuptial annoucements are of black couples...White women and white men get married...Even though most of these white men are on the down low, livinig as functional bisexuals, they still know and overstand the importance of familiy and legacy(children)... With so much talk abou the church in Atlanta and the womans relationshio with Jesus ("Hes all the man yall need", alledgedly)the church doesnt seem to be doing much to get black people to stop whoring around and to get married....


dropdead71
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I'd really like to know ladies who are so down....how much easier do you think you'd have it with a white man? I am shocked! And do you want to raise little mixed babies with these white men as well? I VERY RARELY EVER see a white man out with black/mixed children. That is not how they will be viewed by others. White women are very non-accepting of their men with sistas as well so you will have that issue too. Then when you go to dinner with friends and there's always that one friend of your "white man's" that will give you dirty looks because he doesn't approve. And you better hope its only ONE friend. Then your self-esteem will start to dwindle because you start to wake up and realize that they will always feel that you are beneath them only because of your skin color. I could go on and on and on.....wouldn't matter though, I sense some women enjoy throwing this in a black man's face...Also, there's so much hate against men who date outside their race, but once again, for WOMEN its A OKAY. Women, you embarrass me sometimes honestly...


Uncle_Tom
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@ihavetosay THE HAIR ISSUE... Yes, the woman is the strength or a sign of weakness of her people...Yes, how a woman chooses to represent her culture (if she even knows her culture) is a physical manifestation of her mindset... If a see a sister walking down Peachtree St. in full clown regalia, the clown nose, the shoes, the makeup, the clown hair etc. I see them walking by and say to myself, "Oh, shes a clown"...If I see a sister walking by in blonde hair and a tight skirt and 6 inch heels showing off her body parts, Im going to see her as promiscuous..She could be a nun as far as I know, thats not the point...But at that moment she has the uniform of a whore on... Now when I see a sister with her hair in a natural, cultural braids, twists and with clothes on that represents black people I know she is an ambassador for my people wherever shes going...Her children knows they cant come home looking like pimps and whores...Her husband trusts in her because he knows hes out representing their family and not mr charlie wearing hairstyles that appeal to mr.charlie... yep, how a black woman wears her hair is most times a direct manifestation of her mentality...I not saying some sisters need to wear her hair certain ways to keep her job...that happens also...but in more cases than not they do what they do , not because they have to but because they willingly GIVE IT UP.


Uncle_Tom
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nOW lets deal with the obesity issue and its effect on the black man, woman and family...


dropdead71
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Obesity is an issue. Once the cycle begins, it gets worse and worse until you wake up and dislike yourself and have no confidence in finding a man that you would want. Late night binges, lying on the internet to get dates and then gettin dumped and dissed once you meet in person because you posted a pic that wasn't really you.....


dropdead71
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I've seen it all Tom.....most of us have this in our own families somewhere...


Uncle_Tom
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@dropdead Thank you...They dont listen to Uncle Tom


dropdead71
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Well I'm here to let anyone know that don't know...



Uncle_Tom
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If you confused sisters want a white man so bad, why not pair up with a very light skinned or biracial brother who needs more melanin in his childrens genes... You brothers who love white women so much, why not pair up and pick a life mate that is biracial or very light to help bring her seed back into the family.. Our people have the whole gamut of skin tone and hair texture...If you like light skin and straight hair? We got that.. You like dark brown skin and coarse hair? We got that too... Thats one of the reasons why everyoine is jealous of us...They know we are a proper representaion of all humanity...And we got it all and we have learned to survive as one.


surelyinterested
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even though she didn't quite say that she is looking for a white boyfriend i don't fault her for possibly wanting to date a white guy. i mean the way black guys r these days especially the ones in the entertainment industry who only find beauty in white women and other races but their own. let's just say she does date a black guy in the entertainment industry you would see how quick he might try want to dump her for some white, unattractive chick. so I hope that when she does date she doesn't date any of them i-only-see-beauty-in-white women black men


dropdead71
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@surelyinterested I am sorry you feel that way. However, I beg to differ. Really interracial dating in Hollywood and professional sports is still the SMALL minority. A few of these men go there but certainly not most. And as far as a man like Wesley Snipes, he's given up on AMERICAN women period, not just black women.


dropdead71
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Dont date a white man because you're upset with brothas right now, date them because that's what you really want to do.


dropdead71
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And another thing, would you date Tiger Woods? I sure wouldn't so who cares!!! An no I don't think his wife is a beautiful blonde. She is a white woman with hair that has been stripped of its natural color. He can have her she does nothing for me.


SexyKimmie
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I didn't get from her statement that she was looking for a white guy. It just says that she's becoming more attracted to white men as she's exposed to these white attractive hollywood men. It has nothing to do with race clearly Orlando Bloom is a fine man. It's not too many black men who are doing their thing in the entertainment business that is close to her age besides RAPPERS. Not every woman wants to date a man who's out there with tons of video whores poppin their booties while they try and copy PIMP CULTURE. Overall, if she's dating a white man it's not a social statement its her personal choice it doesn't mean she doesnt like black men. Just like so many brothers who have dated a white woman it doesn't mean that they don't like black women. But, a black woman's reaction to black men dating white women occasionally will make a brother not want anything to do with black women.


dropdead71
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Just about every woman on this thread is cosigning to the thought of "its okay to date a white guy" I still would like an answer then as to why so many sistas are FURIOUS over black men dating white women? I really would like an explanation to this one...I'm sorry, I don't think Orlando Bloom is anything, can't even recall exactly what he looks like. That's how much he grabbed my attention and I do watch movies.


strawcream
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@ hired_gun I agree with you on your comment about white people have just as much drama going on then blacks maybe even more. The majority of the men I deal with or date are black men so being that I'm older more mature and have life experience under my belt. My mind is not closed when in comes to subjects like black and white people dating each other. Yes, there are white men in corporate America who are gay who are rich and work for these fortune 500 company. These white men live double lives they are on porn tapes, travnvesite at night, calling gay and escort services. These people have allot of money. After finishing there dirt they hop right in the bed with there loving white wives or girlfriends. Skin color to me is what it is skin color nobody excluded from being expose thats like saying all black people are on welfare. When there are more white folks on the system then blacks. Its like saying all black people have AIDS and HIV when we know for a fact thats not true.


prettylatina
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Wow..You miss a say you miss a lot. Ok I for one was appalled when reading what MrChuck was saying about black men. And I quote.."Black women who date white men..want better for themselves...huh? "Black men are a lost resort" What??..."I am not fond of black males"...Excuse me? Why didnt anyone jump down this man's throat?? The only person that set him straight was Queen of NY. Like my mother always said, I know my children arent perfect, but I'll be damned if anyone addresses that but me. I dont know why everyone is jumping down Uncle Toms' throat. He is asking valid q and has to what I have read, said he wants to date white women. He said and I quote "Thank God most white men dont find black women attractive....there would be less for us brothas..." while I dont neccesarily agree with that comment, that's what he said. I dont want to get too much into this debate becuase Im sure I'll get asked to not being involved. So I'll just say these last few comments. While Im all for dating what ever or who ever, just do so because you genuinely like what that person is bringing to the table. Dont do it because black, white whatever has scorned you. Its like never getting back on the horse because you fell. So what, get back on the horse and ride it again. Dont stop. And again Im all for what ever floats your boat. To MrChuck, who said those negative comments... With all do respect... White men cant jump...........these bones. Peace!!


dropdead71
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@prettylatina Good morning sis! I must've missed some of MrChucks comments...I will have to reread and come back....


c
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@prettylatina What about light skin men, LOL just kiddin, what up tho.


Giggle
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WHY IN DA HELL IS RIHANNA SO POPULAR? AMERICA IS A STUPID COUNTRY. ANYBODY CAN BE BIG!


dropdead71
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MrChuck Just like a snake in the grass....you wait and wait and then leap outta nowhere with some BS about being part owner of the site and you have a sista and so on.....Makes sense now why so many of these stories are put on MTO, you want black women and men to argue and fall out over issues you know creates division between blacks. I will take a black man with little over a wealthy white man anyday. I have no use for you accept to get your money at work.


hired_gun
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@dropdead…..“Just about every woman on this thread is cosigning to the thought of "its okay to date a white guy" I still would like an answer then as to why so many sistas are FURIOUS over black men dating white women?” You will not get an answer, BECAUSE it is this same stubbornness and ignorance that will continue to be their downfall. Many women are strung by emotions, and when emotional issues arises, majority of them are incapable of making logical choices or decisions. I read in a post earlier that a woman claim that 50% of men in Atlanta are gay, bisexual or downlow? Wow!! UncleTom, I applaud your response. But her statement speaks volume. This is the perception that the media (Oprah, BET, and other black publications) has ingrained in the minds of many women. I have lived in Atlanta for most of life before moving to the Midwest, the black lesbian and bisexual population is tremendous. Yet, I rarely here this issue brought up in Black Media…it is always about gay black men. I wonder why? Listen, I am not trying to make this a bashing post of black women…I won’t stoop to your levels. Can you imagine if Usher, Denzel, Boris, Beckford, Tyresse, Morris, Omar Epps , Hill Harper, Mekhi Phifer, Willl Smith, Chris Tucker, or some famous basketball or football star came out with such a statement….lol…this site would have been torn to pieces. It is what it is…as far as this topic goes, it is a done issue. You are grown, you make your choices in life and you live with them. UncleTom and Dropdead leave this topic alone; many of them are trying to get a rise out of you. Again, I find it disturbing that some of these women would come online trying to justify why they like white men. It is as if they are seeking validation from white men to make them feel wanted or beautiful…lol!!!! The white man’s image of beauty rarely includes pictures of black women. Go look at the 50 most beautiful people magazine selection over the pass 5 issues. Lol…wait…let me see…Robin Thicke? Justin Timberlake? Orlando Bloom? Are you serious, these men are skinnier than you ladies…lol….is this what some of the black women have been reduce to…the picking must be very slim….lol…I gotta go. @ strawcream…. You don’t know the half of the shit that these white corporate cats get involved in. I know of stories where these companies would sponsor trips to Bangkok, where these white corporate thugs would go engage in all types of deviant behaviors with under age little girls, boys and even transvestites. One more time…uncleTom and Dropdead…leave this topic alone…it is a done…if they can understand, then they will. I don’t believe in force feeding people information, especially if they are unwilling to grasp it.


dropdead71
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Funny, I have a gay black male friend who deals with men that are married on the DL regularly. Guess what? Every single one of them is WHITE....HAHAHA



dropdead71
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And fellow sistas OUT THERE: Get off this double standard sh$t. You can't have it both ways.


Missmedia81
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LOL @ blacks hating on Rihanna. Any black women who wants to date a white or non black man I say taking it back "You Go Girl!" Black men who date out their race can still get the middle finger. J/K LOL Who cares! Who needs their love and admiration most black women don't get it no way. Its nothing more pathetic than a Black women begging for it from any man especially her own race of people. I am happy that black women are starting to come to 2007 and stop thinking that the only way love can come is if hes black. Cause if we are looking at the entertainment industry blacks and holding them as the standard of success; black women have lost the relationship battle with the black male elite. The only reason why black women are still kinda in the game a little bit is because you count mixed women you take them out and black chicks aren't even in. Its no double standard drop dead thats where your mistaken. The only standard is successful black men are not as likely to choose a black female mate. I big up any black women exercising her options cause God knows black men do.


africanchild
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@ Missmedia81 U go ahead and sleep with your white men, some of us cant stand the very idea of them touching us. It is by choice, and that is why the majority of us arent going out/sleeping with them!!!!


darkman
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i have to agree with uncle tom on that statement lol and rihanna is not all that cute...she don't have no ass or thicknes so no wonder she keep running into them... they like women with noassatall lol


darkman
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oh yeah u know jay-z had hit it lol


ninja
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My, my, my... First, I would like to address all of the black men that are saying black women are confused if they date outside of their race. That is the biggest bunch of B.S. that I have ever heard and y'all know it. I have a white boyfriend and I am NOT confused at all. I found someone that I have a lot in common with and am physically attracted to. My boyfriend treats me exceptionally well, and is not ashamed of me at all. He is a very beautiful person inside and out (including his pink penis, which some of you men are a little too preoccupied with). MOST women want to have a man that makes them feel beautiful, and not just black women that date white men. There are so many racists on here that are really lost. Yes there are some evil white people, but there are good ones as well. Some white people helped liberate us, and fight for our civil rights, and you give them no credit. Most of us blacks in America have white in our lineage, so mixed race can't be all that bad. There are evil blacks as well that are killing each other, and raping each other as we breathe. How can some of you be so close minded? Every black sista that dates a white man has not given up on blacks or are bitter. Some of us just see things for what they are. We are all human and have all made mistakes. We all bleed and we all desire to be loved. I have nothing against black men at all. My brothers, grandfather, nephews, and etc. are black. I just wish some of you would see that black people and whites aren't that much different. My boyfriend and I love the same movies, food, music, art, books, and etc. I didn't fall in love with him because I said "today I will find a white man." I fell in love with him because he although we have our differences, we have a lot in common as well. I have dated and befriended many different races, and none is better than the other. I plan on marrying my white boyfriend in the future, and spending the rest of my life with him. However if it didn't work out and I met a black guy that I liked...I would be all over him as well. A lot of the ignorance in the world makes me believe in reincarnation...like this must be a first life for some of you. Be free.


ninja
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To darkman, I have a big sista booty and my white man LOVES it. Keep the generalizations coming your on a roll.


ninja
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I mean you're on a roll. Anyway y'all get the point I'm trying to make.


Missmedia81
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@ Africanchild I don't need your approval sister to sleep with who I want, regardless if it is a black man or white. I am a black women in the NEW "Century" so I make no apologizes. So You can keep your approval or disapproval and, save it for someone who needs it! Penis is penis pink, tan, brown or black. Don't get mad at me because the brothers don't stand up and defend you as passionately as your on here trying to put people on blast and defend them. Its okay, its nothing wrong with you dating who you want to when you want to sister. Black or White. But like I previously stated " I BIG UP ANY BLACK WOMEN DATING| AND EXERCISING HER OPTIONS! BECAUSE BLACK MEN DO IT ALL THE TIME AND ARE NOT GOING TO STOP DOING IT! NO MATTER HOW MANY PROPS YOU SIT HERE AND GIVE THEM AND HOW SOME OF YALL SHAMELESSLY BEG FOR THEIR ATTENTION AND RECEIVE SO LITTLE OF IT IN RETURN!" So lets just Keep it movin.


Official
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My, my, my... First, I would like to address all of the black men that are saying black women are confused if they date outside of their race. That is the biggest bunch of B.S. that I have ever heard and y'all know it. I have a white boyfriend and I am NOT confused at all. I found someone that I have a lot in common with and am physically attracted to. My boyfriend treats me exceptionally well, and is not ashamed of me at all. He is a very beautiful person inside and out (including his pink penis, which some of you men are a little too preoccupied with). MOST women want to have a man that makes them feel beautiful, and not just black women that date white men. There are so many racists on here that are really lost. Yes there are some evil white people, but there are good ones as well. Some white people helped liberate us, and fight for our civil rights, and you give them no credit. Most of us blacks in America have white in our lineage, so mixed race can't be all that bad. There are evil blacks as well that are killing each other, and raping each other as we breathe. How can some of you be so close minded? Every black sista that dates a white man has not given up on blacks or are bitter. Some of us just see things for what they are. We are all human and have all made mistakes. We all bleed and we all desire to be loved. I have nothing against black men at all. My brothers, grandfather, nephews, and etc. are black. I just wish some of you would see that black people and whites aren't that much different. My boyfriend and I love the same movies, food, music, art, books, and etc. I didn't fall in love with him because I said "today I will find a white man." I fell in love with him because he although we have our differences, we have a lot in common as well. I have dated and befriended many different races, and none is better than the other. I plan on marrying my white boyfriend in the future, and spending the rest of my life with him. However if it didn't work out and I met a black guy that I liked...I would be all over him as well. A lot of the ignorance in the world makes me believe in reincarnation...like this must be a first life for some of you. Be free Relationships are not guranteed anymore You sound like the average couple i come across your relationship will end at anytime.


Official
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I live in city where whitewomen on average are seen with couple of non-whitemen on daily So if they are the richest men on the earth and the highest male population in the U.S. Why are they women dating mexicans black and arab men constantly now?? Why are these women not scared of whitewomen as sisters our?? I never hear negative comment about whitemen by blackwomen Kerry washington had the platform in essence to slay her boyfriend but she choosed not to Superhead got dumped badly by bill maher she had the platform to slay him but she didnt choose to but she contanly slay blackmen... Sister why are so scared to talk about whitemen??


Ihavetosay
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prettylatina- I think the reason a lot of people didn't address that fool is because sometimes someone is so deranged and blogging such heinous drivel that it's just for attention and not focusing your energy on, at least that's why i didn't. For instance...... hired_gun, you've been on here posting belligerent, rude comments about black women obsessively and I've chosen to ignore you, because someone whose thought processes works like yours isn't worth addressing, UNTIL you addressed one of my comments. So either you have bad reading comprehension skills, can't read at all, need glasses, didn't bother to read, or don't know the meaning of FACETIOUS. What I also said, and was MORE important (again, reading comp) was the fact that specifically in Atlanta, black women outnumber black men almost 10-fold. It you gonna tell it, tell it ALL. But no one wants to address that. They just want to take the little piece that they choose and run with it wihout even understanding the entire context of the post. And according to Uncle_Tom's BRILLIANT plan, the capital "A" answer is for all the women there to wear their hair naturally. We are even in more trouble than I though if THAT's the answer. So then the black men there will still have 4-10 black women to choose from (not even counting other nationalities) but AT LEAST they'll be natural. Doesn't anyone else see how childish this sounds? The problem is with RESPECT. Why would men in Atlanta MARRY if they can play the game b/c they're outnumbered? It's lack of RESPECT. And like I pointed out a million posts ago, black women outnumber black men on AVERAGE. Atlanta is just a damn epidemic (as well as other large cities like NYC). Every black woman in America could start wearing their hair "naturally" and the problems in our community will still remain. {Not to mention all other women in other nationalities will just start wearing their hair like that too} What Uncle_Tom is purporting is a bandaid on a gaping chest wound mainly based on his own personal preferences. The problem with Black America is a "STATE OF MIND" problem that no kinky hair is going to cure. I'd be more quick to point out the poison most people eat on the daily than hair, but once again that's just ONE complex problem. Notice: Uncle_Tom focuses on the PHYSICAL & SUPERFICIAL ($$), I'm focusing on the MENTAL. Who gives a f*ck what you look like or how much && you got if your mental is diseased.


Missmedia81
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LOL@ DJENX I agree with you totally. It is like that in my city they be taking out the trash don't nobody care about the throw aways they have on their arm.


Akan5
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@Missmedia81 You got a lot of nerve saying Black men have been exercising our options,with that nasty tone. First off ,ALL MEN have been exercising their options around the world since the beginning of time.White men have been exercising their options in the US since the first settlers came here.They never had a problem having sex with Native American, Black,Latina or Asian women in this country or around the world.However God forbid if their white wives or GF's looked at another type of man,they would be savagely beaten. It's not so much about Black men pursuing options but more about WHITE WOMEN EXERCISING THEIR OPTIONS TO FREE THEMSELVES FROM THEIR OPPRESSIVE MALE COUNTERPARTS. If white men didn't control economic power in this country, it would be a wrap for them holding on to any women period. For once and for all could we get past this myth that Black men are the only male species that actively pursues the opposite sex . Asian,Middle Eastern and European men are no better and in MANY CASES BRUTALLY WORST!!


africanchild
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@ Missmedia Oh dont worry about this girl, she has a strong black brother defending her honour every time. If white penis is for you, good luck and i can tell u are quite touchy about the brothers, maybe they messed your head once upon a time? Dont judge all brothers because u have had bad experiences with some. Ask yourself why u have been attracting trash on your doorstep!



cremesaver
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hahahaha always amusing to watch after 1 article by MTO how ppl loose their minds with comments and reponses funnyyyyy MTO i read that article the woman just acknowledged there are some fine white men out there and that translates to you she looking for a white man?? hmmm some perception you got there MTO *round of applause*


Akan5
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@dropdead71 - Yeah I noticed that growing up . White men never seemed to have issues with Black men if they were gay. Hmmmmmm. Just imagine if men could get pregnant too.My instincts tell me during slave times a lot of brothers would have been walking around with swollen bellies.I seriously doubt the rape of our people was only limited to Black females. White men are the biggest DL guys on the planet. Just peep the Hollywood agenda and who runs it. Oh yeah and the cop in NYC who sodomized the Black man in the Police precinct years ago. He also had a Black girlfriend. Now analyze that!!!


dropdead71
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I have to agree that BLONDE WEAVES/WIGS are a true sign of mental illness. Glad to know I'm not the only one overly bothered by that. And now that I really think about it, what is the blonde weave for, or WHO is it for? Black men? White men? Maybe it is for white men after all...interesting.....Brothas, would someone tell me how attractive blonde hair is on a sista? Just curious.


dropdead71
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Akan5 I used to live in Hollywood and when I first hit the club scene in my late teens, that's all I saw walking up and down the streets of Hollywood...sware to god. Oh yes, these white guys love them some dark black man meat.


Missmedia81
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LOL @ africanchild Trying to Psychoanalyze me from my posting on MTO. CTFU Your nothing more to me than a bad Joke so i am going to ignore your stupid wanna be personal comments at me and my life experience. Cause ur taking the biggest offense. Girlfriend here is your memo *you are nowhere near being that deep or that interesting for me to give a ratz azz about whos defending your honor or even entertaining your continuous postings directed at me!* lmao I don't know about your reading and comprehension skills & where you are drawing your lame conclusions from but maybe next time when u try to put someone on blast, word to the wise just pick someone you can handle.


Official
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Missmedia81 You got a lot of nerve saying Black men have been exercising our options,with that nasty tone. First off ,ALL MEN have been exercising their options around the world since the beginning of time.White men have been exercising their options in the US since the first settlers came here.They never had a problem having sex with Native American, Black,Latina or Asian women in this country or around the world.However God forbid if their white wives or GF's looked at another type of man,they would be savagely beaten. It's not so much about Black men pursuing options but more about WHITE WOMEN EXERCISING THEIR OPTIONS TO FREE THEMSELVES FROM THEIR OPPRESSIVE MALE COUNTERPARTS. If white men didn't control economic power in this country, it would be a wrap for them holding on to any women period. For once and for all could we get past this myth that Black men are the only male species that actively pursues the opposite sex . Asian,Middle Eastern and European men are no better and in MANY CASES BRUTALLY WORST!! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- akan 5 she just believe blackmale our the only race of men our oppotunist when it comes having sex with other races of women.


africanchild
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@ Missmedia Looks like i have hit a nerve!!! OOOOOOPPPPPPS!


whynot
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Go for it! Be glad a white boy wants to be with a black woman. Not many white men would dare. White men have put the white woman on display as the epitome of beauty or being a woman. What do ours do? Complain about theirs and flaunt everyone else's. The black man goes after every race but a sista these days. We have the highest rate of interracial relationships on earth - with the Black man as the center. Black families are all messed up. USA today had a quote that Black men have the highest rate of infidelity! 30% higher than white men. DAMN!! It used to be that a brotha had to be an athlete or entertainer. Nowadays, these women don't care. THe athletes have non-sista-itis the worse. But, if a brutha complains about sistas too hard on them....then go on with your weak ass!


Goliano
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I knew the headline was a gonna be an exaggeration.


princessof_la
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Uncle_Tom Is that your reply? Sit your wack a** down. You couldn't draw a worthy emotion out of me, even if we were watching Roots. You're unable to hang w/ the debate, because your text book bullsh*t can't teach you common sense. Get the f*ck outta here!!!!! That reply was weak as hell. And as for you bringing the truth..respond to my original text to you & stop dodging it. I was taught to watch the DOG that brings the bone, o..but you wouldn't understand, since it's not written down, huh. Stop wrapping yourself in your own sick theories to feed your sickness, it's pathetic. How's your life in the real world? Friends vs. Enemies? Trust me, know what takes a man serious who can't think for himself.


dropdead71
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I feel bad that so many women feel this way but it is obvious that a lot of women feel dogged and left behind by black men.


princessof_la
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I know y'all speak typonese. Trust me, no one what takes a man serious who can't think for himself.


dropdead71
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Mandingo is a good film to watch..ALONG WITH THE ENTIRE COLLECTION OF ROOTS.


dropdead71
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Another myth that I would like to dispel is the fact that NOT ALL white women are attracted to or want a black man in any form or fashion. I grew up around white girls/women that would never even consider it...most don't want to bring a black man home to ma and dad either. Especially the ones that come from money, not an option.


princessof_la
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Honestly, some of us, like Black Men, know that there's other options. It's about being w/ someone who understands you, not about race or color. I like men, period. Just because I date another race or color, doesn't mean I don't love my strong Black Brothas.. ~Envogue~



whynot
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dropdead71 - wake up. Mentally we have been tampered. We have the highest rate of "Love is love, I'm not colorblind." Don't get me wrong, I believe that. Just think about it....


dropdead71
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@whynot Are you a white women if I may ask? I guess I just don't understand your comment.


MSEBZDC01
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The quote strikes me a bit odd every hot guy she's running to right now to her anyways is white..... it makes me wonder where the hell she be at -_o. I mean I find some white dudes good looking but anywhere I roll most the fine men are black or maybe mixed. If that's her taste right now it's not hurting me lol.


whynot
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No I am not white. THe comment was that most blacks say that when they r in a relationship with a non-black that "Love is Love". We don't have a strong will to keep the black family together and love within the race. The statistics show that we have the highest rate of interracial relationships. It goes back to slavery and what we were taught to believe or not believe about "our" folks. We don't have the extensive family lineages to be proud of to keep the black family going. It's amazing to hear non-black families discuss their Irish ancestry "way back". THey are so proud of it!


whynot
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Love is love though :-)


princessof_la
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Uncle_Tom um..where's your post on WolfGang Puck & his Black Wife? I left you a little love note over there.


hired_gun
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@ Ihavetosay I didn’t want to come back to this post. It seems like you are quoting numbers out of your ass. First you say that 50% of black men are gay in ATL. Than you said the ratio of black women to black men in ATL is 8: 1…now you are saying they are outnumbered by 10 fold. My question to you is, where do you get your numbers? Here is a statistic I pulled from an Atlanta website: A recent pole showed that the ratio of black men to black women was 597 black men to every 1000 women. Now, that is not 8: 1, which is not 10 fold…that is a 2: 1 ratio. And one more thing if you want to come attack me, you got the wrong guy. I don’t give a F#ck if you decide to f#ck a cow. You are an adult…you do what the F#ck you want. Just the same way you don’t come b!tching about who some black men are f@cking. Damn, give the sh!t a rest. You b!tch about gay black men, DL black men, black men who sleeps with white women, black men who sleeps with latino women. You are constantly b!tching about who the black men are f@cking. Damn! …It is your F@cking body, you f@ck anyone you want. Personally, this topic is tasteless. A bunch of f@cking bitter people online trying to justify why they are F@cking this person. I think majority of you haven’t been F@cked in a long time.


Auriel
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How many of you would take offense if one of those white men she shouted out simply said "Sorry, I don't date black women". He would be all kinds of racist... I'm glad most of you stick to MTO as your outlet of choice because this is exactly where you belong.


hired_gun
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It is like i am in a f@cking pre-school with a bunch of little babies crying for affection. I have never seeen so many insecure people begging for affection. Again, whoever you are f@cking doesn't make me nutt...so i don't really give a f@ck. The only thing i am concerned is,as a black man, don't try to generalize me into some broad f@ucked-up category. Black man is this, black man is that...F@ck You! The only thing you shoud be concerned with is the person you F#cking.


princessof_la
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Most of us were speaking about relationships & not sex..Hopefully, that is the order.


tcook
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For her to be as pretty as she is, she always has a habbit of saying stupid stuff out of her mouth.


hired_gun
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@ princessof_la try having a relationship without sex... what, you wnat a partner so you can chill with and dicuss the latest gossip...?


dropdead71
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@whynot Okay, I gotcha.


Ihavetosay
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hired_gun- now you've truly played yourself. you clearly don't know what facetious means and you clearly are devoid of reading comp skills so you go on the attack. Until you can employ some basic communication skills, maybe you should fall back. Next time pull up the site dictionary.com Then try hookedonphonics.com and you've proven more and more how much you DO care with all your posting. If you don't care, why are you so hyped up? Why did you post in the first place? CALM DOWN AND TAKE YOUR OWN ADVICE, and move the f*ck on if you can't handle the discussion. On here posting like an ADD child on crack. You're so damn stupid, you call this discussion tasteless, but you can't stay away. Idiot. Don't reproduce.


hired_gun
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the same women who are bitching are the same ones raising boys that become the men they are bitchig about. Look in the f@ckig mirror. This F#cking topic is done. It is F@cking pointless. you have your beliefs and i have mines. We mutually agree that we can F@ck whomever we want. Period!



hired_gun
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@ihavetosay I don't give a f@ck if you were half jocking, being sarcastic or being truthful in your f@cking remark.... When you make broad sweeping generalization about any group without substantiated numbers you look like an a$$ole. Now like i said, this f@cking topic is done...go get f@cking laid..


Valgas
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Some hoe said she would let brad pitt and some other white dude hit her stankin puss on the drop of a dime. You'd let them tie a noose around your rusty azz neck and let them fvck you in the azz while they call you a chimpanzee? Then let him put his sh1tty d1ck in your already filthy and diseased puss, then back in your ass then in your mouth? THat's kinky as hell ! Props 2 you hoe. I bet that b1tch will let a cracka feed her kids bananas and call them lil monkey n1ggers and let them kick her child in the head. Thats how low these black whores go when they are given the chance to mess wit a white dude. When a white dude mistreat yall yall go out your way to make excuses for him but only give a brotha one chance. if that's how you want it then fine. everybody in the united states is going to be yellow ! Black dudes get at white women, white men get at black women. Lets get it!


kimpeach
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@ hired_gun It seems to me that your beef is with white men and black women. HOwever, I think majority of black women want black men and its clear to me that Ihavetosay love black men. She is only sad to see so many black women lose faith...read her other posts before you attack her. In the end, it doesn't matter who is f@cking who it doesn't stop the fact that black women are the back bones of the black community and some of us feel alone. Before you attack me, I am with a black man and I treat him as my King and he treats me as his Queen...that's the way it should be.


hired_gun
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@ihavetosay No, i don't care who you f@cking...i care about your sweeping generalizatoin of black men. As a black men living in this F@cking country, i know how difficult it can be. I don't need some bitter, insecure F@ck to come on a public forum, disseminating a load of bullsh!th about black men. I get to here it enough in the F@cking media. Again, Whoever you are F@cking doesn't feed me...and trutfully you or noone esle needs to justify to anyone who they are in a relationship with. i have said that continually. My problem is, don't try to justify your f@cking action by using the black man as a scapegoat. That's it. Period


hired_gun
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@ kimpeach.. My issue is not with white men or black women... Again, let me stress this fact. if you can see deeply into my mind, you will know i truely dont give a rat' a$$ if some black women decided to swear off black men for good. Agian, that wil not detract from my attraction to black women. My attraction for them is inherit, i was born with this f@cking atraction. But i do have issue with people coming online using blackmen as a crutch or as scapegoat for f@cking someone of another race. Do you...that's it..if you happy and the person you are with happy...f@ck anyone esle.


Katbutterfield7
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Rhianna is beautiful and she can date whom ever she pleases. Everyone is getting all bent out of shape over someone elses life. She doing the damn thing while ya'll wasting your time trying to change the world. I am a black woman and I love my husband (yes, he's white) he treats me like the queen I am. I love my black brothers and I have nothing negative to say about them. If you wanna see a happy and loving interracial couple...checkout my myspace. Mrs. Butterfield


hired_gun
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@katbuttefield7 That's my point...my brother is married to a beautiful Columbian girl and he is very active in the black community. He has a pee-wee football team he coaches and not to mention, the countless charity events he sponsors. Never f@cking once, i hear him bad mouthing black women. One time, he almost got into it with a man on the football field that was disrespecting a black female.


sexyazz82
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Who cares if she wants to date white men. Whats the problem black men have been doing for years. so who care if a black women wants to date a white man well its abourt time. as for me i will stay with mu beautiful black kings


hired_gun
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@ sexyazz82... yo sound like a bitter F@ck The fact that black men have been dating white women is not a legitimate reason as to why Black women should start dating white men. When you use this line of reasoning, you are using black men as a scapegoat for promoting your actions. I don't think it is fair. That's been my point throughout this post. Either you are ignorant or very remedial...because it seems like you fail to see the point and repeat the same sh!th that was repeated 12 dozen times before.


dropdead71
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I have to admit that I do wish black men would step up to the plate and do more for us. Why don't so many of you like to wine and dine and do the things most people like to do in general? I get sick of sittin home cookin all the damn time!!! I just feel like after awhile you take us for granted and don't feel the need to do the nice things anymore.


dropdead71
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It all starts out good in the beginning and then it turns into the same old sh*t day in and day out. No change to the routine, no adventures.....I just don't know alot of black couples that are really doin it to the fullest anymore.


dropdead71
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Actually I think we will find more and more women single in the next decade of all races.


cutie64
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I'm a black woman, and I have to admit I hate you ghetto ass black men and welfare hoes!!!! Make me embrassed to be black!!!I say run to those white men RiRi, at least they speak with proper english!!! Later for you Darkies!!!!!!!!!!


dropdead71
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@cutie64 Do you date a white man then? Why do you feel the way you do?


dropdead71
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wow alot of women are really tired of brothas I guess.....



cutie64
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A white man would'nt want you three baby daddys having, fat ass, ghetto, red, blonde weave having, big black, welfare ass bitches anyway!!!He can't even take your ghetto ass home to mom, its too damn embrassing.So don't worry about being attracted to a white man, cause he ain't attracted to you, Trust!


cutie64
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@dropdead71 I'm married to a black man.Have been for four years, and he feels the same way I do.We are too tired of ghetto ass blacks!


strawcream
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@ cutie64 wow what foul mouth you have damn...Did you just contradict yourself by saying I say run to those white men RiRi, at least they speak with proper english!!! Later for you Darkies!!!!!!!!!! Then you turn around and say: A white man would'nt want you three baby daddys having, fat ass, ghetto, red, blonde weave having, big black, welfare ass bitches anyway!!! He can't even take your ghetto ass home to mom, its too damn embrassing.So don't worry about being attracted to a white man, cause he ain't attracted to you, Trust I'm confuse one minute it seems as if you like go get yours who cares if he's white then then the next you snap! You off the fucking chain...lol


CaramelwithNutz
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I haven't read all the comments yet, so I don't know if my comment is between an arguement or not, but all my life I've only dated black men. I love em', I can't help it. To let you know, I am a black young lady, and my preference is black men. Especially, dark, black fine men. But, being that all I date is black men, I'm starting to feel as if it's becoming a handicap for me. Black men is making it very hard for me not to wonder and explore other options, you know. Most of the ones that I have been dating also, date white women, saying that they like snow bunnies to. All I can say is okay. I mean you like what you like. We are all grown here. Yet, they are seeing me at the same time, so, yeah they like me to. I just feel like I need to broaden my horizon. Yet, I do still love my brothers.


strawcream
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I must agree black people have been showing there natural born asses to the world. What happen to sticking together and family structure? We are so quick to stab each other in the back snitching being evil towards one another. There really is no sisterly love like most of us claim to have. Then you got these brothers who only give a damn about themselves maybe that has to do with lack of home training and discipline. Then you have black folks who spend 85% of their time invested in doing evil things to each other. For example: My girl friend house was burned down by two black men she lost her entire family beside her son her husband and two daughters perish in the blaze. I'm hurt by all of this they are now serving a life sentence for this crime. Its crazy but black people need to start taking a good look at themselves individually and re-examine their own lives then make a change within. There is no excuse because there is help just ask for it.


cutie64
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@strawcream I'm saying for those black women on here who are saying that they stick with black men, thats good because a white man doesn't want a ghetto black woman anyway!So they don't even have to worry about that.


Missmedia81
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LOL u wish u could get me mad. Yes I have a lot of nerve thats why im successful. Akan you jumped in a middle of my my posting to African child and mad at me cause I stated black women are exercising and vocalizing their options just like black men been doing. I never remember stating that men of other races don't. I actually agree with you thats why us black women have so many people to chose from. @ Official who wrote I am guessing towards me... "she just believe blackmale our the only race of men our oppotunist when it comes having sex with other races of women." If thats your ideology then boss up and state it. Those are your words and your view. You making silly conclusions like African Child. CTFU If those are your views don't reflect them on me. I have no problem stating the way I think. SO I don't need you trying to put statements on me like I even went there where you are taking it. So check ya self first.


CaramelwithNutz
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I'm wondering. Did Rihanna actually stated this or is it something to get a reaction out of the people? Just to see what we would say?


kareem200
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how many black females in the u.s would pick a white man over a black guy? not including (the hood rats and chicken heads) www.myspace.com/ace_2cool


kareem200
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statistically speaking


Savy_Da_Boss
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She can still catch it! www.myspace.com/savychicago THE CUTEST RAPPER ALIVE!!...cuz YO girl said so!


CaramelwithNutz
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@Kareem200 To answer your question, I'll always favor black first. But, depending on the person. Like I said, I haven't dated a white guy yet. So, say like, I had a choice between a black man and a white man, they both are successful, treat me right and show great interest in me, I would pick the black guy. Even if the white guy was more successful and the black guy's income wasn't as substantial but works hard and has goals, I'll still pick the black guy. But, if the black guy treated me like sh@t, then of course the white guy, if he's treating me right. They both must have a great personality. That's a given. The black man doesn't have to be the greatest looker but, must appeal to me. The white man must be no less than a 8 on a scale from 1-10(LOL). Remind you, this is just my view. Let others speak for themselves!


pumkinface
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she should continue modeling, ONLY!!!


NigerianSupermodel
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Who gives a damn who Rihanna wants? By the time she's 25, she's gonna be a whore. That's what it seems like. She doesn't look anywhere near 19! Damn Jay Z, is it like that? Too bad that's how she has to market herself just to sell records! But I love Umbrella, though!


Uncle_Tom
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@HIRED gun I agree...this thread has exhausted itself.. you told the truth uncut and raw my brother and you just laid it out there...I DONT CARE who anyone else is screwing...if they are happy, Im happy...Last night I asked that all who say they are finished with black men to leave and go to CHUCKS interracial website and do what they need to do to meet up with some nice white men... But you know what? Most still chose to come back here and argue, get all emotional, get angry, almost foaming at the mouth...Its a deep psychosis and some deep mental illness at work here..I didnt myself even realize how much in pain black women are and how confused ans love starved...It truly pains me to see them in this much pain...They feel so unloved, undesired and unwanted and have such a encapsulating inferiority complex...No one actually took me up on my offer to begin to heal and bring about solutions, but that loving offer seemed to entice even more anger and hatred... Im starting to think that African American women on the most part are so damaged psychologically from American racism most will never be able to make anyone a true loving partner in a normal relationship... There are beautiful black sisters, In Brazil, Honduras, Namibia, Ghana, Cuba, Belize, Rwanda, , Venezuela Senegal, Cameroon, Botswana and Ethiopia....They would love to be the woman in a relationship and let a man be a man and not try to compete for manhood instead of being the best woman she can be... the black women in countries like America, England, South Africa, Canada, the Caribbean have been so messed up by slavery and the deep seated inferiority complex that it could give to the weaker minded is in many cases too much to bounce back from.. Most of them are confused and bitter as well as very angry and they have become to be like men...Im not sure if it is the excessive estrogen in the cows and chickens which causes a dramatic increase in testosterone in women...These escessive hormones also are causing men and boys to become more effemnate....There are a few sisters who see through the bs and who are intelligent enough to not get caught up in artificial division but these sisters are as rare as fine rubies...And when a brother sees one he puts a ring on her finger immediately...I am lucky enough to have found my own gem. Brother need to start expanding our horizons and realize that this is a BIG WORLD and there are some gorgeous black women all over the world who would love to take on the womans role and bear us black children without all the drama and the pissing contest with those who are not eqipped to be in such a contest.



SweetStacia
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I agree with you 100% ~*{CaramelwithNutz}~* I couldn't have put it better myself ;-)wink!!! @ Cutie64; It seems to me that you are rude and abrasive. Yet you want to put down black women who you feel aren't "as good as you." Clearly, you have a superiority complex that you need to get over. You probably aren't even that great I would bet. Don't get me wrong, ignorance is a turn off. I agree. But the middle, upper middle and high class can be just as obnoxious and offensive as lower class individuals. Also, some white men LOVE the typical ghetto black girl. They think its sexy. Your not a white man so dont attempt to speak for them and what it is that they like and dislike!!! Just so you know, the answer is no! Before you even go there, I am NOT the "Ghetto, dirty, section 8 chic with kids" I went to North Carolina A&T University. I work Downtown in Washington DC at The US Department of Commerce. I can see the White House lawn from My office.


Chaka9
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I still say that she's a tranny, and this is another Milli Vanilli scandal waiting to happen.


Chaka9
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...and there ain't nothin' wrong wit' a lil' cream in yo' coffee if it's sweet.


Valgas
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Lmao @ Chaka9 you really think rihanana is a tranny? She's a damn pretty tranny if she is. Just about all rnb singers today are milli vanillis.


shemia
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I want to know what she said about Jayz, why it got to the point where she couldn't look at or talk to him! Beyonce must have went Hood Houston on her azz!Let's stay together black americans.


princessof_la
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hired_gun Listen HomoThug. What I SAID was, Relationship, then sex. In that order. just because you be getting ya little booty dug out, doesn't make you Ma'Dear. so chill out w/ all that finger snapping cause you don't want it w/ me Baby. I will snatch that pink bandana off ya head & slap you w/ it. Stay in ya place. Studio Gangsta.


princessof_la
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Don't quote me either, you sound ridiculous. You can't go 3 words w/out say F*ck. You need to reinvent yourself, ya energy is all F*CKED UP!! Start w/ a colon cleanser, cause ya full of sh*t.


mr314
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honeydip211 you need a life if ur always first to comment


chinababbi
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rihanna takes really nice pics...


REDBONE37
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This lil girl was doing fine til she said that dumb shyt. If that's the only reason she wants to date a white guy then she's mistaken. I knew it was just a matter of time before her age start talking for her.


missnellypoo
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SHE IS BETTER AS A MODEL! myspace.com/mizzsexythang27


lilo0804
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Wow...@ Uncle Tom ...normally I don't agree w/ur rehtoric buh this time, im (really) feelin ur wisdom & ur perspective...on ur topics 2 day. Ur intense . My ears R wide open .. NEWAY....i do think Orlando Bloom IZ HOT !!!!!


realwoman
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hmmm this is interesting. As I thought, there were MANY comments from those who claim there is a double standard in regards to BW/WM interracial relationships, yet this topic is up to 500 comments in such a short period of time. I also see they conveniently skipped over and ignored the negative comments made about this type of relationship. I stand by my belief that there are many white women and black men who are in denial about the problems that black women and white men face when dating. I TOLD YOU SO! Also, Uncle Tom, you are mostly on point. I don't agree that Black women wear that euro hair for the approval of white men, but for the approval of Black men who have fed into the lie that eurobeauty is the best beauty. Do you really think DL Hughly was the only Black man that thought those Rutgers girls were nappy headed and 'rough'? The numbers CLEARLY show that Black women prefer BLACK men so why would so many of them change their hair to attract men they aren't as attracted to? It doesn't make sense.


realwoman
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Valgas Flag post Some hoe said she would let brad pitt and some other white dude hit her stankin puss on the drop of a dime. You'd let them tie a noose around your rusty azz neck and let them fvck you in the azz while they call you a chimpanzee? Then let him put his sh1tty d1ck in your already filthy and diseased puss, then back in your ass then in your mouth? THat's kinky as hell ! Props 2 you hoe. I bet that b1tch will let a cracka feed her kids bananas and call them lil monkey n1ggers and let them kick her child in the head. Thats how low these black whores go when they are given the chance to mess wit a white dude. When a white dude mistreat yall yall go out your way to make excuses for him but only give a brotha one chance. _________________________________________________ Official and Superwoman...please read above. Would you care to comment?


Uncle_Tom
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@real woman, You make abount the hair issue and why black women go for European limp styles as opposed to styles that are more in tune with her essence. You are right, I think for all intents and purposes they are doing it to attract black men because they know how MOST black men have cosigned onto the propaganda of blondes have more fun and "MY HAIR IS MORE MANAGEABLE LIKE THIS NOW, BEFORE I COULDNT DO A THING WITH THIS NAPPY OLE SHYT THAT GOD MESSED UP AND GAVE ME"... Any black man who doesnt like what he sees when he sees a black woman in her natural beutiful glory , I would dare to say, doesnt like what he see when he looks in the mirror... And if this is all so and black women wear their hair in European images to appeal to black males(wont all them men), then doesnt that also make them mentally ill to play into someone elses(black males) psychosis? You have to have a deep seated inferiority complex and a psycho-social psychosis to belittle yourself enough to play into someone else's psychosis... think about that... my pancakes are ready. thanks for changing my mind on that issue...Now that you have enlightened me I realize that black women do wear their hair in thise silly European styles and blonde colors because I think they think black men are attracted to this crap.



realwoman
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Uncle Tom...I also wanted to ask why you didn't fully address Chuck? He called you and some other men out as being disresepctful towards Black women. Even as you 'escort' those out who you say have given up on Black men you still proceed to call the rest of us fat and unattractive to Black men. Are you trying to prove this white man right or something? The last time I checked obesity was equal amongst Black MEN and WOMEN. Why are you focusing on Black women only? Why haven't you fully discussed what we should do about Black men in prison, unemployed, uneducated etc. as much as you focus on Black women's weave?


realwoman
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and UncleTom alot of Black men are attracted to it. Look at the magazines they put out. Rarely do you see any of the Black women sporting natural locs. What amuses me the most is that no matter how much a flatter less hippy figure is pushed on them they still tend to flock towards the thicker muscular behind and small waist! lol You don't have to address Chucky but dammit he was right about seeing how some Black men disrespect Black women on here. I wonder if others like him use that as some sort of pickup line?


Drea77
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Wow, here we are again huh? I haven't been able to log on all weekend but I see I haven't missed much! Always ends up in the same topic huh? Such a damn shame, I swear! So much hatred. One person should never judge another person. Who are you to do so? You never know what the next person is going through. Everyone is entitled to their own thoughts and beliefs. Instead we like to say what we beleive they should be doing. Why? Can't we all just be free to live our lives as we see fit? I mean that's what it is all about right? What's good for me may not be good for the next person, and vise versa. If a black woman wants to perm her hair straight, does that make her less "black"? If a white woman wants to put braids in her hair then she's trying to be black? A latina woman has a flat azz, is she really latina? A white woman has TOO MUCH azz, did she get implants? When does it stop????? Not only black and latina's have booty, white people do to. Woman, whether they are white, black WHATEVER change their hair because THEY WANT TO!! Different styles bring out different parts of you. One style may be just comfortable and no hassle, while another style makes you feel super sexy, while another one is more business like..etc. When are we going to stop judging everybody? I know I am guilty of it from time to time myself, but when I read all of this foolishness it makes me realize even more why I always do my best to have an open mind and not pass judgement. Everyone you encounter is going through some kind of issue that you are unaware of. Leave them be and worry about your own self.


Uneek
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NINJA..... I tip my hat to you girl.....I agree with you. I am in an interracial realtionship also. WE LOVE and respect each other very much. I did not purposly go out and say I am going to find myself a white man. Nor do I have some bitterness against black men. I've known him for many years and we decided that we were right for each other. I've met his family as he has met mine and for all those around us, we have no problems. If we decided to get married, then so be it. If I worry about how others feel about me and what I do, then I will have alot of issues. But I don't. If you don't like it, then you don't like it. You don't want to see it, close your eyes!!! I'm not going to hide my love for him cuz someone else dissapproves of it!! Why is it that people feel that if your seen dating outside of your race your seen as hating yourself or a sellout?? Please...if I find love with whom ever, why is it any body's business??? At the end of the day....who the hell really cares who your lying in bed with???? As for Rhi Rhi....DOWHATCHALIKE!!!


Uncle_Tom
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@real woman i didnt react or respond to chuck because Im not concerned with white people and what they think right now...my priority and my focus is on my people and getting our stuff together...once we our stuff together then we can get about the business of worrying about what other people think about me... chuck to me is just a distraction and my feelings is, that any black women that want to go with chuck or his buddies, then so be it and I wish them all happiness and love...but to date other people for political purposes or for a revenge f@uck is itself jumping out of the frying pan and into the fire and it will open up a whole new set of problems, especially for the offspring of such a faulty reason to get into a relationship... yep, to me chuck is a non issue but a necessary evil and a very viable option for NEGROE women. to each their own.


gyalyougood
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I am not sure about some of those pics, especially the one in the blue outfit with her hunched over like Igor?...How is that sexy? P.S. Lately I don't think Rihanna's acting like a girl who is proud of her roots...I don't have a problem with her liking white guys, but it seems like she's trying to change who she is too much!


Uncle_Tom
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@real woman I wrote a very relevant post in this thread and I begged the sisters and brothers to let us discuss SOLUTIONS and that seemed to make the sisters even more angrier than before...So I just distanced myself from the negativity. some people enjoy relishing in blame and misery and once some says "come on lets fix this and make it right" they run away or try to shut you down because deep inside they really dont want to bring about solutions...hate to say it but the reason for this is that some people have been SO accustomed to misery, it has become like a warm familiar blanket to them and they would feel naked without a reason to be unhappy...It makes them feel alive... Not knowing how much more happy love and happiness would feel because they just have never truly experienced and they subconsciously feel they are NOT ENTITLED TO BE HAPPY AND TO HAVE HTE BEST THINGS IN LIFE...


prettylatina
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OMG 500+ posts and counting, you did it again UncleTom. Shouldve used that reverse phsychology from the get go. lol Peace!


realwoman
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'people have been SO accustomed to misery, it has become like a warm familiar blanket to them and they would feel naked without a reason to be unhappy' THIS IS SO TRUE! Have you heard of the Buy Black Initiative? This is where you make sure that a certain percentage of what you spend goes to Black owned companies. Now I have a few friends who I have emailed about this and it pisses me off, that when my birthday or a holiday rolls by they STILL buy me gifts from china! Am I wrong for being upset about this? (kind of off topic, but you seem like you'd understand). I also forgot to respond to the alleged comments made by Rihanna. People people...if you really think this is some sort of cry for the Black woman to date outside of her race and stop 'limiting' herself to Black men then you are imbeciles. Yeah I said it! This is all a marketing ploy. The same as what Kelly tried. I guarantee this. This is to show diversity and make them appear less scary to whites. Seriously can someone please tell me what is so attractive about Orlando Bloom and Justin Timberlake? Terrell Owens (even with the arrogance) is MUCH MUCH MUCH more manly and sexy than those two!


hired_gun
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@ princess_la it is interesting...out of all the names to call me you choose homothug... Is this one of your shame tactics? Now that you call me a homothug, i am suppose cringe and fear speaking my mind. You are a f@cking typical black amrican broad UncleTom...i am honestly convince black women are f@ucking broken beyond repair. And Any person, it could be balck, white, lation, who gets involved with them will soon learn. There are some exceptions, but like you said, they are rare rubies. Black American women are incapabe of being in a relationship with aguy, especially black men. They always want to play the victim role, and refuse to accept accountablity for their own decisions and actions. I am convince, as much as i am attracted to black women, i am grateful there are a variety of black women of different nationality. I am currently in a relationship with a girl from dominican republic... I will tell you this, i never knew what it felt like to be in a true relationship until i've been with her. Black men you are being cheated by these combative, overly irrational and emotional and uncompormising braods. your best bet is to get your education, make good money and travel the world. Leave these miserable broads alone.


hired_gun
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It seems like every black women i've come across are part of the same B!tching Fest Club. It seems like they live for this sh!t. if they aren't b!tching then they aren't comfortable. The man could be working and making money, they would still find a reason to B!tch. American black women will never be satisfied, because they have been raise to become miserable broads. I have stop trying to satisfy you...because you are incapable of it. It is in your nature, passed on by your momma to be miserable and uncouth.


gyalyougood
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It is really funny how these topics spark so much debate and anger and outrage.....Man this is like CNN


Uncle_Tom
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@Pretty latina, i was truly keeping it real..and btw there is really over 600 posts not 500...it was 581 when I got home last night...this morning they reset it to 500 again.. @hired gun you are absolutely correct..the last couple of years I have mostly come to the same conclusion. No man wants to get into a relationship to be fighting and battling with his woman all the time...No sane man anyway...Brothers need to concentrate on getting their corporation together, get into dealing with the foreign currency market,import/ export and technology to the point where they are truly world citizens and not confined solely to this place called America...Dick Cheney does it through his Haliburton Corporation...Believe me, there are some gorgeous black women all over the world who are not mentally damged goods like here in America and Great Britain ...Right there in Brazil, those sisters down there treat African American men like a King and the American dollar goes so much further in Africa or South America.. You can build a villa/motel right on the beach on the Gold Coast of Ghana for less than $100,000 American dollars and have a viable business to keep cash flow constantly and dont even have to live there year round... We have to start thinking GLOBAL!


realwoman
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Just curious hired_gun. Does your Dominican woman think of herself as Black?


prettylatina
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** Oh my God, here we go again**



Uncle_Tom
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YES, and until that poster said it it didnt even register to me that Rihanna was posing in that blue thing like A HUNCHBACK....lol She must really be trying to appeal to white men..."See look at me, I have a hunchback just like you white fellas, buy my CD's, I like you"


hired_gun
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@ realwoman.. My dominican woman sees herself as a woman with a wondeful opportunity. In don't care how many mixes she has in her, she is black. Why would she think of herself differently. I don't view black as being inferior, or something to deny. She relishes in the fact that is she black and quick to denounce anyone who calls her otherwise. If you go across the world, white is the minority complexion. Why do you think white Amercans are baking in the sun just to give themselves a little pigmentation? I was blessed with this skin and my brothas and sisters are being killed because of this skin. My skin is far superior to any other skin. And white american knows that. And that's why you see them trying to invade and destroy every civilation whose pigment is different from them. They feel inferior, because they are inferior and the minority.


realwoman
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Lookie here hired_gun, just stick to answering my question and stop freestyling! j/k Just wondering because there are certain LATINAS who look Black as all hell who do not consider themselves Black and you said you started to date BLACK women of different nationalities... You are right on point about the TRUE minority.


realwoman
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**sigh** sorry I can't let it slide...I don't think it is just Black women in America who are miserable. There are PLENTY Black men in America who are miserable as well and this seperation of the two is just silly. Let's be real. I hate to say it, but just being Black in America is cause to be miserable sometimes.


Uncle_Tom
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@REAL WOMAN let me open you up to a telling sign of misery in a human being... I tell you that there is a very big problem with obesity among african american women and we all know its a fact, but look how you responded.. "WELL MEN ARE FAT TOO" i tell you that wearing your hair exclusively in European styles is a very significant psychosocial pathology for African American women and you come back with "We do it because you want us to" Misery loves what?


REDBONE37
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[SHEMAN] you cool peoples, but sweetie don't you think that invitation you posted was a little out of character. Everybody is aware of your sex preference because you've posted your number once before, and then you always let it be known that, that's what you like. Ok, fine, I personally don't have nothing against what you like, but don't you think your personal business is only for you to know? Whatever my sex preference is I'm never gonna post it on this website cause I don't know nobody on this site from a can of paint, and my personal business is my personal business. But to each it's own.


prettylatina
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Realwoman You brought up a very valid observation about being black in America. There is so much negative stigma associated with being a "black American" that some latinos, dont want to associate themselves with black americans. That is not for all latinos ofcourse but Ive heard it out of some of their mouths. Specially the latin males. Its so funny becuase Im just looking at them thinking, OK so a white racist, youre shyt to them too, youre black, only difference your first language is spanish. But not is not always the case, my father knows he is a black man first in the eyes of Americans but he will always say he is Puerto Rican. Its like Tony Parker, Im sure he knows he is a man of black descent but he says he is French becuase that is his country of birth.


Valgas
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@Official Im pretty sure Orlando got back with Kelly on the low and smashed her black azz real quick and bounced. You know how them english dudes feel about black women. Yall only good for fvckin.


NormalBajanSister
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@Uncle_Tom On one hand, I can agree with some of what you are saying, espcially in regards to the issues of hair, colourism (the whiter, the righter) and the need to become more focused on black economic, social and health issues. In terms of hair and colorism, TOO often on these message boards, I see comments denigrating our normal African features. For example, comments saying how nasty/ugly a darker skinned person is, or how someone's hair looks nappy or edges look rough. Now I KNOW this is a gossip site, but please, some people need to GET A GRIP!!! Do you hate yourself (and by extension, your mothers, your ancestors) that much that dark skin and coarse textured hair is so unappealing or disgusting? On the other hand, Uncle_Tom, here's where I have to digress from your points of view... How can you be all about black empowerment, but still you choose time and time again to dismiss Rihanna (and others) based on your view of her appearance and based on your assumptions of her morality? For your view of black empowerment to truly work on a global level, then all black people need to refrain from statements which insult other blacks based on their appearance. Nobody can choose what colour their skin is, how coarse their hair is, how high their forehead is, etc. What we can choose (or change) is how we view our selves and our self-worth, and what is TRULY important in life.


NormalBajanSister
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Ok, so after 2 months of only reading posts on this website, I finally decide to jump onto the melee for my girl, Rihanna. Now I can't claim that I know her personally, but as a fellow born and raised Bajan female (same socio-economic background), perhaps I can give a more truthful interpretation to her quote: "I wouldn't have wanted to date White guys before, but they're killing it right now - Justin Timberlake, Orlando Bloom, Paul Walker ... Every hot guy I see is White" Growing up in Barbados, most of the people she (most likely) would have been around, would have been of African descent (meaning black people) who run the gamut of very light complexion to very dark complexion. MOST of the people in Barbados are medium brown or darker. So in normal, everyday social situations (especially including her secondary school) 95% of the dating pool is black. Hence, most females in Barbados don't even consider dating a white guy because there are not that many around... they are kinda out of your social consciousness. I mean, there are some around, but they tend to date other whites or near-whites. In MY own experience (and I suspect Rihanna's), I never felt like I was missing anything, as the few white boys that were around usually had some major faults (ie. lazy/no ambition due to being born into colonial-heritage money and/or were not very intelligent). If Rihanna is anything like I expect from having gone to one of the best schools in Barbados, she probably values intelligence, integrity, etc, over what colour a guy's skin is. On a more subtle level, perhaps it can be considered that the "hot guys" that she notices right now are all white POSSIBLY because the vast majority of non-white guys she runs into (in the entertainment business) are NOT-hot/attractive, as they minds are geared only towards a Pimp-impersonation lifestyle. For me, nothing is a faster, more immediate turn-off (straight detour into unattractive and ugly) than a guy whose main interest appears to be about showing off how much money he "supposedly" has or how many male/female flunkies/floozies he can have around him. Chances are though, these are EXACTLY the type of non-white guys she runs into these days... YUCK!! So if the hot guys she runs into these days are white and killing it right now for her, I say SO BE IT. I personally feel she is NOT writing off all black guys. She is just expressing a reality for her situation.


realwoman
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Uncle Tom if that is your definition of misery then you are just as miserable as the women you are pointing the finger at. A FEW Black women here say they want to date white men and then Uncle Tom has a heart attack and tries to give all away to white men and by end of post has completely given up on American Black women. Who was preaching unity again?


SugaBear
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notanangel Im in DURHAM, NC what up? plus im bi-racial and i dont see what the big deal is. ppl should date whovever they want. ppl saying that there arent enough availiable black men are right, they're gay, locked up, or just too imature and thug wannabees. if a mexican or white man wanna step up then so be it. there are too many single black women around. i have a g/f but if i didnt i'd be making sure nobody was lonely.


Uncle_Tom
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Normal Bajan Sister You probably have my comments mixed up with someone elses...You seem to be puttinig everyones negativity in one neat little basket and laying it on my doorstep.. I never said anything about Rihanna appearance, her choice of mate or her personal preference...Shes entitles to like who she likes and sleep with who she pleases...tHATS what I have said from the beginning...For all those who choose to be with black people, we also have that right ...Lets not lose that in all of this either.. And lastly you are right...Most negroes are very self hating and I see the comments on hear all the time about this one or that one being too dark...Or why doesnt she get those naps out of her hair and get it DONE RIGHT...Or i dont see what shes sees in that dark skinned guy...Or Beyonces too pretty for Jay Z bECAUSE HE has distinct African facial features (thick lips and wide thick nose... I have seen the owners of this site who are possibly black themseves compare Serena WEilliams to an animal...I have seen then compare Jaz Z to an animal (Camel)...I have seen them congratulate Rihanna and Beyonce and other light skinned permed and weaved up sisters as looking good but when Isaih Washingtons beautiful Queen was pictured with him in a beautiful short natural THE BLACK WOMEN made hundreds of comments about how she needed to get her shyt together and do something with that nappy ass hair...They may as well have called her a nappy headed Hoe... Now am I lying or am I lying? I literally sat back for the last couple of months and monitored this website and the mindset and the commentary of my people of how they feel about themselves...I stood by in silence and only the last couple of weeks have I chosen to get a screen name for myself and dialouge with my people to see where we are at and where we are headed and I see very little hope for you...Im about to write you off and as Jesus said "Let the dead bury the dead"


NormalBajanSister
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@Uncle_Tom You wrote: "You probably have my comments mixed up with someone elses...You seem to be puttinig everyones negativity in one neat little basket and laying it on my doorstep.. I never said anything about Rihanna appearance, her choice of mate or her personal preference..." I BEG TO DISAGREE... Here are YOUR own words from your first post on this topic: (1) "she may not want to date me but shes still sexy with that football forehead. she dont have any body though…" (2) "her attempt to infiltrate black culture has failed because she couldnt sell us any of her CD's, so shes going to try to ingratiate herself as a C-list whore to A-list white Hollywood stars…" (3) "I hope you hook up with a famous white man Rhianna because if you had to rely on your talent to be a star in your own right, you would be turing tricks for cocaine at those tourist hotel/clubs in Trindad like before" Now if those QUOTED comment of YOURS are negative, and degrading about Rihanna's "appearance, her choice of mate or her personal preference"... then my reading comprehension skills must be sorely lacking. I do believe I laid my basket at the right doorstep.


SugaBear


realwoman
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Well I guess I'll be alone in trying to unite us. I don't really need an army anyway. All you knucklehead self hating negroes look for Realwoman in a town near you! lmao Here is my plan: Like UncleGivesUpToEasy said, we need to create our own commerce and become more of an independant viable financial force by trading GLOBALLY. We are the top consumers here in the US and should use that to our advantage. Make a conscious effort to FREQUENT BLACK MERCHANTS. Stop being lazy and buying cd's/dvd's from chinese bootleggers in the hair salon/barbershop. Even if this means you have to pay $5 more for a product support your brothers and sisters. Remember this is for the future of your children! Invest in Black banks. Even if you are only putting $50 in a savings account a month. Stop allowing Asians and Europeans to mine in the fields of our brothers and sisters in the motherland and DO IT OURSELVES! Without the natural resources of Africa the world will come to a standstill. Take back control. Work a second job, get that ticket to Ghana, Nigeria, Sierra Leone visit the sites where your ancestors were sold/stolen. Create that connection spiritually and physically. BLACK MEN stop blaming BLACK WOMEN for every damn thing. BLACK WOMEN stop blaming BLACK MEN for every damn thing. Realize that the chaotic state we are in right now is because of ALL OF US. Appreciate your true beauty and stop looking to other races for that approval. Teach your children that they are beautiful and don't need to mutate into anything else. Educate yourselves and your children in the history of Black people as well as the history of the world. Make sure the author is BLACK. Stop using the terms 'good hair' 'too black' 'monkey' 'gorilla' 'ni&&a' 'africanbushboogie' etc. when describing other Blacks. Respect your elders. Those who are ignorant, remove yourself from their presence as much as you can. If you do not agree with this then so be it. However please do not discourage those who want to create the type of independance we need as a people. How many times does it have to be proven to you that there are people who want to see us fail because of our race. Until we can obtain this independence within our own race we cannot expect to have healthy relationships with others.


prettylatina
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*proper diet and exercise would be good too*


realwoman
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PL I have noticed that need for removal of many Latinos from Blacks. It has always been perplexing to me. I mean Latin Americans themselves carry a negative stigmatism ESPECIALLY with the immigration reform looming. Another thing, if it is just a matter of seperating cultures then why not just refer to yourself as a PR, DR, Panamanian, Mexican, Cuban etc. instead of Latino? It is almost like there was a rush to create a new RACE consisting of spanish speaking people of different cultures instead of just defining cultures.


africanchild
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@realwoman Please do not despair my sister, there are a lot of black people out there still making us proud!! You included. You had me all teary-eyed with your last post, You are a treasure my sister, and i am sure u are going to bring up FIERCE AND VERY ENLIGHTENED BLACK CHILREN. Thank you for your last post. @ Hired Gun You just keep on holding your head high! You know you are special. I love you my brother!!


realwoman
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THANK YOU AFRICANCHILD!! from one treasure to another. I won't despair. A friend of mine once told me that I'd get sick of trying to uplift Black people one day...a few years later I have that sister supporting Black businesses and feeling more positive about US. I'll NEVER get sick of it. I see too much overlooked beauty in us....


prettylatina
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Realwoman For etiquette purpose, if Im not sure what Latin country they are from then you refer to them as Latino. Its like if you dont know if a person is from Trinidad or Jamaica then you ask what Carribean island they are from that is all. But we do within our community refer to ourselves what ever country we are from.


realwoman
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That's what I mean, if I see a Black person from TNT or JA I will look at them and still know they are Black. Now if I want to go further and find out what nationality they are I may ask what island they are from or say they are Carib or from the Caribbean. If I see a Black person who happens to be from Panama, Costa Rica, PR etc. but say/assume they are Black that may cause a ruckus.


letzjustplayplz
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being a beautiful black woman that knows her power as a (black) WOMAN, who cares how others see us. its how we c ourselves. u think white women dont do things to themselves like go under the knife, but u guys wanna talk junk about a black woman and her weave. white women have weave, botox, implants, etc. tannin, tannin, and more tannin to be like us. i have never had a problem getting a white man or any man for that matter and i do believe it is because of one my confidence in being a beautiful black, indian, and white woman and two, my skin color not to mention my intelligence and humor. white men love us, but they r weak and r the first to committ suicide when things dont go right. black men have long abandoned us and now its time for us to stop feeling sorry for ourselves, love ourselves and our children so they wont grow up thinking that when we create something, its nothing until it has the white stamp of approval. Half the black men wouldnt have that white or whateva woman if it wasnt for their money. a woman should be able to wear what they want. other races always copy us and take our wind. so the punk azz black men need to step it up just a bit. bc i didnt hear not one good black man come to our defense when all those faggot azz rapper who hate women started callin us bitches and hoes. which i believe that closet freak SNOOP DOGGY WET DOG started. so to hell with the black bum ladies. start actin like ur chit dont stink like i do and go on with ur life and get whateva man u want. they just think they cant please like a black man can(sex). true that in most cases. but i do have to say that the white men treated by far way better than the black men. i use to say i would go to bat for the black man, but not anymore. im done, cant help them, they r lost ladies. just watch the new and u will c. the foreign men thou, ladies thats where its at. i have had two to purpose to me with fat, obese pockets but the sex wasnt there. broke good sex or rich with do-do sex. its to each its own. but im not poor, and i am married to a black man for now. but if a white or any other wants to holla, i will holla back. we use to raise the white ppls children and take care of them and take care of our brothers when massa wanted to whip the crap outta them, then rape his wife before she finishes and then the daughter, if the daughter wasnt his to begin with. but the brothas forgot that, but when they want some understanding, here they come with their sad poor excuses as to why they act a damn fool. they r the only ones acting in such a way and i am ashamed of my own black men. well i take that back they are not mine any more. the honkey tonks can have them.EVERYONE COMES FROM BLACK, NOW LETS START ACTIN LIKE IT. HELP EACH OTHER OUT. JUST TRY IT AND C IF U LIKE IT. HELL U WILL TRY A DRUG OUT IF SOMEONE SAID IT WOULD MAKE U FELL BETTA. NO DRUGS HERE BUT THE ONES THAT COMES FROM INSIDE. TRY IT AND DONT SAY NO TO THIS ONE. WE BLACK WOMEN HAVE BEEN HURT FOR WAY TOO LONG. TIME FOR SOME PAYBACK. LETS GET OUR SWAGGA ON.


letzjustplayplz
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they word that u cant see was fa8 or queer.


regal
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Mr Chuck, I agree with you completely. @Uncle Tom You have one or two points but they are misguided. If anything is to blame for a white man feeling ashamed to bring home a black woman, as you stress, it has more to do with social class than race. Because it would be the upper class rednecks who will do that and their families are ready to defend that wealth against any low class that has 'arrived to take it'. Notice that they will not be caugth dead with white low class women either aka trailer trash and infact, they would rather creep around with black women than white trailer trash. And note that these rich upper class rednecks will always accept a black person who has more money than them or in the same social class category into their families, and forget that he/she is "black" and so obviously money, and social status is the greater factor than race. That said, there are not enough post-slavery generations of black people to ensure 'old money', and then poor wage rates, discrimination and unemployment prevent 'new money' and so there has not been enough 'mixing' in that category.That is why like someone said, we should strengthen each other economically first - there are enough minorities in america to make you a succeful business person without complaining about stereotyped whites - before bitching about who's dating who because this is just ignorant and I am very ashamed to partake in it - but there has to be strong response to the NEGATIVE vibes you are putting out there about YOUR OWN women. How dare you come here and spread your deep hate for women OF YOUR OWN RACE!! What of the young Black ladies reading this and growing up thinking what you think of them??!Are you so bitter that this Bajan lady wants a white man?? You are the biggest sexist bigot out there and may your words come back to bite you one day. Mr. Chuck, I agree on various points that you say, for one, about this spook 'Uncle Tom', and also, having been in a family that has intermarried generously, I have seen how much easier it is for white families to accept a black woman into it than accept a black man, social class held constant.With people like "Uncle Tom", they know the stats;there's either him, or someone like him - he may even be writing from jail too,which may explain this lashing out at innocent people not responsible for his predicament.


letzjustplayplz
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one more thing, it has been a long standing tradition with the white ppl, pit the blacks against blacks, pit the black men against the black women, and you fall for it everytime. y should they have to do anything, hell we r killin and bashing within ourselves and thats y ur being laughed at.


regal
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I agree with the above post, and also with 'realwoman'. We need to realise that we are already the MOST EMULATED RACE and others just cannot seem to stop wanting to be us, do the things we do and like the things we like. I have also noted the self deprecating vibe of this site, starting with MTO and it is sad indeed because we OWN the thunder - and need to start acting like it. Stop being the most bigoted,ignorant and sexist people because the world, in following what we do, basically reflects that back on us. Own yourselves.No one will ever help you but yourselves.They never have, and never will, so get with it.


letzjustplayplz
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hired gun(typical name) and uncle tom(perfect), what prison cell r u too writing from and hired gun, if u do have a girlfriend, where is she now? ur on here too much to be with her pleasin her, maybe she's out with a white guy whos not fakin it trying to be black and intelligent. and for uncle tom i quess any attention is better than none huh little boy.


dropdead71
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@regal I'm really feelin what you're talking about....you are very intelligent.


dropdead71
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I think the ladies have proven their points so well on this round, no one can even come back with an argument. Even though I continue to try and stand by my brothas, I don't feel that they've ever been there for me unconditionally. I am very sad to read all of these posts because it lets me know that I'm not alone in some of my thoughts. Us women have supported black men for soooo long but in the end what do we get? Left a lot of the time, or abused.......



regal
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Exactly dropdead71,and thanks by the way, just spittin' it.Very sad what we've become,but I guess there's always hope.Outside of hateful self-denigrating people that piss me off.


crescentcity
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that bitch is lost and confused


prettylatina
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Realwoman Are you serious? Well if they do I dont know why they would get so uptite. That is just plain ignorant. It doesnt take a rocket scientist to know youre obviously a black person and then comes what country you are from. Cant say Ive come across that, but I can see youre frustration.


Auriel
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Its so laughable that some people bring up slavery when black women speak of sleeping with a white man; however, its closer to slavery for the black man to be working in these factories for 8-10/hour and no benefits making the white man filthy rich. That goes for the ladies too, I've bene there. Busting my @ss in an office getting paid only a fraction of what them fools were paying in taxes! Get angry about that and do something about it. Use that same anger, passion and energy I see on this board to get yours out there. p.s. the ones that respond "I have my own business, blah..blah..blah..." Spend less time on MTO and more time tending to it.


hired_gun
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@ letzjustplayplz wha you fail to understand, it doesn't take more than 2 minutes for me to write an entire essay in response to your Bullsh!t. I am running a T1 line in my home. While it may take you 30 minutes for you to post this BullSh!t, i can do it in less than one minute. Typical of you F@cks on here. You pretend to know everything about someoone. YOu wanna see my girl. What? are you a fucking dike? So, i must be a lonely f@ck like you because i am exching keystrokes with you F@cks? Listen, save that childish sh!t for your momma.


hired_gun
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All i see on here a bunch of blame shifter. Very few are willing to accept responsibity and share the blame. Again many of you are broken beyond repair. The first sign is failure to admit it.


hired_gun
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Auriel, nothing is funny about slavery. i think you people have bought into this myth that you've arrived as blacks in this country. Get you head out of you a$$. The only thing that has happen is you are now a new slave in a new form of institutional slavery. man, i wish you people would open your eyes to who runs shit in this world. Go look at he Federal Reserve Bank. Although it disguise itself as a Federal institution, it is a privately run bank, run by a few powerful families, the Rothschild, the Rockefeller, etc. go research the Li family of china. Go research the BILDERBERG family. You are nothing but f@ckign lackeys in this system. Don't f@cking think because you s@cking on a pink d!ck or pu$$y, you have arrived.


hired_gun
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@ regal...you wrote an entire essay on trying to convince yourself that the white men really value any other race but his own. You are a F@cking idiot. I am sorry you are. You are so blinded it is not even funny. Do you ever wonder why in every white dominated TV institution, you see a token black person. Do you ever enter corporate America and you only see a few black tokens. Do you know why they do it? It is not because they like you or value your f@cking work ethic. They do it because of governmental quotas and possible law suits. if it was up to the white man, you all would be up for extermination. Oh that's right, half of the population of AFrica has already been exterminated over the past 15 years. Again, please, stop this bullSh1t


foxyloxy2000
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i feel ri cuz i'd rape all three of those gotti boys! but who the fu*k cares about that, u could give that little of the article where she talks about her fight with jay-z?


foxyloxy2000
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couldn't give that little piece of the article...dayum i'm slippin'


Uncle_Tom
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@real woman Im loving your plan for our survival.. Uncle Tom approves and gives that plan 2 pigs feets up! they say that the world wont be right until we give leadership back to the woman (conscious women) and allow them to be the tribal and village leaders again...Im proud of you. Most blacks in America dont realize in what position most of us are in...Most are one or 2 paychecks from starvation and homelessness... Has everyone forgotten Katrina? How did it feel to watch your people on television dying of starvation and thirst and the richest country on hte planet refused to use it vast resources to drop food supplies to them via planes and helicopters...KKK militas from the white cities refusing to let dying black people cross the bridge out of the cities to get food and water fo their dying children and elders. How many of them were prepared with a survival kit to feed their families with canned and dry foods for 90 days? How many of them do you think had surplus medicines for their elders...How many of them had water purification systems? How many of them had a plan to leave the city in case of a disaster? How many of them had viable businesses that they could depend on to guarantee an income flow if they lost a job? My business partners and I left Ga. with a tractor trailer filled with water, canned goats milk, tuna fish and power bars...We got as far as the outskirts of the city and we were turned back by FEMA paramilitary, and I mean they were not very nice about it...They had a plan to cause as much damage to the people as they could before they came in later as fake saviors... as I digress.... I literally cried when I watched TV from a hotel from Alabama that night and saw people holdiing dead babies up who dies from dehydration, here in the greatest country in the world... Funding has been pulled from school and new prisons are being built (Concentration Camps).. You better have a plan for your family, and for your community and start working together...Buy farmland as collectives...Start businesses that can bring in passive income(Stock Option Market, Foreign Currency Markets, Import/ Export).. I dont want to make a long speech , but Im got to say, that most arent going to make it... Get your diet together... Clean up your bloodstream and eat more raw foods. Make contacts in Africa and look into biz there. Buy farmland and learn to get back to nature. At least have survival kit of 30 days of food . Have a decent water purification kit. Have a good firs aid kit.. Store needed medicines. Have a little gold or silver for trading. Buy heirloom veggie seeds for trading. Learn to breathe properly. Learn to meditate. Exercise, Exercise, Exercise Learn to listen to the voice of God inside. Learn to love, unconditionally... ReACTIVATE your latent spiritual faculties... Uncle Tom


Uncle_Tom
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please forgive all of my grammatical errors, mispellings and typos..I type really fast , I have to multi task and I dont have time to read over these things for errors ...I mean no disrespect to the readers and please dont judge me by my lack of education.


regal
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Hiredgun, you dumb f*ck, you just recycled everyone's points, contradicted yourself and actually supported everyone that you named as opposing. 'Uncletom's dimness now pales in comparison to yours. Even your screen name speaks of a thick headed thug on a street corner with nothing but a big ego and short legs,another dog barking for the sake of barking. I'm not even going to argue with your inch of a brain when all you do is offer nothing, plagiarise and contradict your idiotic self, supporting all you 'oppose'.F**ck off already,toothless illiterate bag,a waste of everyone's time, nothing there to engage. Uncle tom, i think i kinda guessed that you are an uneducated man but why,aren't you out there following your long list? Why are you here, at a board made up mostly of children expressing your views instead of at mature boards that discuss these topics specifically? That's right, you are uneducated and will be torn down there. Yet another black man raised to be a king and do nothing, and so advises others to 'seek women all over the world that treat you like king' - the exact reason why wherever there is black men, there is underdevelopment. Now that you've handed out advice, go out there and follow it.


Uncle_Tom
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@regal... I take the time to do this because the children are going to save the world. In fact the messiah is a child or a group of children born to tyhe most despised people on this earth...The Negroe. its always been that way my friend. The forst shall be last and hte last will be first , especially doing a SHIFT IN CYCLES and the balance of power has shifted on this planet out of the hands of those who have been on top in hte last cycle, into the hands who planetarily wise are on the bottom. Let it be printed and let it be done.


Uncle_Tom
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but seriously ,LOL I want someone to explain to me why did Rihanna take a picture of herself in that blue thing HUNCHED OVER like a caveman who is dragging her knuckles? Is she trying to appeal to white men who many have a little hunch back? Why would a negroe girl purposely take such an unattractive photo. I dont get that...Help a brother out with this one and I;ll owe you one.



Uncle_Tom
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@regal would you rather that strong uncompromising, unapologetic black men like "hired gun" and I didnt exist and didnt here? You mad at us?.... are you afraid of us and are you amazed that we exist in this day and time? Would it make you feel better and more less insecure if we were gold tooth wearing, stereotypes that make you feel comfortable? You need to get over it my friend...The plantation party is over... Uncle Tom is serving up his famous fried chicken.


Mpenzi
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hey people !!!! be happy !!! I JUST GOT MARRIED TO A WONDERFUL MAN AND HE HAPPENS TO BE AFRICAN AND I AM EUROPEAN~~~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! will the hating begin? I hope U find real happiness like I have. @ Uncle Tom-- you're such a pathetic White racist...I only agree with "mixed race ppl should consider themselves mixed race and not just Black despite the fact they DO LOOK MORE BLACk". ppl Uncle Tom IS WHITE. And I dont care about all U crazy ppl's oponions...Interracal dating is a real problem in the US , am so glad i live in the Uk. PEACE AND LOVE people


Auriel
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@ hired gun.... "nothing funny about slavery" ???? Who said ther was? I guess typing novels does not provide you with much time to read other posts...I guess you skip and skim. I said it laughable that people here have to resort to such extremes/comparisons to try and prove a point.


dropdead71
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I have to admit, Katrina was the most devastating event I have witnessed in my lifetime period!! And I've seen and been through some sh*t let me tell ya. Just hearing about it or reading about it makes me sick to my stomach. I will never stop crying for our people in New Orleans...Words cannot express how I feel about this topic.....I couldnt eat or sleep for a week when it all happened and so many of us like Uncle Tom said, were really trying to help, do ANYTHING....Gosh, just thinking about Katrina again makes me want to get back in the bed and not get out....sorry guys...that's a very sore subject for me.


dropdead71
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What a country we live in......


SweetkuteOne
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Have to represent my Bajan gal... She is right... white men or hot also just as black men...nothing racist there.


realwoman
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letzjustplayplz Flag post being a beautiful black woman that knows her power as a (black) WOMAN, who cares how others see us. its how we c ourselves. then... letzjustplayplz Flag post hell we r killin and bashing within ourselves and thats y ur being laughed at. this is a glaring contradiction. I do not care who is laughing at Blacks because I already know that laughter is one of nerves...some people need to look in their own backyard before it is too late. Enough said.


realwoman
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Mpenzi and other like her/him WHO CARES?!?!?! Uncle Tom gave direction to a website dedicated to mixed race couples that need attention based on their mixed race relationship. Please go there and make your proud announcement. It would be better received. I will try to provide the positive here...yes the population in Africa has been eroded...but guess what? THE HIGHEST BIRTHING RATES IN THE WORLD ARE THERE. They will have to come a little harder than they have been to eradicate us and they know that, so watch out for other tactics. Some African governments are becoming wise to these tactics and are fighting back. Did you read that they finally convicted those Bulgarians on trial for intentionally giving little Libyan children AIDS? Do you see that in Ghana they will follow them around like the racist police do to us here? They have a time limit for how long they can even stay in their country. People are becoming wiser, don't fall behind. Have your children. Don't listen to the lost Blacks who want you to limit yourself to one child so that you can fit into a society that doesn't love you. We are childbearers of the earth and the crime is in NOT taking care of your children NOT having them. Raise these babies to be productive citizens of the WORLD and supporters of their people. more to come...


Joy
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who cares WHAT SHE IS LOOKING FOR.......... ITS HER LIFE SHE COULD B LOOKING FOR A PURPLE OR PINK MAN FOR ALL I CARE...........@ LEAST ITS A MAN............................


shauna_623
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now that beyonce has he alter ego sasha.. rhianna has a alter ego named robyn wowwwwwwwwwwwww


cobra
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That does not say that she is looking for a white boyfriend. Learn reading and comprehension before writing a story.


letzjustplayplz
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@realwoman u dont think i can read and i knew that. im talkin about the black men not woman. too much have been focused on men its all about the women. now what?


letzjustplayplz
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@hired gun such anger. talk to someone about that. where u molested as a child or grown up?


letzjustplayplz
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@realwoman some ppl need to know when to speak when spoken too bitch. u focus only on that. typical jealous azz. lol


prettylatina
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UncleTom This might be a little off the subject a bit, but you mentioned its a waste to have ur $$ in a 401K account. ?? Im curious to know why? I have a 401k and also invest my $$ in an IRA too. Is that not good either? Im curious to know. All the financial planning books I have read tell you to do this. Ive also invested in stocks, Cisco and Lucent(that was a big mistake) is that also a no no? You need to have your own forum. lol



Embarrased2Bhere
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Uncle Tom, some of the things you say make sense and are common sense. However, I draw the line at the notions that blacks should only look out for blacks and have nothing to do with other cultures, be it buying their shrimp fried rice or their perms. I really believe loving self and neighbor is the key to happiness. Love should not be on the condition that another race treats you with respect. Love should be universal and should be shown if it is returned or not. It is this prideful, all about me, mine is better way of thinking that has the world divided and that has the US in Iraq killing up folks children and calling the mission Iraqi Freedom. It is ok to have standards, viewpoints, morals, goals and opinions but when it comes to distancing oneself from a whole race solely because they don’t look or think like you that is ignorant. It is even more ignorant to expect another race of people to embrace every idea and concept you embrace just because you think its right. I chose not to hang with people who have no character or who have no morals and I make that decision based upon their actions. However, I refuse to ignore a whole group of people just because my Momma told me to or because I heard they don’t like me. And even if I don’t feel comfortable letting my guard down around them or adopting certain parts of their culture it doesn’t change the fact that they are human beings just like I am so I am always open to embracing other human beings. Maybe it’s just me.


ATLBrotha
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sounds like some of you need some hobbies and interests outside of defining and maintaining your blackness. other things than race can define and connect people.


Uncle_Tom
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@embarrassedtobehere i appreciate the tone and cocern of your post so allow me to clear a few misconceptions that I feel you have about the type of person I am. I never said that blacks should only look out for blacks...That would be unwise because we live in a world with many different types of people and we all have to try to get along together... I say that black people should look out for the best interest of self and kind first and foremost...Then from a position of strength and a strong community foundation deal justly, fairly and honestly with others... You say some of the things I say makes sense? How about the first law of survival which is SELF PRESERVATION...How can you expect me to love you if I dont first love myself and my kind? Mexicans work together for the best interests of Mexicans.. Chinese people work together for the best interest of Chinese. French people work together for the best interest of French people... Why is it when Africa people , especially livinig in the diaspora make any moves towards thinking or making moves to do business with one another, marry one another and raise intelligent black children, love one another, build institutions for our own benefit do other people see that as some kind of threat? Is everyone allowed to be self determinant and soverign except for us?..Why cant we love ourselves and STILL LOVE OTHERS ALSO?


Embarrased2Bhere
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Right on ATLBrotha! Although your screenname does define you as a 'brotha' which in American culture is uniquely black so it does sound a little like you are maintaining and defining your blackness. Other than that, I agree with you 100% ;-)


realwoman
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Nice in theory embarassedtobehere, but hate to break it to you.. that is not the way the world works. I have suggested a few books and videos on here before and I will again. There is a dvd out called "The Korean Takeover of the Black Haircare Industry (2005) - by Documentary filmmaker Aron Ranen" which details the RACISM that certain Asians & whites partake in in the BLACK hair care industry. If it makes you feel better the man who made the documentary is white. So I guess you can feel good about supporting it?? They do not believe in your theory of supporting people based on being human beings. They have intentionally blacklisted BLACK made products in favor of Asian made ones that are made FOR Blacks. They have studied said products, bootlegged them, then refused to sell them in their stores. Do you see anything wrong with this? These are the types of companies that need to be boycotted because they are being racist and that is what I am talking about. Until EVERYONE plays fair then Blacks should remove themselves from their money making equation.


realwoman
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PL there was an uproar over the baseball player Big Papi. Google him and you might hear about the controversy in the Latin community. There was a white woman who made a statement about dating a guy with his name (David Ortiz) and thinking it was cool that people thought she was going out with a Black guy (or something like that)...well who told homegirl to say THAT???? All kinds of Latinos were bullshyt over it claiming that people are so racist (funny huh) and assume that every dark skinned person is Black. They went on and on about how he is not a Black but a Latino yadda yadda. Needless to say, there were many Black people who were offended by their offense....has anyone seen what this cat looks like? If he ain't Black then I don't know....


realwoman
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Oh and back to the racism in BLACK hair care(KNOWLEDGE IS POWER)...these same Asian merchants were interviewed and even laughing abouty the whole situation. There was a Black store owner who claimed that the Asian makers would not even sell the products to him and other Black store owners in hopes of their stores lacking product, leading to lacking sales, leading to them closing, leading to a new Asian store opening in it's place. Just curious Embarassedtobe here...how do you propose we thwart the racist efforts of those I described above? Or should we just turn a blind eye to it?


prettylatina
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realwoman I just got out of an impromtu meeting. Wow so much stuff to address. And yes Im very familiar with that documentaray, have not bought it but Michael Baisden talked about it on his radio show. They got to these Hair Fares and its all in Korean. WTF? I got all discombulated from this meeting so I havae to straigten out before leaving so I'll definitely get back to you later. ps... googled Big Papi..hahahaa The brotha is BLACK. lol


JUSTOPINION
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your RIGHT UNCLE TOM ALL WHITE PEOPLE ARE RACIST AND WANT TO KEEP YOU DOWN AND KATRINA DIDN'T EFFECT ANY WHITE PEOPLE, BECAUSE THEY WERE ALL WEALTHY ENOUGH AND WERE PREPARED FOR THAT i NEVER SEEN ANY WHITE PEOPLE ON THE NEWS SUFFORING (SARCASM IF YOU DIDN'T CATCH IT)I DO ACKNOWLE THAT MOST PEOPLE THAT WERE EFFECTED WERENT WHITE BUT COME ON, I AM ALSO SORRY YOU WERE TURNED AWAY BY FEMA THAT IS A GREAT THING YOU WERE TRYING TO DO, BUT IF YOU CHECK THIS AGAIN LET ME ASK YOU THIS IF YOU CAME ACROSS A WHITE MOTHER WITH CHILD IN NEED WOULD YOU PASS HER UP BECAUSE SHE WAS WHITE? OKAY JUST A THOUGHT UNCLE TOM ARE YOU EXCLUDED FROM BEING RACIST???? DOESN'T SEEM LIKE IT. DON'T GENERALISE ALL RACES, NOT EVERY WHITE PERSON IS A KKK MEMBER OR NAZI! not EVERY ASIAN PERSON IS AGAINST YOU OR CONSPIRING AGAINST YOU, OR "YOUR PEOPLE" AS YOU SAY (TALKING TO REALWOMAN THERE), BUT ME EVEN SAYING THAT ASAIN AND WHITE PEOPLE (WHICH THE TERM ANNOYS ME BUT I'LL USE IT SINCE IT'S THE ONE MOST USED) AREN'T THE ONLY RACES THAT HAVE RACIST PEOPLE IN THEM (BECAUSE NO RACE IS ABSOLUTE AND NOT EVERYONE IN ANY RACE ARE ALL RACEST OR ALL INNOCENT)THEN I AM JUST BEING RACEST OR IGNORANT, BUT REMEMBER RACISM IS UNIVERSAL TO ALL RACES ( YOU CAN FIND RACEST PEOPLE OF EVERY COLOR AND CREED), YOU SHOULD LOOK IN THE MIRROR BEFORE YOU JUDGE WHOLE RACES!


Embarrased2Bhere
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Realwoman said: Nice in theory embarassedtobehere, but hate to break it to you.. that is not the way the world works. I have suggested a few books and videos on here before and I will again. There is a dvd out called "The Korean Takeover of the Black Haircare Industry (2005) - by Documentary filmmaker Aron Ranen" which details the RACISM that certain Asians & whites partake in in the BLACK hair care industry. If it makes you feel better the man who made the documentary is white. So I guess you can feel good about supporting it?? They do not believe in your theory of supporting people based on being human beings. They have intentionally blacklisted BLACK made products in favor of Asian made ones that are made FOR Blacks. They have studied said products, bootlegged them, then refused to sell them in their stores. Do you see anything wrong with this? These are the types of companies that need to be boycotted because they are being racist and that is what I am talking about. Until EVERYONE plays fair then Blacks should remove themselves from their money making equation. I say: Realwoman, if you chose to boycott Asian stores because you have evidence to suggest they are racists, that’s fine. Boycotting a store and saying that black people as a whole is Uncle Tom’s (sorry Uncle Tom) because some of us chose to wear perms is ridiculous. Until I get proof that perms are made to make every black woman bald headed then I will continue to wear them. To be honest, there are far more examples of ALL HUMANS taking it up the butt at the expense of the health industry, the oil industry and the prescription drug industry. If I chose to boycott something, it would be one of those industries because racist or not, Asian people are not the reason my hair won’t grow right in the front. It’s because I CHOSE to wear too much weave back in the day. Realwoman said: Just curious Embarassedtobe here...how do you propose we thwart the racist efforts of those I described above? Or should we just turn a blind eye to it? I say: My answer is simple. There is absolutely, positively no possible way that I could ever in 3 zillion years change peoples opinions of me or other black people or make people stop being racist. So why in the world would I try? Would I not be giving myself high blood pressure and developing anger and hatred with no outlet only to end up dead and in the ground? I would much rather change the things I can change and accept the things I cannot change. I will not let someone else’s ignorance dictate me and I will not hate a person just because they are ignorant. If you can put a dent in the Asian weave store owner’s pocket by not patronizing their business, so be it. But don’t expect every single black person in America to thumb our noses at some Asian’s because their culture has taught them to be ignorant. I will admit that there are a ton of racist Asians, whites and Latino’s. But there are also a ton of prejudice blacks and just because my skin is black it doesn’t mean I cosign to black racism more than other forms. Hatred and intolerance is hatred and intolerance. It doesn’t have a race or nationality. Peace. ;-)


MizzDecatur
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okay magazines iz telling us she been goin wit omarion for a couple of months den dis gurl tells us she not dating him she lookin for a white boy i thought she had a white boy friend. but im not gon lie dem gangsta white boys dat u swear dey got a lil black in dem like they act like paul wall catch my eye but im interested in black ghetto boys but dey comin up


realwoman
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Like I thought Embarassedtobehere...your answer is to do nothing because you do not want to be considered a racist. Well you have that right. Actually everyone has the right to be complacent. Think about it. What was the purpose of civil rights leaders? They could have just said (and this is your quote): 'I would much rather change the things I can change and accept the things I cannot change. I will not let someone else’s ignorance dictate me and I will not hate a person just because they are ignorant.'( a gross misunderstanding of what was proposed up above) and continued to have their churches and businesses burnt(modern day translation: NOT FREQUENTED BY WHITES & LACK OF BUSINESS LOANS TO A CERTAIN RACIAL SEGMENT OF THE POPULATION), members of their family hung (modern day translation:BLACKS UNFAIRLY AND DISPROPORTIONATELY PROSECUTED,JAILED & SENTENCED TO DEATH), segregation (modern day translation: GHETTOS FILLED WITH ONE RACE LIVING IN TENEMENT HOUSING), miseducation(modern day translation: lack of mention of great BLACKS in American history books, substandarad facilities in inner city schools, lack of updated books, underpay of teachers, dismissal of truancy, etc.). Imagine if Dr. King and Malcolm X just thought there was nothing they could do about unfair conditions.... Also, I don't see where anyone has suggested physically harming anybody based on their race, so what is the real problem here? Since when does supporting faltering Black business and pride translate into racism from other Blacks?


MOTHERSHIP
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This non-sangin' hatchet-headed heffa truly needs to go sit down somewhere.


Embarrased2Bhere
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Realwoman: Imagine if Dr. King and Malcolm X just thought there was nothing they could do about unfair conditions.... Realwoman – Dr. King peacefully championing human rights (not just black rights but human rights) is a far cry from refusing to buy a perm at an Asian store in Austin, Texas because I think they are somehow in cahoots with the Asians Realwoman on the internet saw in a documentary. There are battles and then there are quibbles. Both you and I are riding on the coattails of rights that many, many blacks (and whites on behalf of blacks) fought for. Because of their struggles you and I can have a conversation on the internet or meet in Italy for lunch in a 5 star restaurant. I am well aware of the freedoms blacks enjoy because of the Civil Rights Movement and to be quite frank, this conversation has absolutely nothing to do with that. I think it is a travesty for anyone of any race to suggest that we are letting our race down by patronizing the business of another race. Most of your comments have been about not assimilating to white culture or other cultures which in your mind somehow makes blacks suckers. But if you believe that under no uncertain terms should any black at any time patronize any business or concept that was founded on racist philosophy then there are a lot of activities you would be barred from. We have to pick our battles and you chose to battle Asians who sell perms and I chose to battle ignorant philosophies that divide people. To each their own.


Uncle_Tom
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@JUST OPINION I appreciate your sarcasm, but let me deal with a few of your ideas.. No, I would never walk past a white woman and child in need, nor would I walk past a white male I saw in distress...Thats simply evil and my friend, black people dont get down like that as its not in our nature...Our kindness and our universal love for all is one of the main reasons Africa was sucessfully infiltrated and destroyed by Europeans...Africans are by far the less xenophobic of any people...In fact I feel we should learn to be more discerning in whom we take in as friends ... The greatest fear in white people today os the fear that blacks will treat them as evil as white have treated blacks when the cycle changes and we regain power again...People of color are naturally not like that and I think you know that... Do you think I can go to a Korean neighborhood as a black man and open a gorcery store and expect that Koreans would support my store like they are supported in black neighborhoods? Do you think I could go to Little Italy in Mahhattan as a black man with my black family running the store and expect to be received with open arms by the Italian community? Do you think I could go to a Lebanese neighborhood and open a restaurant and expect to be supported by the Lebanese? Hell no... But I tell you what...Any of the 3 ethnicities can open a store in Harlem and the people would accept them with open arms and if any conscious black person would voice out against them they would immediately be villified as a racist.. Why is everyone except black people allowed to look out for self and kind? Are we not worthy? We dont deserve to survive and thrive and support own our families just like others do? We start talkinig about building Institutions that would allow us to educate our own children, employ our own children in our own businesses and people want to say "Look they want to seperate themselves" But when any other ethnicities do it its called PLAIN COMMON SENSE to stick together... Go to a Korean family and tell them they are racist to want a Korean bride for their Korean son and they'll look at you like you lost your mind...But you know you would never go to a Korean American website and tell them that because they would not allow it...Wouldnt allow their soverignity and their right to reproduce after self and kind and to want Korean children to even be seriously debated because it would be ridiculous to them''' But you come here and talk to us as if we are not intelligent, sound and free people who should be allowed TO EXIST and to CONTINUE IN OUR LINEAGE... you know what the Koreans would tell you? First after they would stop laughing they would smirk at you and politely say: Phuck You, mind your own business and let us mind ours....But of course they would have a nice smile on their face because they wouldnt want to insult a customer and want to lose your business.



Embarrased2Bhere
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I might add that I am in no way suggesting that racism isn’t alive and well in America and beyond. I am suggesting that I can’t change people’s opinions of me so I chose not to wonder if the Asians at the nail shop are laughing behind my back when I leave their shop. They probably aren’t saying anything any more derogatory than the sista and beauty shop who sniggles when I leave. I make my decisions about what businesses to patronize based upon how I am treated and how their products affect my health. Other than that, I don’t have time to be worrying about how Latins, Asians and whites feel about slavery because me worrying about it ain’t gonna change it.


Uncle_Tom
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oh and let me add that being racially conscious and being a BIGOT or PREJUDICE is two very different things... Everybody is racist because everyone notices race and everyone takes race into account...That doesnt mean that they do other people wrong because of their race(PREJUDICE)... aND i DONT believe the modern pseudo argument that black people cant be racist...Thats not true...Anyone can be racist and a person can be racially aware and be a beautiful person... Now if I treat some badly because of their race then thats PREJUDICE AND BIGOTRY... and thats wrong I dont have to sleep with bRIDGETTE Neilson to be kind and courteous to her if we meet.


Embarrased2Bhere
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Realwoman: All of the things you mentioned are examples of ignorant and prejudice people doing ignorant and prejudiced things. It is not possible for any human made of flesh and blood to end all injustice. Dr. King started and made strides but here we are nearly 50 years later and there is a lot of work to be done. I can promise you that in another 950 years things won’t be any different as long as man is running things. I believe that getting all worked up about things that we cannot change is a sure way to lose sight of the bigger picture and that is that things will change but not by mans hands. I sincerely believe and you can call it delusional or not living in the real world but I call it faith. In the meantime, I try to do unto others as I would have them do unto me and if EVERYONE did that, we wouldn’t be having this discussion.


Uncle_Tom
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@pretty latina to address your 401k, please,hold onto your 401K and your IRA, its good financial sense.(Especially if you learn to be hands on in maintaining it by becoming knowledgeable in what you are vested in) What Im saying about being seduced by those who bait you into working for someone elses Institution using a 401 k as a way to keep your mind off of ever establshing your own Institutions where you can be the one in CONTROL and the CORPORATE LADDER is owned by you... Most education in America is based on making us loyal and faithful employees instead of the employer... Brain drain...Great many people come to te WEST and they are brilliant people and they use their intelligence to make someone elses busines sthrive instead of their own and they only get crumbs and a fraction of the profits.


Uncle_Tom
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You'll never get a chance to become wealthy and SOVERIGN on someone elses job.. The system is not made like that....Its set up where someone pays you just enough to keep you coming back next week and just enough to not make you leave....Perpetual servitude...Carrot you'll never quite catch


realwoman
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Dr. King was championing for the rights of BLACKS who had none so that they could have the SAME EQUAL rights as WHITE citizens who already possessed them. Do you honestly think that after his untimely death we suddenly crossed over into equality? We do not possess the same equal rights right now and you seem to admit it above, but you are defeated and choose to accept where we are. Good for you. Like I said, that is your right to be complacent. Also, using your reasoning Embarassedtobehere..don't you think it is rather racist of yourself to even frequent this site that uses such headlines starting with 'in white people's news' and overwhelmingly chooses to report on news pertaining to Blacks? How can you chastise ATLBrotha about his choice of a screenname when you are doing the same by even (declaring your blackness) by being on this website? Should'nt you practice what you preach and frequent a website that reports equal news amongst the races?


MysteryLady
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i ain't feelin rihanna no way she getting played with that big ass head. Still cute though!


realwoman
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I have suggested the documentary which interviews Asian store owners, product makers, and cultural experts who admit that the takeover is very racially charged. If some don't care about this and chooses to ignore the blatant racism in this industry just so that they can get their hurrrr did or fake nails slapped on, then that is their business and I can only congratulate those select Asians in their manipulation. Anyway, Uncle Tom, there is already an organization set up to promote and support Black owned businesses and encourage more trade amongst Blacks. The name of the organization slips my mind..would you happen to know of it and be willing to pass that information on here? I know YPN has a list across statelines.... It does not make sense to waste your breath on complacent people. Please inform and educate those of us who are seeking to change these wrongs.


Embarrased2Bhere
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Ahem…if you call not being complacent looking a documentary about perms and weave then more power to you. You are definitely championing equal rights my dear. I envy you. I was obviously joking with ATLBrotha, at least HE has a sense of humor. And the fact that you suggest that I ‘frequent a website that reports equal news amongst the races’ shows that you are severely limited in your global outlook if you yourself frequent this website and call it news. I frequent many websites and I obviously frequent this one for entertainment value. You are much to be pitied if you yourself do not frequent websites that report equal news amongst the races. I don’t know if you are aware of this or not but reading about Ne-yo’s sexuality and Deelishus’ hoo-haas isn’t making anybody a better person. Dr King, for one, would be highly disappointed.


realwoman
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Yes because all this time all I have been talking about is weaves and perms. lmao...Darn them! I have this 'crazy' agenda to stop Black people from buying weaves and perms from Asians and instead purchase them from Blacks. It is that simple. Lordeeee..... lmao @ your attempt at reverse psychology. Good try though. Well if yuh don't believe it is making you a better person why are you reading it? I know I haven't....that's your issue sweetie.


Uncle_Tom
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@real woman although I think that black women weraing weaves ,perms and talons(nails) is ridiculous and a sign of self loathing, I agree with you and support you 100%... Those businesses combined is a BILLION DOLLAR BUSINESS AND IF ANYONE IS GOING TO PROFIT FROM OUR INSECURITIES, IT SHOULD BE US... pEOPLE think that the Korean just mistakenly stumbled on these businesses and the targeting of African Americans to sell them to.. Im here to let you know they have colleges and seminars in marketing ans psychology of the African American in Korea and other foreign countries on how to exploit African Amerians and their dollar...Everybody wants a piece of us because they realize that we have been bred to be CONSUMMERS with no racial unity (slavery), weakened familiy ties (1965 Johnson Great Society Legislation)and they see us as farm animals to be economically corralled to export their dollars outside of their community as soon as they get their paycheck in order to look cute...(N*igger Rich)... As a matter of fact I have been tld that you can make quite a bit of money selling skin lightening cremes in Ghana, Nigeria , Senegal and a few African countries...They are now viewing BET, mtv, popular entertainment magazines and American Sit Comedies and they all want to look like Beyonce and Rihanna by any means necessary,,, Africans in America dont realize how much power we wield globally...We set the trends and Africans want to be like us....In the 1960's when the Civil Rights Movement came into being In America, we were the catalyst into the former African colonized Nations demanding their freedom...They saw us saying no more and they followed suit... THE gLOBAL wHITE Establishment saw that and vowed that would never happen again...By that I mean THEIR MEDIA WOULD NOT BE USED TO DISPLAY POSTIVE BLACK IMAGES ABROAD that would upset the global white domination...(Thats why Im so happy Nigeria just got its own Satellite)... Now when an African of a Brazilian, or a Bajan see us in the media, they are going to see 50 cent(pimp drug dealer)...Beyonce (whore)...The Wayan Bros.(coons)....and all of the most significant stars being very very light skinned, including the video hoes... We need our own media, our own record DISTRIBUTION, our own movies and we need to be free of the World Bank and the IMF and global economic slavery...


Uncle_Tom
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@real woman lets you and me take over the world ;)


Uncle_Tom
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WE have to retraiin ourselves to think like free and soverign people again... we need to look closely at out situation.. when we visit a black persons home we need to scientifically assess the situation... look at the families clothes...and ask them (if they are close friends and you can speak bluntly) did a black person make that shirt you have on? If not why not? did a black person make those shoes you have on, if not why not? did a black person make that jewelry you have on? If not why not? did a black person make that computer you have on your desk? If not why not? did a black person make that TV we are watching? if not why not? are you children being educated and taught by people who look like them? if not , why not? did a black person build this home for you? if not, why not? do you want a black person to install solar panels in your home to cut your dependence on the light company and save a fortune? if not, why not? was the movie in your DVD player made and produced and OWNED by black people? if not , why not? The Chinese and Indian people started askiing themselves these tough questions about 40 years ago and look at them now? What are we waiting for? An invitation to be free?


NormalBajanSister
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@Uncle_Tom Do you have a blog site? As much as I dislike to admit it (in light of your disparaging remarks about Rihanna) there are other aspects of your comments, that are interesting.


prettylatina
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RW To move on from the whole Latinos dont like to be called black. lol I see the are more important things to discuss here I see. All I can say is from talking to my black latin family and friends, they know they are black race but they much more feel more comfortable saying what country they were born. To be honest, only in the US they have to choose to be a "black" Cuban or "white" Cuban what ever. And this is true, if you go to any Latin country, be it DR, they say they are Domincan no matter how light or dark they are. Unlike here were you have to be Black American or Asian American, not just American. I think they associate being called "black" as being called American which they most likely arent. Thats all I can honestly say on that. I searched for part 1 on the hair documentary and it was very informative, its unbelievable how all the #1 hair product magazines were in Korean??? This is a case of monopolizing, which I thought was still illegal. They are trying to manufacture, sell and distribute products they dont even use. *SMH*



prettylatina
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oops I meant to say written in Korean...


prettylatina
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UncleTom Ok thanks for the advice. I was just wondering, and you are so right about the 401k's making people slaves to their job. I cant begin to tell you how many friends say they dont want to leave their job because they have invested so much in their 401k. But duuh you can take it and put it in a private with a bank or take it to ur next job if they offer it. Another thing, in talking about Korean's taking over the black hair products like weaves, hair etc. It all makes sense on why you are so adament about women just wearing their hair natural. And just give up on all the hairs and weaves then there wouldnt be any real money to be made on ethnic women.(I say ethnic for the latinas too) I knew there was a reason for all that you say. Keep it coming Uncle Tom. I believed in your comments from the get go. :) Even when I didnt agree on some things.


prettylatina
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RW Oh and another thing about the latin thing, a lot of black americans also show shade towards us. Like why are you in a black site etc. lol Dont even know that if they saw us walking down the street they would think we are just sistas like them. lol Which we are, we just happen to speak spanish. Ive always said that. I cant help it the Europeans dropped us off in other continents or islands. lol


Uncle_Tom
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@PRETTY LATINA Im so glad you made the comment you made in your last post about how we came to be Dominicans, Haitians, Americans, Hondurans, Brazilians, Jamaicans, Bajans,Venezuelans, Costa Ricans, Cubans, Boriquens, Belizians, etc... We came to take on the names of the islands and continents and land masses we were dropped(LITERAlly) on during the worse holocaust in World History... We were all stolen from Africa (no matter how much or ittle we are mixed today)and now , because of ignorance of true history we have allowed ourselves to become divided by the the name that the KIDNAPPERS names the islands....we have allowed ourselves to be divided by the use of the kidnappers languages...we have allowed ourselves become divided by the Kidnappers religions we had thrust upon us by the Kidnapper to keep us docile and accept our servitude ... I see so many Domicans in particular who I know they are African just by sight, but if you call them black or African, they want to even fight you physically... Manny Ramirez is black. David Ortiz is black.. Pedro Martinez is black. Andruw Jones is black... and I can name you a hundred other players from the Caribbean who are unmistakenly black but they choose their identity based upon the names that those who Kidnapped their great grandparents chose to name their particular PRISON COLONY... for all intents and purposes black people who came to be here to this hemisphere by forced Kidnappings are PRISONERS OF WAR... pRISONERS OF WAR, because no matter how much historical censors try to make the African holocaust seem like this was somethingi we signed on people need to realize these two facts.. #1 You dont need to put slaves in chains and handcuffs and beat and mutilate them to force them to labor...Slaves become slaves because they agree to the contract to supply a certain amount of labor for a certain amount of years.. The Irish were truly the only slaves who esisted in America (Indentured Servants)...Now most blacks in America are Slaves (INDENTURED sERVANTS), because all willingly agree to the 401 k deal in agreement so that someone else will care for you when you get too frail to care for yourself.... #2 There were almost 200 KNOWN wars fought by various African tribes against European slavers and colonizers and that includes the Arabs too.. These wars show that AFRICANS FOUGHT BACK AND fought valiantly to push back the invaders, but the gun powder wore them down.... there was a total of appox. 80 million dead Africans in the European-African Wars and 30 million of which, whose bones now line the Atlantic Ocean...


prettylatina
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UncleTom Ok tell it,..Ive been tying to say this for the longest. Latin America was a continent of indegenous people. Honduras where I happen to be born had the Mayan natives who were one of the most advanced civilizations. In terms of math, science, etc. And they also tryed to fight the Spaniards who invaded their land. But when you bring knives to a gun fight, how can you really win? And when they invaded our country they also bought slaves from Africa. Thats why there are so many different shades and feautures in latinos. Depending on how much native, black and european blood is running thru us. Like I said before if brown people came together as one...that is what they are afraid. So they try to separate us by religion, culture, language etc... Lets open our eyes and see the con... Uncle Tom, what are your views on the Ilumanits and New World order? I have done much reading on that and truly believe in the blood line. These people in power are all related. Queen Elizabeth is related to both Colin Powell AND Hillary Clinton..Hmm dont think that is just too much of coincidence? Also I believe Bin Ladden has some blood ties with presidnts too. I have to go through my books again and see who in particular. I know some people think thats too out there but I am a strong believer of the New World Order.


Uncle_Tom
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@pretty latina I really dont like to speak to much on the iLLUMINATI bLOODlines control of 95% of the worlds Natural resources, then people start to think Im crazy.. Because I would then be forced to speak about Reptilian bloodlines, extraterrestial involvement, the pyramids on Mars and its connection to ancient African Egypt. etc... And the bloodlines cross through all racial barriers so its not truly a RACE ISSUE so much as a battle against principalties of darkness in high places... So I try to keep it simple so as not to cause the sheep to space out too much and not focus on whats practical and what can be effected right now... They USE race as one of their tools to keep humanity divided amongst themselves...At the end of the day, race is not important,they see us all as growing weeds and useless eaters to be controlled and used as HUMAN RESOURCE...To them we are nothing more than a Eveready battery to supply them with our energy and keep their machine running... but that aside, I tell you what they fear alot.. Back to our last topic, they fear the day that people of color in the Carribean, the US, sOUTH aMERICA ETC. start thining of ourselves as a GLOBAL AFRICAN FAMILY... The day that happens, they know the game is up and we would all wake up and realize that the Wizards control over us was really a mind trick and all done with smoke and mirrors(their global media)... We are controlled by these beings who really pull the strings because they have us looking in the wrong direction (3 card Molly)... If we really take a look at what the real deal is, we would all realize that Caucasoids only make up 7% of this planets population and they couldnt invade and occupy Nations in their lust for control WITHOUT OUR INVOLVEMENT AND PARTICIPATION... Remember the story of the Wizard of Oz...Its so similar to whats really going on...We have the power with us to be immortals again but we give our powers over to others voluntarily.... If you really pull back the curtains , you'll see the Wizard is a hoax and we had the power to go home all along... Our greatest fear is not that we are incompetent.... Our greatest fear is that we are powerful beyond even our greatest imagination and as Jesus said " Is it not written in your laws, that ye are all Gods, and children of the Most high"? They dont want to deal with that because that would disrupt the business of being Gods banker, accountant and hit man...


crescentcity
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Now I see RiRi is a jackass celebrity along with the rest of those idiots...Let her go to her white boy who will take her to his trailer, whip out his is itty bitty piece of dickie, and she will return to the red carpet carrying her COLD SORE MEDICINE! so much for dumb ass RiRi!


Auriel
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Someone asked if Uncle Tom had a blog...I'd like to know as well. Do you post to any other sites? Your ideas are interesting; however, I would like to read them in another medium because I can't take amything serious I read on MTO. Seriously, anyone can seem intelligent compared to what we see here.


prettylatina
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UncleTom Oh my goodness, you never cease to amaze me! You must be like only the 2nd person who has read or heard of the Reptillians living among us and the aliens who take human form here on earth, which are almost everyone in power all over the world. I dont want to frighten anyone so I wont go on. Im assuming you have heard or read David Icke's books.


realwoman
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Uncle_Tom Flag post @real woman lets you and me take over the world ;) JUST SAY THE WORD....


Embarrased2Bhere
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Realwoman, I couldn’t leave your comment to me untouched. You are the one talking about black rights and equal rights and blacks being degraded and yet YOU are the one who frequents this site which degrades blacks to the umpteenth degree. I visit this site very infrequently but whenever I’m here you are here. You are the hypocrite my dear. Why would a person who is supposedly concerned with the plight of blacks even be interested in a site like this? Why? Because you ain’t doing nothing but sitting behind your computer and typing a bunch of crap that means absolutely nothing to you just like every other person on this site. If you truly cared about the plight of black people you would do more than boycott perms. You would do something positive like participate in community events or take time out of you life to mentor young people or talk to people OF ALL RACES about loving themselves and loving other, being responsible and doing unto others and they would have done unto them. You would spread encouraging and helpful messages when you do have an opportunity to use the internet for such purposes instead of promoting a monolithic point of view or encouraging segregation. If you truly wanted to see change YOU WOULD DO SOMETHING. But you are the one doing nothing. I on the other hand give of myself every day to help others. Stop playing, you ain’t smart, you ain’t cute and you ain’t wise. You are a faceless person on the internet practicing your typing skills and I’m not impressed.


realwoman
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Well Latina I wouldn't say the discussion is less important, because as you said there is a movement to seperate the black and brown and unite the white and yellow (for now). That is why the Korean takeover was so easily done. It wasn't a matter of admiration of Black hair by Koreans/Asians as much of a business plan to keep them away from the Loreal's and Clairol's (owned by who???) and not threaten THAT industry. Have you noticed the sudden rush to demonize products made in China. Now all of a sudden there is a mess of articles about poisonous toothpaste, bootlegging, and substandard products coming from there...it is only because the economy is strengthening. However they know that the overpopulation and HUGE disparity in income in those areas is the only thing holding them back. Does anyone really believe Sars or that chicken disease was by accident? How about the cap on family household size? Also why the sudden push for immigration reform in the US. Why is it mostly targeted towards Latinos? Wasn't this their land to begin with anyway? Why aren't we hearing about busts of illegal Asian immigrants working over here. We all know they are here in large numbers as well....


realwoman
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Embarassed if you feel that I offended you in anyway, please accept my apology. I was simply trying to partake in a stimulating dialogue about an issue besides Rihanna's forehead and her record labels marketing ploys. If you read alot of what I have to say here you will see that I try to stay positive about Black people. That is it. If this aggravates you then I suggest you not read anything else I have to say. I will continue to come here and make my comments, I will continue to volunteer in my community, I will continue to donate a percentage of my earnings towards my community, I will continue to attend networking seminars for Black business owners, I will continue to frequent those owners as much (leading to more) as I frequent others, I will continue to try and make myself a better person everyday and CHALLENGE people who don't believe most Blacks are beautiful, smart, caring, and wonderful people who just need a chance. I wish you nothing but love and peace sister.


Embarrased2Bhere
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Realwoman, that sounds more like a person who cares about people and if it’s all smoke and mirrors or not that’s really not my concern. Your previous posts to me seemed to be very accusatory as if you are the only one doing something. I said it before and I’ll say it again, your approach seems to be to quibble about small things that we cannot change while my focus is on helping people to correct philosophical concepts that work against change. Granted the social issues you mentioned as well as the injustices blacks face still today aren’t small things, they are large indeed. But if people in power can’t change them then what can non-elected citizens do? We can teach or children to be respectful to their elders and to the governments. We can teach our children to be studious in school and to take advantage of their education if the books talk about African-Americans or not, we can teach our children to respect their minds and their bodies and not to be easily influenced by what their peers say or what they hear on the radio. We can teach our children to be God-fearing and grounded, letting go of prideful and selfish tendencies in favor of being giving and peaceful We can mentor young people who’ve lost their way and teach them morals, social skills and biblical standards. Just because my viewpoint about the plight of blacks in America isn’t drowned with a negative point of view doesn’t mean I don’t understand, care or am complacent about it as your previous posts seemed to suggest. I only wish that all blacks and people of all races could recognize that DOING SOMETHING starts from the inside and extends outward, not the other way around. If I can make a small dent in people’s viewpoints by spreading the message that I do then I am doing something and I think it’s more lasting than boycotting or being pissed about an Asian store. Peace


NormalBajanSister
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http://www.mediatakeout.com/8949/aawwww_vibe_vixen_shuts_down.html



realwoman
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For those interested: The Isis Papers by Dr. Frances Cress Welsing's From Niggas to Gods by Akil,J. Clopton Before the Mayflower: A History of Black America by Lerone Bennett Democracy Matters Winning the Fight Against Imperialism. by Cornel West Killing the Black Body: Race, Reproduction, and the Meaning of Liberty: by Dorothy Roberts


prettylatina
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RW & UncleTom There is so much more to dicuss and plenty more information to share amongst us and others who are interested. Im not sure how long this thread will continue here so I extend myself and will leave my personal email address. I would love to get more web sites and books to review and discuss. LOR218@comcast.net


prettylatina
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RW Thanks for the info! One I had read already. But the others I will start searching for.


ATLBrotha
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The isis papers. come on. the majority of that was some psycho babble trying to make gross overcompensations for racial inequalities. i couldnt even take that seriously.


realwoman
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I can't lie...there were times in the Isis Papers where I thought the lady was crazy. lmao But you do have to ask yourself: Why are all the white balls in sports so small and all the brown balls so big? Why are their targets in each sport distinctly different in size as well...and why oh why are cigarettes teeny and white and cigars big and brown. lmao COINCIDENCE or deliberate subconcious racist color schemes? *twilight zone music playing* Hey ATLbro why only comment on ONE of the books up there? Did you not read the others?


ATLBrotha
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i've read before the mayflower. i havent read the others. like i said. reading too much into things, trying to overcompensate


realwoman
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Try killing the Black body..that one had me freaked out and it's not psycho babble.


dropdead71
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@cutie64 You truly have to be one of the most disgusting vile posters on this entire site! Who are you? Or I should say, what are you? What kind of person claims to be a black woman married to a black man and talks the sh%t you do????? You are a REAL SICKO, matter of fact, YOU REALLY ARE A DANGER TO SOCIETY with your hatred towards YOURSELF SISTA!!!!!!!! Stay off the site if you hate black people so much.


dropdead71
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cutie64 You probably are a white woman with a black man since all you do is talk about black women. And if that is the case, trust me, none of us care about you and your plain jane a$$.


travieboo7
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in pic three she looks nice!!!!!


Embarrased2Bhere
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I just realized that this story has taken on a life of its own. All the story said is that she finds white men attractive. And? So do I? Mediatakeout made up the rest of the crap so I blame them for creating this dialogue about Rihanna turning her back on her race, white people are the Debil and Asians are selling racist perms? (Sorry realwoman, it's gonna be a couple of weeks before I let that one go.) It's amazing how this website is so good at starting race, social and moral wars and we fools for it every time. I'm disappointed in myself.


NormalBajanSister
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Wow... Uncle_Tom, HiredGun, RealWoman, PrettyLatina, you ALL sound ALOT alike in your beliefs. Are you sure you're not "related"???


regal
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When all is said and done, I will agree with 'embarrased2behere' in saying that let's pick our battles carefully and for the sake of credibility, take this somewhere more reputable than a black denigrating MTO webpage. They have done it again,shameful, but I have to pitch in one last comment on this topic and this site. Uncletom, You've been straightening out your thoughts I see, But your views and solutions are too simplistic and directionless, like those of a bitter but casual observer - i.e of an outsider. It has 'white' written all over it,come out and say it. Your constant Nelson Mandela quotes and others, and without attribution are also a white give away. Find your own. Now regarding all that, people need to realise that Africa has been very fast growing in the last few years, with the (most countries have recorded 6.1 in the last three years,compared to america's 2.4, japan's 3.8) India/China trade , and the place, or its people, are nothing like they have been demonized to be. Read local papers instead of relying on senseless directionless crap like cnn, and discover very modern well built cities - outside of south africa- with very smart,educated, self assured, smart and forward BLACK people who are unfailingly driving the continent back to its former glory as we knew it would.Let's face it, Black people always lead eventually and thus the deep ahte throughout history. A few misconceptions : No, it's not that hot there actually, apart from around the Sahara. Majority of it is very tropical and there is plenty of rain and water to keep you alive. And no,the whole continent is not fighting, only five countries are in political turmoil.And within those countries, only a particular region is experiencing that turmoil.There are no cannibals there either, angry 'africanised' bees, fields full of elephants and the like,you know, that may seek to kill your westernised self. You'd never know that with white people media coverage. And no, everyone is not dying with aids ; infact, there has been new revision of the figures touted by white people about the 'calamity of aids in Africa' since India successfully refuted the pinned figures of 'millions dying' of aids in their country,figures usually arrived at through very unforeseen 'methodology' that you should have all questioned before this as I did. Infact, these figures of aids in India as 'the new leading epicenter of aids', along with all other allegations about China's food etc, only rose with the fact that these two countries are threatening white countries with their new wealth and are now the new 'demons' to the west. People like Oprah need education on this one as well,with all the ignorance she churns out regarding these issues because white people are her audience. And so , with this, before long, you will probably want to go back to Africa and not take it as an insult when someone tells you to. Blacks living in America and the UK need to get with the program, rescue their fallen culture infused with division and neglect, get educated, and get all that they can from the white countries that they are still enslaved in,and take it where it will be used for their benefit.There are plenty of American and UK blacks now living elsewhere,in Black owned countries with successful businesses and a belonging instead of living as slavery specimen in white countries that continually seek to exclude them,alienate them and disintegrate and slowly kill them off. That,plus the black on black hate and self-hate that prevails within the fallen culture. Wake up and smell reality. Peace out.


dredlocdiva
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Riri can date anybody she wants. She can date women for all I care. I don't know her and it doesn't affect my life. "Do whatcha wanna."


Charlesa
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my sista said dat bitch think she da shit!! well shit.. dats rihanna!! still like her music doe!!



mAdXsKiLLz
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Why can't we all accept pple for who they are? Why does blck pple call each the n-words but get angry or want to retaliate when a white person says it? Yet, you call each other that allday unless the white person is being a str8 DiC head Why do blck pple claim (excuse expression) nIqqer and nigga are different when that doesn't make sense and it's the dumbest excuse i ever heard in my life. Why do blcks even link N1qqa to themselves but yet you can laugh at country called Niger when it's said totally different. Yet, you don't even know that in our time today not 1950 but 2007 i saw in a dictionary that had this word exactly: Nigger- meaning black, of darkskin, black person, descendant of slavery. That's the sadest thing i ever seen in my life i was shocked to see that word actually in a Dictionary. This is what some upperclass white pple think of you still til this day cus that is how the scholars defined it. WHy Does WhIte pple want to associate themselves with blcks when it comes to lifestyle and clothing as being thugish is what they call it yet wouldn't trade their skin for the world. Why don't white pastors in Church ever talk about racism in America but discuss everythng else? Why does a white person have to own up to blck person's standards or becareful what they may say without being perceived as a racist? Why are there still KKK Clans still lingering in remote parts of the country? Why do white pple think they're superior than every race? Why do white pple deny their African lineage yet there is so many lightskinned blacks in the USA? HOw come some white pple getta kIck outta saying the N-word like they're trying to test black person's reaction? WHy is the word "cracker" only associated with southern whites nicknaming 'em redneck/trailer trash? WHy do Overseas Europeans relate to Gangster as Black America when clearly it doesn't have Thug written on their forheads? Why when black pple with money travel overseas they ask are they a rapper, R&B singer or in the NBA? WHy can't blacks be asked are they a journalist, news anchor, doctor or photographer. The answer to that is because Black America have created an image for themselves that half of 'em don't even know about. You may not care but you have to you can't ignore it because you can't be looked at as a regular person instead of showcase. All in all, if u dont like 0reos than you nust don't like whites & blacks. CUs the two color goes together and it taste good. Race is no issue. No opinions from me all facts.


bluewater_7
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OH WELL, SHE AND MOST SUCCESSFUL BROTHAS SEEM TO HAVE SOMETHING IN COMMON...LOL


jersey
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i think that everyone is taking her comment the wrong way. all she clearly state is that she liked some white boys that's it. whats up with all these ignorant comments saying she's a sellout, oh she aint all that anyway, etc. i bet if she would have never said ANYTHING about liking some whiteboys half these comments up here wouldnt even be here! i dont see the problem. she's a grown ass woman. who are you to tell her the stuff you say. you think she care? she making mad money. she could give a rat's ass! there's nothing wrong with liking people from other races. that's the problem with black people...as soon as someone say something that has anything to do with race (black people) they quick to take offense to it, no matter how small it is! Get a grip! there is nothing wrong with white men, asian men, hispanic men.


AboveTopSecret
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@PrettyLatina Have you visited AboveTopSecret-com, Infowars-com, or RedIceCreations-com?