: There has been a lot of SLICK TALK going on about actor Taye Diggs and his wife Idina Menzel. But now he's opening up about HIS TAKE on interracial relationships.
MediaTakeOut.com got its hands on an interview that Taye gave British magazine The Voice. Here is some of what Taye had to say:
When I was younger I did get caught up with that. When I was growing up, there were guys who dated everybody, there were guys that only dated black girls, and there were guys who only dated white girls. Back then, I used to judge the black guys that only dated white girls and for so long, I wanted people to know, I’m not one of those guys.But Taye continued . . . and explains how he sometimes has to CHECK Black women when they try and disrespect his wife. Here’s what he added:"But as I got older, I realised what the important things in life are. I can’t worry about changing the way that people see me. If you like me, you like me, if you don't, you don't. And luckily, I’ve been just fine, you know what I mean? I think people are becoming more understanding.
"I won’t pretend [race] wasn’t an issue, because it was. We’ve had to deal with situations in the past where black women would give her attitude or not acknowledge her, and you’ve gotta nip that s**t in the bud."We'd like to RIDE with Taye on this. But if he's all multi-cultural, then why are all HIS JUMPOFFS White girls too . ..
THAT'S HIS WIFE! A man is supposed to stand up for his wife, protect his wife and maintain respect for his wife. If he DIDN'T check bitter angry women who talked about his wife, then he would be a PUNK. That is just a real man doing what he is supposed to do!
MTO for God sakes what is wrong with this? Its no different than what Usher did when he took up for Tameka against the haters. Same thing. And they both were just manning up.
lmfao wow, he done started a shyt storm. This thread will be past 500 comments by the end of the day.
Good job fred you got yourself a winner.
Personally I think taye diggs is full of shyt, he is white women exclusive. Just like mto said all his jump offs are white. Anyone who "exclusively" dates out side of their race has deep rooted issues imo.
I can't stand when interracial couples, especially black male/white female, swear a black woman gives 2 fxcks about their raggety asses. Damn! They always lookin for the slightest amount of attitude and they attributed it to another black woman is mad b/c he gotta Becky. The bitxh isn't that cute, and neither is Tay Diggs. Honestly, we don't care. 9 times out of 10 the hoe ugly anyways. The chick prolly didn't acknowledge ur wife b/c who the [EXPLETIVE] is she? No one knows!
Phuck Taye and his wife... once you are married you mean nothing to me... off limits a$$! You better defend her! shes your wife but dont attack black women punk... you defend her with reference to all women, not just black! Plus Taye black women have been over you.. maybe our disapproval stemmed from you, not her!
WELL, IF WOMEN OR MEN OR ANYONE DISRESPECTS HIS FAMILY, THAT IS HIS JOB TO DO THAT, PROTECT THEM. BLACK WMN, IF YALL R OUT THERE ACTING A MESS WHEN YALL SEE IRR , WELL THAT IS WHY THEY SAY WE ACT UP. ME PERSONALLY, THAT SHYT DONT BOTHER ME, ESPECIALLY SINCE I HAVE ONLY SEEN 2 IN MY WHOLE LIFE THAT WERE ATTRACTIVE. SHYT WHEN I SEE AN IR COUPLE, THEY LOOKING AT ME HARDS AS HELL!! ALSO, IR COUPLES BE MAKING THIS SHYT ALOT, CAUSE NOBODY PAYING THEM ATTENTION, NOBODY CARES ANYMORE...
Taye Diggs have every right to defend his wife. Good for him! However, he failed to mention it was a black man that sent threatening letters to him and his wife a while back (calling him a sellout). He also fail to mention that he is CHEATING on his wife! That's cool Taye, no wonder your career is in the toilet.
Taye seems like one of those corny/nerdy black guys that dates a non-black woman and wants everybody to know,wants everybody to know about his kid,and details about their relationship...I bet if you ask,he will say that black girls treated him bad in high school. I remember he did say on an interview that he got joked in school for being really dark.
Back to the topic, I understand dude saying he has to check people for messing with his wife but why is he acting like it's only black women? GTFOH. Let him go to a redneck part of town and let's see if both white males/females welcome them with open arms.
I'd like to ask the good posters of MTO to read this blog
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very interesting.
@kimpeach
Damn someone threatened his life over his IR relationship? that is very fu.cked up.
Anyway the brotha taye should check himself before he decides to check black women. He is cheating on his wifey with other women so he is contradicting himself right now.
and lol @ I-am-becky. I see we have some new trolls attempting to create more drama on mto.
black men go for easy chicks like this because a self respecting black women holds out and/or demand respect like our afrikan ancestor queens.
Don't be little yourself trying to compete with Becky!!
heck their men were raping black women - why you think they had to resort to giving head!!!
We all know Asian, white, latina men have small private parts.. So all women want a black man!!!!
@ Manifest
Yes, a man was charged with sending letters to Taye and his wife blasting them for their IR marriage and it was a BLACK MAN. Not only that, Taye is disrespecting his own wife by cheating on her with other women.
Yes, Taye needs to check himself, but he is slick. I notice he is talking his BS to the BRITISH media and we all know how the black British men get down! Would he say this in the US media is the question I have!
@chocokiss that is a valid question, my husband is half mex and white my kids are dark and my hubby is pro black or pro ethnic bcus he is well educated and taught me alot. my first bf was white and that was not good so i dont suggest bw to date ir unless ur man knows our true history
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LMAO!!!!!! Possibly the funniest BS I've ever read. So many confused negroes on this website. I swear, as the old saying goes "The black the talk the whiter the S/O". Please miss me with that B.S.
LIKE ANYONE IS LOOKING OR THINKS TAYE LIL MAN DIGGS IS SEXY!!!!!
HE IS A JOKE TO BLACK WOMEN.. GTFOOH
HE NEEDS TO PUT THE BLACK WOMAN ON HIS LIPS TO EVEN BE HEARD!!! NO-ONE WOULD HAVE EVEN KNOWN HE DID THIS ARRTICLE. YOU NOTICE HOW EVERYONE USES BLACK FOLKS NOW. I DATED A BLACK MAN(BARBARA WATLERS) OR " MY DICK IS LIKE DAVY CROCKETT(JOHN MAYER). EVERYONE JUMPS ON A BLACK PERSON NUTS OR [EXPLETIVE] TO STAY RELEVANT-
BECAUSE NEANDERTHALS ARE LAME!!!!!!!!!
THERE IS SO MUCH POWER IN BLACK THAT IS WHY THEY DOWN US SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!
You just don't see men from other races that date outside their race putting down women from their race,they just do their thing.
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Yes they do, but they call them AMERICAN WOMEN. I work with these corporate guys everyday, and they run off to Thailand or Russia to get them a non-American woman. Read between the lines. I hear them insult white women everyday, praising Asian women as docile etc. Don't believe the hype.
And to the poster that said white men don't bash their women when they date out you are VERY WRONG!!!
I knew a few white guys in high school that would say
" I ONLY date asian women because white women are wh.ores and white women sleep with anything"
This came right out of a white man's mouth, so yes they do bash their own. A lot of white men refer to their white women as sluts.
It gets real old hearing about this shyt. So what, he prefers white girls? People have preferences...some like tall dudes, some like long hair on a chick. I love me a black man...it's not cause I don't like white guys, black men are just finer to me...that's my preference. Why is this always news?!?!
I-AM-Becky: shut the [EXPLETIVE] up because as soon as one of those blacks guys knock yo ass out you go be running talking about ohhh immmm trumatized" "he hurt me so bad" instead of being like us strong black women...The only reason black guys date you girls is because you guys settle for anything and you are bimboo's and a tax write off.lmao
These ole uncle tom ass nyggas in Hollywood like Taye that are runnin off with these Becky's are the first one's jumping at movie parts where they co-star with a Black woman. If it werent for Black women, this coon would be more of a nobody than he already is. Hollywood aint gonna let your black ass play a leading romantic role with a white woman dummie. We need to start hittin these jibbaboos in their bank accounts and stop supporting their movies. These ole sorry nyggas kill me...phuck them sellouts...they will learn.
Taye Diggs can go to hell. That's why he going to end up OJ simpson or Mike Tyson I hope she take that [EXPLETIVE] for all he got. I like White people, but if that [EXPLETIVE] think he going to talk crazy to me about a white woman, he would get some of them teeth knocked out of his mouth. Then when the witch take his stupid ass for everything he got then he will want sympathy from black women. The fact is he is black as hell and want to be white hisself.
LOL..you ole dumb ass black men sound stupid with that "love is color blind" shyte. Guess what, the employment market aint color blind and the white boys who control it see yer black asses for miles away. Thats why Black men have the highest unemployment rate of any group. Yawl keep phuckin with these white men's women if ya wanna. They just pay you idiots back by keepin ya broke, strugglin, and unemployed...
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Love is colorblind. Be happy for the man
@Sexytranny
What's up, sexy? Late night yesterday, feel exhausted. Missed my morning run, but there's nothing like a good ol' "Taye Diggs is self-hating coon" type thread to get me through the afternoon at work. MTO will be responsible for moderately higher productivity loss today, but hey,It's God damn Monday, fuk it! LOL.
I am a black woman and I could give a f*ck about who Taye Diggs [EXPLETIVE] and/or marries. I actually LIKE his wife, better than I like him actually. The chic can SING!! I saw her ass on Glee last month and she won MAD Tonys for Wicked and Rent, where Taye met her. I am married to a black man but I have dated ALL races: white, asian, native american, hispanic. And believe it or not, all dicks are dicks. I know some Asian guys with big dicks, just like I know some Native American guys with big dicks. The biggest dick I ever saw was on a white dude, was like a f*cking tree trunk. Real talk.
LOL. True....
RE: boipussy LOL..you ole dumb ass black men sound stupid with that "love is color blind" shyte. Guess what, the employment market aint color blind and the white boys who control it see yer black asses for miles away. Thats why Black men have the highest unemployment rate of any group. Yawl keep phuckin with these white men's women if ya wanna. They just pay you idiots back by keepin ya broke, strugglin, and unemployed...
im not one who cares about black men dating white females,, the only prob i have is that as soon as they do.. they wanna go on record and blast blk females.,, i mean wtf is that all about,, i mean u don't white men doing that shyt!! geesh black people when will we get it,, after surviving all them years of slavery and racism,, y are we now doing it to ourselves?? so go fuuk urself taye diggs cuz if it wasn't blk women supporting ur lame azz career you wouldn't be making enough money to support ya becky!!
So what's nig/ger Taye gon say to those white folk who disapprove of interracial relationships and display their feelings too - and everybody cept Tay knows that there are more of them than the other way around.
Nig/er Tay for your information, interracial couples are generally more accepted by blacks, always have, than by other races - put that up you ass and smoke it.
Um, actually he is right. No female should disrespect another man's wife on GP. But, he's feeling himself trying to front like he has to correct black women on the regular basis. Negro please! His wife should be like, "excuse me bitch, you know you see me!"...haha But I see her on GLEE...amazing voice she has!!!
BeachMama
You're right. I actually met Idina at an event in NY and she is a very nice/talented woman. I have no issues with her.
geekryderz
Your friends' reasons for dating WW is slim-thuggish ridiculous. Black girls don't need to co-sign since we are 80% of the money power of the black community. And, I am sure Tiger Woods would disagree with you on number 3, since his wife whooped his azz and his h0es are causing all types of drama for him.
Yeah yeah yeah Taye. You aint checkn nobody cuz don't nobody give a fck about a SOB. Once you cross over and u talk shyt about BW in the slightest, yo ass can't come back. This is all good too. Don't want him in the pool of BM who looove BW. He goes in another pool. And his wife should be chckn hoes too B or W. I wish Taye Diggs would..*backhand followed by a MUSH*lol jg'. I would never care enough to pay him or his wife any attn
HE IS LYING, THERE IS NO WAY HE HAS TO CHECK BLK WMN ON THE REGULAR BECAUSE HE IS IN AN IR RELATIONSHIP, HE JUST TRYING TO STIR CONTROVERSY IN HOPES OF GETTING WORK. THE ONLY WMN WHO PUBLICLY DISPLAY ANY HATE IS GHETTO AZZ WMN, U COULDNT PAY ME TO BELIEVE AFFULENT BLK WMN, THE TYPE HE SHOULD BE SEEING SINCE HE IS SO HOLLYWEIRD, WOULD EVEN GIVE HIM A SECOND LOOK. HE IS LIKE 4 FEET TALL, THEY PROB CANT EVEN SEE HIS AZZZ! I BET HE BE STARTING SHYT WITH BW JUST TO MAKE HISSELF LOOK GOOD.
As long as Taye knows and respects that his short movie career was launched and successful because of BLACK WOMEN'S love and support I have no problem. Just remember who made you are what you are today Taye Diggs, and kudos to protecting your wife, More Black Men regardless of the race of their spouses should take note, and do the same.
HE HAS THE RIGHT TO FEEL UPSET ABOUT WOMEN DISRESPECTING HIS WIFE ONLY FOR THE SIMPLE FACT THAT SHES WHITE. I AM ALL UP FOR INTERACIAL DATING. ITS NOT YOUR LIFE, NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS, AND YOUR NOT THE ONE FUCCING EITHER OF THEM SO Y GET UPSET SEEING A INTERACIAL COUPLE WALKING DOWN THE STREET. WERE ALL HUMANS AND WE ALL HAVE FEELINGS. BEING MEAN TO SOMEONE BECAUSE OF THEIR RACE SHOWS THAT U HAVE A DEEP INSECURTY ABOUT YOURSELF TO FEEL THAT THREATENED OF SOMEONE ELSE WHOM U DONT EVEN KNOW.
BUT ON TOPIC: TAYE DIGGS STOP LYING U DONT CHECK SHYT. IM MOST POSITIVE NO BLACK WOMAN EVEN THINKS ABOUT YOU AND YOUR WIFE
I understand.....but do he check her if she comes out of pocket? Hmmmm. I think in 2010 people should not be focused on race. A Black man is gonna go wherever he wants, date and marry whomever he wants, so let it go. I have seen this so many times Black women sucking their teeth and cutting their eyes at interracial couples. I feel some of that stems from the statics portraying that we are the least to be married, and Black men are more likely to marry outside their race than Black women. And the fact that some White females think that they are the prize in which all men esp. Black men seek.
U HAVE TO UNDERSTAND, SOME PPLS IDENTITY IS TIED TO OTHER PPL, MEANING THEY NEED PPL TO HATE ON THEM TO FEEL VALIDATED OTHERWISE, IF PPL DONT HATE, WHATS THE POINT? WITH NO HATERS THEY R IDENTITY LESS, THAT IS WHY THEY FABRICATE THESE LIES THAT EVERYONE HATES THEM. IF U IN THE HOOD, I BELIEVE U HAVE HATERS, BUT IN HOLLYWEIRD, NAWW, I DONT BUY IT. WHY EVEYBODY HATING ON BW AND NEED TO VALIDATE THEIR LIVES BY PUTTING US DOWN? THIS SHYT IS REALLY GETTING OLD.
HE JUST USING BW AS A SCAPEGOAT! LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE, PATHETIC. IF HE WASNT LOOKING FOR THAT BEHAVIOR, HE WOULDN'T FIND IT. ALSO, HOW IS IT HE WAS REPORTED TO HAVING SUCH A LIL DYCK , IT WAS DETERMINED THAT IT WAS A CLIT, AND NOW HE TALKING CRAP ABOUT BW? HMMM.. I WANNA SEE THE DATE ON THAT INTERVIEW, HE COULD JUST BE MAD. ALSO, HE IN INTERVIEWS TALKING ABOUT CALLING HIS SON SWIRL. HE IS USING THIS RELATIONSHIP FOR ATTENTION, WHICH MOST DO!
BM AND WW GET INTO THESE RELATIONSHIPS AND EXPECT TO GET ATTENTION, THAT IS WHY THEY DO IT, THEY R WAITING FOR PPL TO LOOK AT THEM FOR 2 SECONDS AND THEN THEY ASSUME U HATING ON THEM. WHEN THEY DONT GET ENOUGH NEGATIVE ATTENTION FOR DATING OUT, THEY MAKE SHYT UP! THERE IS NO WAY TO TELL IF WHAT THEY SAYING IS TRUE UNLESS U R WITH ALOT. THEY JUST MAKE UP THESE LIES. BW GET JUST AS MUCH HATE EVEN MORE WHEN THEY DATE WM, BUT DO THEY GO AND PUBLICIZE IT FOR ATTENTION? NO! PATHETIC, GET A NEW HOBBY.
Let me see….this delusional Negro implies that he will protect his wife’s honor and respect….and people are up in arms ready to castrate this poor Negro
Yet, there have been countless media attention given to black women who are pushing the IRR agenda…yet, these women and these groups are rarely met with staunch oppositions.
In fact ESSENCE contributes an entire magazine to the issue of Black women and their pressing need to marry or date interracially…and they’ve used every argument, from “not enough black men”, to “ most black men are in jail,” to “most black men are DL”, etc…etc
Where is the outcry?...ahahaha!!!!
One thing I despise more than White-washed Negroes…are Hypocrites… You brawds on here have no room to criticize or even argue with this man….fukk outta here
Many of you have and will bow down to the white man and his ideology….and have accepted Him as your savior…how the fukk can you criticize this Negro for doing the same.?
Lol…there are brawds on here who are married to non-black men…yet, angry that this man is married to non-black woman…?....I don’t get why you are angry…He said nothing that offensive. Unlike, what I’ve read from black women in Essence or heard over the air waves.
Ahahahah!!!!...when it comes to treachery and deception….history has shown, a black woman in union with a white man can never be trusted…she will always side with the ruling powers ( in most cases the white agenda) and will deceive an entire nation to protect the father of her seed….as well she should…as well as this Negro Tay Diggs should
But let it be known…I too will my protect my own…even at the expense of you and your white counterpart.
Aahahah!!! May the strongest survive….ahahahaha!!!! I’m out
Ok that [EXPLETIVE] is whacked... If he's so in love with white people why is the black ass motherfuker always in a all black movie pretending to get stella back when he didnt want stella in the first place! Taye I didnt have an opionion about you before and surely dont like you now! Trust and believe I will never spend another one of my Hard Earned Black dollars on your Becky loving ASs... And Im just sayin....
I don’t think some blk ppl realize just how racist they can be. Like it or not he has a very valid point and a husband has a duty to defend his wife. The lack of understanding and labeling him as a sale out is further proof of this reversed racism. He doesn’t owe blk woman shyte and just because he appears to only date white women is no reason to call him a sell out. He’s entitled to date/marry whom ever he chooses. Please get over yourselves and stop relying on someone to validate your value in this world!
Black women stop hating yourself when you see a black man with another. And start loving yourselves and open up to differs culture of men.
At least 2+millions black women will not have black mates. If blackness is what you are carving, then seek … Jamaicans, Africans and etc, differ culture of black men!
It sad when black women rather date and wheel children out of wedlock with another black woman man. You are making another woman unhappy and selling your life and health short.
That’s the reason why black women suffer for the highest of every disease category, because they are raising children by themselves … not having time for doctor’s visit, making time for the gym or can afford nutritional food.
And as for life, you depriving yourself and children of what it feels like to have a man in the household.
Stop this I am independent, can do it all, I can raised my own children and don’t need a man bull-sh##t. Because our children are the worst at every level!
I married an Asian, because black man could not fit the simplest standards
*No children *A college degree or technical training *Steady employment *Possession of property (or they own rental apartment) or a vehicle *Never wanted to get marry … it not necessary *Live a violent-free lifestyle *Incorporate healthy nutrition’s into they lifestyles
And the most important one
*They DID NOT want to get a health check-up, especially an HIV test. That’s why black women carried the higher rate, because they don’t make that sexy looking black man get tests. Because he doesn’t want too and she gives in to his decisions. One man can infect dozens of women!!!
@DARLIN NICCKKI: WHEN WHITE PPL USE THE TERM REVERSE RACISM, U AUTOMATICALLY KNOW, THEY R RACIST THEMSELVES. AND ITS NOT SALE OUT, ITS SELL OUT U IDIOT BYTCH! ALSO, THE SAME THEORY U JUST STATED ABOUT NEEDING SOMEONE TO VALIDATE OR GET VALUE FROM APPLIES HERE AS WELL.. WW AND BW SHOULDNT NEED TO GET THEIR VALUE FROM BW, SUPPOSEDLY DIS LIKING THEM, BW HAVE S MUCH OTHER SHYT TO TOLERATE, THEY DONT HAVE TIME FOR LIL DYCK UGLY PPL!
Yanno, I'm so sick of this white/black/whatever thing. It really doesn't matter what race is making the comments, giving the stares, etc. If someone comes out their mouth with something sideways, a man should defend his wife regardless. Secondly, wtf is wrong with you MTO? You continue to ad fuel to the fire on a daily basis talking about "swirlin" and "becky's" etc., yet you continue to post topics that make black people look bad, not showing the many positive things as a people they do. Ignorance makes people look bad, and MTO is full of it.
Taye Diggs is absolutely right. Black women will disrespect his wife soley because she is White. Since Black women already feel that there is a shortage of quality Black men available, they will certainly lash out at other non-Black women who chose to date Black men. I've personally experienced the stares and snide comments whenever I have lunch with my Black co-worker.
I've always said that plenty of Black women are insecure and bitter.
DIGGS GET OVER YOURSELF, IF TRUE THE BLACK WOMEN WHO ARE GIVING YOU GUYS STANK FACE ARE DOING SO PROBABLY BECAUSE THEY ARE WONDERING WHY YOU MARRIED A TRANNY. IF YOU MARRIED A PRETTY WHITE GIRL PPL WOULD UNDERSTAND BUT IT APPEARS THAT YOU MARRIED THE FIRST PIECE OF WHITE ASS THAT CAME YOUR WAY.
ALSO I THINK SO MANY INTERRACIAL COUPLES HAVE THESE DELUSIONS THAT PPL ARE "HATING" ON THEM BECAUSE IT MAKES THEM FEEL IMPORTANT WHEN NO ONE CARES. MY PARENTS NEVER HAD THESE ISSUES WITH THEIR INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIP THAT ALL OF THESE BLACK MALE CELEBRITIES SPEAK OF.
I think people have an issue with it because he is known for being in black only movies ( even though he was in rent before the movies) and most black women loved taye diggs but after seeing a white women on his arm that messed him up with a lot a black women, but that is his wife and he should defend her that is his job so i will give him a hand for that
Wow, I can not wait until the fact that people are dating interracially dies out. Just like White girls with big booties. Thanks to sillicon, that's becoming a norm and will no longer be surprising. Why so much shine with bm/ww? I went out with a white man. You should have seen the hatred that came from them. Blatantly name calling and disrespecting him to his face. I feared for his life. Seriously, if more bw dated wm, the brothers would be upset. Believe it.
@ThisPicProvesImBlack
Dont just single Taye out. He's not the only one getting a little success and getting a white women. What about Kanye, Reggie Bush, Cuba, Ice T etc, etc, etc. This is a fundamental problem in our culture which is not going to begin or end with Taye Diggs.
People are so mad at him because he gained his success off of being the black womans heart throb. Wesley Snipes never recovered from that either lol...
YEA, TRUE, TAYE PROB AINT GET NO PLAY FROM BLK WMN ABD NOW HE TAKING ANGER OUT ON THEM. THERE R SOME SISTAS WHO WILL NOT GIVE A SHORT AND OR DARK SKINNED BROTHA SOME PLAY, I KNOW SISTAS PERSONALLY WHO HAVE SAID THAT DUMB SHYT. TALKING ABOUT I DONT DATE DARK SKIN GUYS, I BE LIKE, HOLLA!! 'MORE FOR ME!! I AINT MAD AT HIM FOR MARRYING THAT UGLY MONSTER, JUST DONT TALK SHYT ABOUT SISTAS, DAT ALL..
In regards to Taye diggs, where was this pro white women when he was doing his movies? If I recalled, a majority of his movies co-starred him with a black woman. I guess because his career was hot at that time and he didn't want to alienate his core audience, which was surprise: black women. Now that he's no longer hot, he can show who he truly is which is an oreo.
AND PLEASE DONT GET IT TWISTED, WHITE GIRLS DO THE SAME, IT DONT MAKE IT RIGHT, BUT THEY DO. I HAD 2 LIL FLINGS WITH WHITE DUDES BACK IN THE DAY, JUST TESTING IT OUT, SEE IF I WAS MISSING ANYTHUNG, HAVING FUN. WHITE CHICKS USED TO HATE HARD AS HELL, ESPECIALLY SINCE THE WM I USED TO DEAL WITH WERE BANGING, TALL, HARD BODIED, THE WHOLE BIT. THEY WOULD PURPOSELY JUST ADDRESS HIM, IGNORE ME, IT WAS FUNNY... THEY WOULD STARE AND WINK AND SHYT, I JUST IGNORED THEM, THAT SHYT WAS FUNNY. BUT WE GET THE REP FOR BEING THE ONLY ONES, SMH!
IT SEEMS TO ME THAT BLK MEN AND WHITE WMN HAVE ALOT IN COMMON, SME NOT ALL. BLK MN FEEL AS THOUGH, THEY R THE MOST DESIRED AND SHOULD HAVE ACCESS TO WHOEVER THEY WANT, EVEN YO GIRL. AND WHITE WMN FEEL THE SAME WAY. THEY R THE MOST DESIRED AND SHOULD HAVE ACCESS TO ALL MEN, EVEN YO MAN. SO BASICALLY, ITS ALL ABOUT THEM AND THE EXTERIOR AND MATERIALISM, THE MIN U CLAIM TO NOT CARE TI BUY INTO IT, U R LABELED A HATER CAUSE U WANT MORE OUT OF LIFE THAN A FAKE BODY AND A FANCY CAR AND STREET CRED...
EVERYBODY QUICK TO CALL BLACK WMN INSECURE AND BITTER BECAUSE WE CALL PPL ON THEIR SHYT, IF WE SAT THEIR AND SAID NOTHING , WE WOULDNT BE WHO WE R, WE WOULD BE THEM OTHERS... IF U DONT WANT TO BE CALLED ON UR SHYT TOO PHUCKING BAD! BECAUSE I HAVE AN OPINION, IM JEALOUS AND INSECURE OF AIR HEADED BYTCHES WITH FAKE BODIES THAT BLK MEN USE AS CONCUBINES? PHUCK U! I HAVE MORE GOALS IN LIFE THAN TO BE DESIRED BY MAN, THERES TOO MUCH OUT HERE IN THIS WORLD!!!
I personally don't care who he decides to be with. That's his business. But I'm just tryna figure out what he meant when he said as he got older he realized what the important things in life were. So is he saying that white women are more important?!?! Wow, I really hope he didn't mean it like that! But it's funny how things change. He said he used to judge the black men who only dated WW, but now look at him...LOL Be careful of spitting into the air because it come right back at you!!
@nkreseknowledge
Do you ever read your posts? Your a complete embarrassment sometimes. I'm reading your post and just patiently waiting for something tangibly articulate and thoughtful to appear but I'm disappointed each and every time. FOR EXAMPLE: "...WHEN WHITE PPL USE THE TERM REVERSE RACISM, U AUTOMATICALLY KNOW, THEY R RACIST THEMSELVES..."
Ahh, the brilliant -- White people can't be discriminated upon because the notion that reverse racism exists is a mere fallacy designed to trivialize "true" racism suffered wholeheartedly by Black people. I'm very impressed with that logic. SMMFH!
@I-Am-Becy Us black woman cant compete with yall beauty? wtf?! We come in many different shades of color, age well, and are exotic. We dont look 50 at 30. Yall tan to get ass dark as us, get injections for bigger lips, now getting injections for a bigger a** and F with yall faces to get that exotic looks. You need to sit your ass down somewhere and stfu with all that mess. bruthas go to yall bcuz they want someone withput a backbone and whos gonna put up with their BS
TEXASGLAMOURCHIC BRINGS VERY GOOD POINTS, WHICH I COSIGN. IT IS NOT FOR BLK WMN TO BE IN DENIAL BUT TO SELF EVALUATE AND GROW... OH WELL..
@BLACKSTAK4LF: OR WHATEVER UR NAME IS, U SAY THE SAME THING ABOUT ME ALL THE TIME, UR OPINION HOWEVER MEANS NOTHING. I AM A CONTENDER ON THIS SITE AND I PRETTY MUCH SAY WHAT I WANT. ALL U DO IS COME ON BOARDS TO TAKE THE OPPOSITE SIDE OF BLK WMN, I PEEPED UR STYLE LONG AGO, THAT IS WHY I IGNORE U AND SOME OTHERS, U MEAN NOTHING. BOUNCE!
@Organic
So true. Tiger is another one but it cant be cool for one and sell out for another. If the white girl is urban acting with a fake tan and ass the black guy gets a pass. But if its a regular run of the mill white woman, he's a sell out. GTFOH! Some women have their priorities mixed up....
If a man dont want you move on...its not his fault you found him attractive or a good catch.
@ Organic But why is a black person a sell out just b/c he/she associates with mainly white ppl. Perhaps it’s b/c that is what he is surrounded by. For example on my father is black his brother also married a white woman. I lived in Houston and grew up in a mainly black neighborhood and attended predominantly black schools. I have only dated black men my entire life. My cousin grew up in Colorado, lived in a white neighborhood went to a white school and she dates only white men. Not because she is a sellout but because that is what she is accustom to. Just because you date outside your race does not make you a sellout. I think black woman find this such a sore topic b/c we’re told by main stream media & white America that our beauty is not equal to that of a white woman so when we see a black man with a white woman it is like a slap in the face. Just look at the response to this thread, the number of comments and the type of emotion it provokes.
@BOIPUSSY SO TRUE...ITS SO FUNNY HOW 1 BLACK GUYS ON HERE ARE AGREEING WITH TAYE DIGGS DEFENDING HIS WIFE NO PROBLEM WITH THAT BUT SOME OF THEM CANT EVEN BE A FATHER TO THEIR KIDS..AND 2 REMEMBER TAYE DIGGS SAID HE ONLY DATED BLACK GIRLS WHEN HE WAS YOUNG THEN GROWING UP HE REALIZED..BS.. ONCE AGAIN ONCE YOU GET MONEY THERES NO SUCH THING AS BLACK TO SOME MEN ANYMORE..IT JUST SOUNDS LIKE THIS COON HAVE PERSONALITY ISSUES GOING ON....AND FOR PEOPLE SAYING LOVE HAVE NO COLOR.. WHAT DO THEY CALL BLACK FOLKS COLOR PEOPLE SO BASICLY UR SAYING BLACK PEOPLE HAVE NO LOVE IN THIS WORLD ..AND YES THATS TRUE AND THATS WHY BLACK FOLKS LIKE TO SAY BLACK LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING BECAUSE ITS A BLACK ON BLACK BOND...SO FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE BRAINWASHED BY THE MEDIA..WAKE UP PLEASE!!!!
DARLINICKKI: OH YEA, PHUCK U FOR THE LAST THING U SAID TO THE LAST, LAST,LAST, THING I SAID. ALSO, U DO HAVE A POINT. MAYBE SOME BLACK WMN FEEL IT IS A SLAP IN THE FACE, BUT HOW DO U EXPECT BLK WMN TO BELIEVE THAT WHITE WMN R THE MORE ACCEPTED BEAUTY FORM WHEN THEY GET MORE PLASTIC SURGERY THAN A LIL BIT, SPEND MORE MONEY ON COSMETICS AND PRODUCTS TO BEAUTIFY THEMSELVES, AND GO TO GREAT LENGTHS TO LOOK MORE ETHNIC? IT JUST DOESNT ADD UP. THEIR JUST AS INSECURE AS BLK WMN, SHYT ALL THESE BYTCHES R.... GOOD TRY THOUGH..
@nkreseknowledge
More illogical, unsubstantiated filth coming out of those lips. I wish you could pick up a dictionary and study one word: "EVIDENCE." You will often find that you need this in order to support claims. FOR EXAMPLE, YOU POSTED THIS NONSENSE: "ALL U DO IS COME ON BOARDS TO TAKE THE OPPOSITE SIDE OF BLK WMN..." See that, I caught you in another lie. Logical, well reasoned individuals like myself would never do what you purport I do on a regular basis. Show me, prove it, and if you can't (which you won't)I want an apology for attempting to discredit me. If your looking for another brotha that "hates" and disassociates with black women, you will have to look elsewhere!But nice try though.
@darlin_nikki77.YOU ARE SO RIGHT..BECAUSE I LIVED IN MIAMI AND IM ONLY ATTRACTIVE TO BLACK GUYS BUT NOW THAT I LIVE UPSTATE NY 95 % OF THE GUYS UP HERE ARE WHITE...SO LIKE U SAID ITS WHO YOU ASSOCIATE WITH AND YOUR SURROUNDING..BUT IF YOU LOOKING FOR LOVE WHY DO YOU HAVE TO SETTLE FOR LESS AND WHAT YOU NOT HAPPY WITH..I HAVE NO PROBLEMS WITH WHITE GUYS BUT I JUST THINK I WOULD BE MORE CONFERTABLE WITH A BLACK GUY ..
This dude is disillusional if he has to check black women, but not white men. He's living in a white man's world and I'm sure his circle of acquaintances are white, places he chooses to patronize is white, neighborhood consist of whites.... and we are to believe that not one white man has ever showed their disdain?! My brother is 6ft.4in. and is married to a white woman, living in upstate NY and he gets the iced-grill looks and sly remarks from white men all the time. But I'm suppose to believe that white men doesn't show Tayes little ass no disdain...yeah right! He better save that bull-ish for those that don't know any better
black people can not be racist, it isn't even logical. the negative comments by blacks on this board towards whites is a reaction to white supremacy. When you are part of a race of people that deals with systematic oppression and racism of course you will react harshly.
lastly black people don't have any power to enforce their racist ideology. only white people have this kind of power.
can black people be prejudice? yes they can, however they can never be racist. That title belongs to white people
Interracial relationships doesn't affect me in the least especially when it's no monetary gain involved. Just two people rebelling against society and the norms. It's a beautiful thing to me...
What I think most bw cant stand is bm who feel to achieve ultimate success, they have to have a ww on their arm. Fundamentally that's disturbed.
Interracial relationships are one thing. Needing a ww validate your success is another but that's the part of the conversation that bm will never speak on...
And to any problack person on this board that gets attack by the "universal kumbayah" blacks just ignore them. They are completely delusional, they actually believe the liberal notion that we are in "post-racial America".
Cops gunning down black youth on the daily bases, blacks being wrongfully accused of a crime and given unjust sentences, and black people not being called back for a job because they have a "black" name and you imbeciles actually believe times have changed. Nothing has changed, and white people are just more of the same. They are no different than their forefathers.
@darlin_nikki77
You make some valid points.I personally do not have a problem with irr dating. I have a problem with black men like Taye Diggs singling out black women.You cant tell me that he has not experienced blatant disapproval from white men but I guess its safer for him to attack black women with his lame azz.
zombiegirl... are you a retard?? you obviously have no sense and just do not get it.. You talking about your man is white and he is so black inside and his family turned away from the "white side" of his family.. lalalala.. What are you talking about.. Do you hear yourself?? What kind of loser is he to turn away from his family because he is "pro-black".. What the fuk is "pro-black".. hes for black people?? lmao.. you sound like a lost person wow
zombiegirl.. and what are you saying that you can only date a "white" person if he "knows our history".. bitch what da fuk are you talking about.. where are you from?? obviously not new york.. you sound like you deal with hicks.. american hicks.. so since you talking about all white men need to know these things to go out with black women.. do you know anything about russian culture?? about french culture?? or are you only exposed to white hick americans.. cuz your a hick yourself
Well nothing wrong with defending your wife, but there is something about Taye Diggs that hints at being overly preoccupied with race. There is also his faulty perception that other people are paying attention to him and his interracial relationships. I ran into this type of guy all the time when I attended law school in Atlanta.
I laugh at how you Niccas get all emotional every time you see a Nicca dating a non-Black woman. Like every Black man who is open minded enough to date women of all colors is a sell out who has self hate issues. Black men who don't believe in race race mixing are good men but White men who don't believe in race mixing are hateful racist,right? No one who is in a happy relationship would spend their time & energy complaining about someone else's relationship. You mufuccas need a hug,sensitive a$$ Niccas. Hahahaha!!
@Girlsluvgems
I dont think a person is a sellout because they date someone of a different race. A sellout to me is someone who excludes or avoids people of their own race.You have Tiger woods who claims hes not black and will crack black men jokes even though he had a black father.You dont see Taye Diggs Rollin with black people.Being a sellout is not just limited to black people.
This was in VERY bad taste.
I truly understand where this man is coming from, but he should've chosen a more tactful way to say it. You can love your wife without sh*tting on the rest of black women in your interview.
Who the hell does he thinks his fans are? Black women are the ones who buy up all the tickets to see Taye in movies. He's gotten so high and mighty now that he has money and a white woman that he thinks the people who helped to get him where he is doesn't matter.
It's clear that he understands interracial relationships are a touchy matter within our community - it's too bad he didn't use some SENSITIVITY when addressing the matter.
Ugh. And I'm positive he's the type of man that will turn around and try to make this about "bitter black women" being jealous of his "beautiful white wife" instead of about his massive ego & lack of tact.
What an *sshole.
what da fuk is goin on with these badmind comments.. I NEVER KNEW THAT a person has to be "hot" in order to date them.. who are you to judge who is hot and who isnt hot.. 80 percent of the people making these badmind comments are not "hot".. and the other 20 percent of the people are obviously losers if you make these comments.. everyone is attracted to different people.. how dare somebody judge a person for dating a person that is a different race and not "hot".. SMH
Tiger doesnt even phase me. He's been dating ww since birth and probably would whether he was rich or not. That's just his preference!
What's disturbing is these overnight successes b-ball players and football stars (I.E. T. Owens) who dated black women all their lives but soon as they get money and fame. Black women are no longer good enough for their new success. That's the kind of backwards, deep rooted, self hatred thinking that annoys me but regular everyday IR dating...I don't look twice at. Doesn't bother me in the least....
@Ibcer
"Nothing wronmg with what he said. It's a sad day when a man cam't stand up for his wife."
I agree. I actually respect Taye for standing up for what he believes, and he appears secure in himself and knows what he wants. If he has to "check" a few ignorant black women who eye-roll, disrespect, and accost his wife because of their own insecurities then so be it. The fact that he addressed it since it's a sensitive subject suggests that its happened far more times beyond his comfort level.
who cares about him takin up for the devil cause she dont care about him she just love the money she can get out of his pocket like malcolm x said as soon as black people get an education they want what the white man got including the white hoes so let this sell out stay in love with the devil cause he will b destroyed with her at the end so [EXPLETIVE] him and his evil devil hoe he married 2 and black [EXPLETIVE] like him us black women dont need or miss so enjoy hell 2gether peace black nation rising
[EXPLETIVE] taye diggs coward ass and his goldigging, good for nuttin but their parents money and big ass nasty mouths...want to use black men for all they have until they break em down and leave em running back to us, faking ass wife...i wish i could see them they would definitely hear my opinion....caring or not!!!
Taye puhleaze! Every body knows ur stock went down the moment we saw ur black azz with ur wife! No one cares now! The inital shock is ova and I hope ur ugly azz wife is checking those white boys that look down on ur crusty azz! Oh that's right, wm r notchecking for that oogly b!otch and they appauld u for taking that dog out for a walk! LOL!!! I'm being mean today! Hahahaha!!
swtchocolatekizz
I'm not saying it's strictly a BW problem to have attitudes or be jealous. I am saying I believe it's a tradition passed down from one generation to the next amoung certain BW.
BTW, BW don't have nearly as much BS to put up with from society as BM, and I don't see this ridiculous attitude problem among BM. BM that get into crimes do so mostly for financial reasons due to job discrimination and that's why they commit mostly economic crimes (sell dope, robbery etc.)I still don't into nearly as many Black guys that believe walking around with an attitude for no reason is fashio
@STAYPOPPIN01
Black women have many burdens though, they might not be hunted and gun downed as often as black men but they are killed mentally.
Females in general are more prone to self esteem issues, when the black woman is being called unattractive from all sources, in some cases the source being her own black men of course she will begin to lash out. Black women have low self esteem, the "strong" black woman title is something they use to mask up their feelings up grief and turmoil.
@tastysis, I was gonna say da ssmething, I wonder how many white men she has " checked" on his behalf. So all if a sudden sistas are the only ones who have issue with interracial dating. And who is jealous of his wife. Most black people don't have an issue with interracial dating, it's when u feel like u have to degrade ur race to b with someone outside ur race that most people take issue with.
@STAYPOPPIN01
And trust me my brotha, yes sometimes black women can be annoying as a mother fu.cker but when we get down to the nitty gritty we are all in this situation called life together. Black men and black women need to stop being at odds with one another, they need to work together as a well oiled machine.
White men and White women always work together as a unit which is why they continue to dominate our azzes as a race of people.
Y is it when other races date outside their race they give love as the number one reason( even if it's a lie i.e. most celebrity jump offs) but when black folks date or marry outside our race it's because we hate our own men/women. Then we turn around n ask others to accept the relationship n respect it.
I am currently engaged to a white female and I can understand where Taye Diggs is coming. Sometimes some sistahs do give off attitude if they see you with a woman that's not black. Not all but some. We face prejudice because people assume things about us without knowing us and it gets annoying. I'm with her because I love her not because of "Becky", or I need someone to cosign for a car, or I exclusively like white women. I like her as a person. People shouldn't always assume the worst when they see an interracial couple together because they might just be in love.
IR dating and thinking your race is inferior are two different things. A white man can date/marry a BW and still not think his own race of women are inferior. He's just attracted to BW and that's his preference.
I think black men who date interracially have a harder time because it's unclear of their iternal motives. Are WW just his preference or do he fundamentally think BW are less than.
Taye's comments dont help his case because I think he's brainwashed to think BW are even checking for him anymore. Who ever is giving him and this ugly woman a 2nd glance please stop LOL
Goodnight!
taye diggs...stfu! what was the last movie you starred in? aint nobody checkin for ur lil azz dyck or ur ugly azz wife. if ur gonna get a white bytch atleast get one that looks halfway decent. i hate when black celebs go over seas and start dissin blk ppl. talk that shyt in america bytch! taye ur not a-list anymore, fcuk ur opinion and ur feelings!
GQ_336...I see what ur sayin, but most negative reactions aren't based on assumptions...most black men who date outside their race say things like "she got good Becky" or "I need a co-sign" or "I hate black women". Instead of checkin sistas, brothers like u should check those lost sambos who put that stigma out there about black men who only daye non black women. They the reason guys like u have to defend yourselves.
@Manifest There is no actual thing called racism….. It is an idea. Its definition is fluid and based on the context of its era. Something racist today may not have been racist 60 years ago. It doesn't mean anything in and of itself. It is a label we use to describe a particular subset of behaviors and prejudices, the labeling process predicated on our own observations and biases.
There is no real controversy here. What you have done was base your entire argument on a definition of racism that isn't commonly known or used. Majority of people myself included, are basing our objections on our own definitions of racism - the presumed definition that an average American would use.
I'm not saying there is no truth to what you’re saying. However, it is an academically disingenuous statement used to draw up attention and controversy (think very sophisticated trolling), and violates one of the argumentation fallacies by definition. Your definition of racism stipulates that "Blacks cannot be racist against whites in the United States because blacks do not control political and economic power. Whites do. It's an objective structural fact. However, this means your definition of racism is the exertion of political and economic power, presumably in a way disadvantageous to a minority group. So blacks cannot exert political or economic control over whites is the thesis of his argument. We can all agree on that. Now, whether or not this is a requirement for "racism" I will leave to those who enjoy arguing semantic differences.
Truth be told, it doesn't matter. There's nothing to be done about it. Just live your life, take care of yourself and yours, and try your best to treat every individual fairly and free of racial prejudices, and have faith that in America, these things will work itself out with each successive generation. Till that day, arguments like this serve nothing but to incite defensiveness and divisiveness.
Let The Man Have Peace Of Mind, Go Taye God Bless You And Your Family!
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@ I AM BECKY...OF COURSE BLACK MEN LOVE YOU! SILLY RABBIT, SOME BLACK MEN... THE ONES YOU LOVE SO MUCH ARE DOGS LETS JUST BE HONEST, THEY WOULD LOVE FOR NOTHING MORE FOR YOU TO SLOB THEM OFF, BRING THEM BREAKFAST IN BED, LET THEM SKEET ALL UP YOUR NOSE AND PHUCK YOU IN THE AZZ. AND THEN IT'S ON TO THE NEXT BECKY. YOUR NOT HIS PRIZE... HE IS YOURS.
@phillylove..thanks sis..may your father rest in peace..he was a true black man/warrior..i would not..could not..sleep well knowing that i didn't fulfill my main purpose on this planet..to protect black women and black children..ensure their safety and well-being..so as to perserve the future of our race(bloodlines)..that's how i was taught..i am my grandfather's grandson.
@countmein or lo mein whatever: u trying, I give you that, close but no cigar. How could blacks be racist? racism is a social contruct created by whites, they started it, so for us to call it like it is, we are considered racist. We have to know how to navigate this hateful system that we still live in, alot of blks go the cant be them join them route, is that what you are suggesting? u seem like the individuals that believe blks should be accepting and receptive to racism because they r blk, whereas white ppl should claim reverse racism and aim to do something about it. blk ppl r reactin
blk ppl r learning to live in a system that has opressed and confused them for centuries. So just because they are able now, more than ever, I would hope anyway, to identify racism when it rears its ugly head, u want to pop out and say it doesn't exist?? now when white ppl feel they r victims of racism, it doesn't exist, but everything going on in this country, this world right now against darker skinned ppl is not racism. come on. no matter what part of the globe u go to darker ppl r considered inferior and maltreated, yet u tell me it has nothing to do with racism. Manifest speaks truth!!
As a black woman I cannot get angry at what he's saying. Sometimes when I'm in public with my white boyfriend people(black men) shout the most terrible things, and everybody always has an opinion. I don't get angry when black men say that they do not like black women, because every body has their preferences. I know plenty of black women who believe they could never marry a black man. People should have the freedom to feel as though they don't have to stay in their race.
@Countmein I had to read your post twice to understand where you were trying to go….1st thing everything we talk about is ideas….. Human beings communicate using signs and symbols to convey thoughts and ideas…. Some of the ideas we exchange are imaginary. The supernatural beings that populate systems of religious thought have no external objective reality
The only thing objective about religious thoughts is that we know people have them. Other ideas connote objective realities. Gravity is an example
Inertia is another.
This following analogy is helpful. While religion is a system of ideas, the supernatural of which have no external objective existence, religion is also a social institution that can be studied as an objective reality because it is! There really is a Roman Catholic Church. All institutions are really existing things.
Class and race systems, as well as sexism and other systems of social relations, are also systems of power. Power is directional. Men have power over women. Capitalists have power over workers. And etc
Cont'd
What I’ve noticed is that you want to keep things as they are by denying the definition of racism. Your post concludes with the assertion that there is nothing anybody can do about the situation. People should just go about their lives and stop worrying about it. Countmein is washing his hands of the burden to act in a proper moral fashion and putting his faith instead in the idea that America will work it out over time. America has never worked anything out over time. Things have only changed because people made things happen by doing something about them
@#Tony ( maybe if you read my whole post you would of understand better NOT just one sentence) and nkreseknowledge (my name is countmein reading is FUN!) Bklyn Interesting but FAILS There is one BIG flawed in you guys argument. Black Nationalists, are indeed in a position to deprive whites of the means to live. Take political affirmative action, where the appointment of the agents of elected office is dictated by pressure to appoint minorities to office( this happens EVERYDAY)
If I need a police chief and I want a black or Hispanic one, I limit my applicant pool by a factor of many. This means to attract the now fewer potential candidates, I have offer a substantially higher salary.
Of course, that salary is paid for with tax dollars and in the case of Texas those tax dollars are derived from property and business owners...
It also means that minorities working under this executive candidate make substantially less money then their boss.
The problem here is associating every problem a self proclaimed group of people have is the net result of racism by another group of people. That is true in centuries past, but even back then not as true as we think it today.
It is this particular belief that blacks cannot be racist that threatens to undue the real civil rights movement, as whites become oppressed for the benefit of a few. If your argument is Whites can indeed be racist then be SURE blacks can as well
...What's up Tuff-Tony...SupaMYLF won't be fighting today...There's NO PROFIT in arguing over the internet...LOL
On another note: Sisters, please stop CO-SIGNING on these IGNORANT negros' posts...If a brother says "black women have bad attitudes (BLAH,BLAH,BLAH)" and then adds the caveat, "but NOT ALL black women" understand that this NOT A COMPLIMENT!! That's like a white person saying "black people are SAVAGES, but not all of them." Don't ever let a negro piss on your leg and tell you it's just rain... Peace
Taye is a punk with this sockless ass. Go put on some socks negro. You don't care what anyone thinks and no one cares whether you care. Your wife is still ugly.
But I tell you what...don't pull an OJ Simpson or Henry Gates and try to come back to black people after those white folks hem your ass up. No matter how "in" he thinks he is, he will still be a n-gga to them. Nothing wrong with having white friends, but he better make sure he is "checking" the right people.
1. No one has been checking for Taye since "How Stella Got Her Groove Back".
2. I WILL NOT support any of his future projects.
3. There is clearly an agenda to tear down the black family unit even further. Only FOOLS and SELLOUTS will fall for it. So let the fools GO, but DON'T come running back home when the sh*t hits the fan.
*** I could always tell that Taye was more than just "in love" with her. He's an jerk and CLEARLY has ISSUES with black women. He forgot where he came from a LONG time ago. His mother should be ASHAMED. Weak watered down confused negro.
Countmein your argument is seriously off buddy…..Affirmative action was not created by Black Nationalism. The civil rights movement is the outcome of it, which wasn’t guided by a race based objective but an idea of universal human rights…. whatever affirmative action does, it does for EVERYONE (Humanity), not for race based interests….. Affirmative action is an effective method of checking white privilege so that nonwhites have an EQUAL opportunity to be considered for a job. (Hope your starting to understand now)
FYI Affirmative action is run by historically white-dominated institutions…. Same goes for NAACP (look it up) You said {"It is this particular belief that blacks cannot be racist that threatens to undue the real civil rights movement, as whites become oppressed for the benefit of a few}
That was pretty funny…..The fact that blacks can't be racist against whites is the consequence of the system in which we all live…..
To be perfectly honest the opposite of the claim is true. It’s the claim that blacks can be racist against whites that undermines the struggle for civil rights, because such a claim presumes a false definition of racism.
Nobody cares who that jiggaboo is dating and I agree with "nkreseknowledge" some IR couples want ppl to stare at them and make comments but who really gives a F@ck...personally I have never seen a sista get upset because a black man was with a white woman or any other woman...I mean seriously who the hell cares!
Taye Diggs needs to be ostracized for the recreant that he is to his race but it is his prerogative to marry a white women even if she is very very ugly at that. I'm sure I ain't see his career zooming cause he married a white woman so that should tell him something, his recreant ass i.e you still need the support of blacks to uplift your career, so betta watch what you say.
@nkreseknowledge:
I feel you... I'm starting to feel the same way about MTO. It's sickening. "Fred" clearly has absolutely NO integrity at least when it comes to his "urban" audience, and he is African -- well his last name is (prolly dating a white woman).
Lately I've gone back and forth about sticking around here because why support something that is so hellbent on destroying us? *sigh*
tennis, taye diggs dont owe you [EXPLETIVE]when you pay to see a movie, you pay and you get to see the movie, you get entertainment, its an exchange, he doesnt owe you [EXPLETIVE], unless you paid and didnt get to watch what you wanted,from now on you dont have to watch anything that he's on, he wont owe you [EXPLETIVE] just like he didnt owe you [EXPLETIVE] before, he never disrespected his mother and he never said all black women, you and black women like you are stupid and bitter, youve admitted to the bitter part maybe now youll see that you're also stupid
Ummmm... he's right. Just look at this thread. Dudes from WHATEVER race are not going to care who another dude is focking. Would white women REALLY say something about who another white girl is focking? They may look and stare but we ALL know our black women are MORE likely to have an opinion and roll their neck at a black dude dating a Becky no matter how unattractive the black guy is (not saying Taye is unattractive). Why are y'all acting like black women are quiet, meek, and accepting of interracial relationships LOLOLOLOL
Keep it real folks
SHECOMMENTARY, WESLEY SNIPES IS ANOTHER BLACK MAN WHO NEVER SAID ANYTHING REALLY THAT NEGATIVE ABOUT BLACK WOMEN, ALL WESLEY SAID IS THAT WHEN A MAN COMES FROM WORK, HE DOESNT WANT TO BE CHALLENGED BY A WOMAN, HE EVEN SAID HE UNDERSTOOD WHERE BLACK WOMAN'S ANGER COME FROM, YET BLACK WOMEN CELEBRATED WHEN WELSEY WAS SENTENCED TO PRISON, BLACK WOMEN LIKE YOU ARE TRASH MENTALLY AND MAKE A GOOD CASE FOR BLACK MEN DATING MORE WOMEN OF DIFFERENT RACES
WHEN BLACK WOMEN REALLY START NOT GIVING A [EXPLETIVE] ABOUT INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIPS, WE WILL STOP CALLING YOU BITTER, WHEN YOU STOP MAKING UP [EXPLETIVE] ABOUT BLACK MEN LIKE TAYE DIGGS AND WELSEY SNIPES, AND NEXT TIME MTO POST AN INTERRACIAL COUPLE, DONT GET ANGRY, STOP BEING INSECURE,WE WILL THEN STOP CALLING YOU BITTER
SHECOMMENTARY, EVERYTIME I THINK YOU CANT GET ANY DUMBER YOU KEEP PROVING ME WRONG, I HAVENT MADE ONE COMMENT ABOUT BLACK WOMEN DATING WHITE MEN, YOU KNOW WHY? BECAUSE I DONT GIVE A [EXPLETIVE], LOOK AT THE COMMENTS ON THIS SITE, NOW TELL ME WHOS BITTER, TAYE DIGGS COMMENTS WERE NOT TOWARDS ALL BLACK WOMEN, YOURE IGNORANT AND NO MAN SHOULD WIFE A DUMB WOMAN LIKE YOU, BLACK OR WHITE, YOU SAYING THAT ALL BM/WW REALTIONSHIP ARE THE SAME, AND YOU KEEP GIVING ALOT OF DETAILS ON HOW THEY ARE, AND ALSO A LOT OF RESENTMENT TOWARDS WHITE WOMEN, CALLING THEM HOES.. YOU ARE BITTER
MTO IT AMAZES ME HOW YOU CONTINUE TO FIND AND POST SO MANY NAGATIVE COMMENTS, ARTICLES, AND STATEMENTS ABOUT BLACK WOMEN. HOW THE MOST DEGRADING AND HURTFUL COMMENTS ARE THE FIRST YOU READ AND TRANSFER SUCH HATE AND NEEGATIVITY TO OTHERS ABOUT BLACK WOMEN. YOU HAVE CONTROL YET YOU ALLOW AND OBVIOUSLY ENJOY THE NASTYNESS AND HATRED SPEWED OUT ON YOUR SITE. I'M SURE YOU WOULD ARGUE FREEDOM OF SPEECH. AND IF SO CAN THE KKK POP IN A FEW BANNERS AND ADS JUST FOR LAUGHS?DO YOU SLEEP GOOD AT NIGHT? OR HAS THE ALL MIGHTY DOLLAR WON OUT OVER GOOD JUDGEMENT AND DECENCY?
MTO IT AMAZES ME HOW YOU CONTINUE TO FIND AND POST SO MANY NEGATIVE COMMENTS, ARTICLES, AND STATEMENTS ABOUT BLACK WOMEN. HOW THE MOST DEGRADING AND HURTFUL COMMENTS ARE THE FIRST YOU READ AND TRANSFER SUCH HATE AND NEGATIVITY TO OTHERS ABOUT BLACK WOMEN. YOU HAVE CONTROL YET YOU ALLOW AND OBVIOUSLY ENJOY THE NASTINESS AND HATRED SPEWED OUT ON YOUR SITE. I'M SURE YOU WOULD ARGUE FREEDOM OF SPEECH. AND IF SO CAN THE KKK POP IN A FEW BANNERS AND ADS JUST FOR LAUGHS? DO YOU SLEEP GOOD AT NIGHT? OR HAS THE ALL MIGHTY DOLLAR WON OUT OVER GOOD JUDGMENT AND DECENCY?
Date who u wanna date and stfu if you are happy with your partner than anybody else opinion is irrelevant! If your relationship is all for the correct reasons and not in vain there should be nothing to worry about! But Taye smh you probably should of kept your opinion behind closed doors with because your philosophy is in the hands of journalist who are fully aware that controversy sales!
FABULOUSSWEETIE DO YOU SEE TAYE DISRESPECTING HIS MOTHER FROM HIS COMMENTS, DO YOU SEE HIM TALKING ABOUT ALL BLACK WOMEN, ITS THE LEAPS AND REACHES THAT THESE INSECURE BLACK WOMEN MAKE AND IF GOD FORBID SOMETHING HORRIBLE HAPPENDED TO TAYE TOMMOROW, THESE WOMEN WOULD CELEBRATE, THEY ARE RETARDED AND SICK IN THE HEAD WHEN IT COMES TO INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIPS
This ol' black monkey looking ass negro needs to stop! man please...! black women can and will do better than his short ass. His wife looks like along mule faced donkey! does anybody care that this half a man and what he does? he's whacked all around anyway? kiss my ass with all this brothas dissing the black queen as if she is only worth a penny and are all crack heads and unfit mothers. Black women were the first mothers and women of creation along with the black man.We taught other women how to be good mothers, women and take good care of family. Behind the black man was us first! now the brotha wants to have a memory loss?
As for Mr. Taye Diggs. He is a black man who has been with the same woman for 15 years.
He is taking care of his family. Nice to see that [EXPLETIVE] from a black man these days, especially after just reading that nonsense from The Dream.
I could care less if Idina is white or not. Why do you? I don't want him.
He seems like an intelligent man. He isn't a thug. He doesn't have 54554 baby mamas. He has a college degree. He has a steady acting career even with 2 failed TV shows.
Taye Diggs STAY working.
Also im quite sure ur wife has been disrespected by women of different races as well bcuz women in general are just catty. So please dont make it seem like black women r just out 2 get ur wife & humiliate her bcuz shes white. Like we r just inferior to this punk bytch. Plllleeeeeeeeze! Go on ahead. That shyt is 4 tha birds man.
This a little long but everyone should read this if you haven't already
It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister magazine by a Caucasian woman who requested a response from black men. I'm so glad she got what she asked for (and more) !!!
Dear Jamie:
I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers. I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Black female's attitudes about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan , Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes... I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know.
-Disgusted WhiteGirl, Somewhere in VA
RESPONSE Dear Jamie: I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl. Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta , Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful black men. I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy. The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls. Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful black men date white women. Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds , Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few. I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt , you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs. Read your history! It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during slavery.It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise! It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could never date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them. Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black women. I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the black woman has.
BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I am looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill. No offense taken,none given.
Signed,
Black Royalty
Couldve said it better myself @deshunda24... I'm glad he gave that trailer trash the answer she was looking for... Cuz in the end whatever "brother" she's with, she gone drain his ass dry and when he has no money left, she's going to kill him for his life insurance money... Dumb negro, her granddaddy probably hung yo daddy! Um not racist but these damn white women r getting to bold...
im black and ive dated all black women my whole life and now i have a white wife who ive been with for 3 years black women do stare and make little comments really bad down here in the south i dnt just like white women i like who i like i dnt do that [EXPLETIVE] when i see a white man with a black women its there buisness i just wish people would grow up an get a life where all sisters and brothers in gods eyes anybody that is against ir dating because of color is racist and need to worried about what god thinks about them instead of being worried about people that dont even know
