: MediaTakeOut.com has been chronicling the divorce drama of NBA superstar Dwyane Wade and his ex Siovaughn. And we have to say - this story should serve as a LESSON to all of us. Sometimes it’s better to just LET GO . . . and move on.
For the last TWO YEARS Siovaughn has been doing EVERYTHING in her power to try and get back at her baller hubby for asking to get a divorce. She's accused him of CHEATING on her with actress Gabrielle Union (a claim which MediaTakeOut.com investigated and learned is FALSE). She's accused Dwyane of ABUSING her and their children (a claim that the court determined was UNTRUE). And she's accused Dwyane of giving her an STD (a claim that both doctors and her best friend say is FALSE).
Now we can ALL understand wanting to get back at a man after he LEAVES YOU, but you gotta be smart about it. In the process of levying all these claims against Dwyane, Siovaughn may have ended up losing the most important thing to her – her CHILDREN.
Yesterday, a Chicago judge awarded temporary custody of their two sons to DWYANE. Meaning that - for now - Siovaughn can not see her children without COURT PERMISSION. The judge explained, "The Court is troubled by the continuing pattern of (Siohvaughn Wade) to obey court orders when they go her way and disobey court orders when they do not.”
Now remember, before Siouvaughn started trying to DESTROY Dwyane - dude was only asking for JOINT custody.
If anyone of you MTOers is friends with Siouvaughn you need o sit her down and tell her that it’s time to walk away . . . before its too late.
iI HAD A FRIEND WHO TRIED TO DO THIS TO HER HUSBAND, SHAME. WE R NO LONGER FRIENDS BECAUSE OF IT. I KNOW AL TYPE OF WOMEN CAN BE TRIFLING, BUT SISTAS PLEASE, WE GOTTA DO BETTER. MY EX FRIENDS WAS TRYING TO DESTROY HER EX HUSBANDS AND THEIR CHILDREN RELATIONSHIP, SHE LIED AND SAID HE ABUSED THEM TOO. ALL BECAUSE HE DIDNT WANT HER. WHERE IS THE PRIDE? COME ON SISTAS, WE GOTTA DO BETTER. THIS BYTCH DESERVE WHAT SHE GOT.
This just shows how immature and crazy she is.
She'll cease with all of the nonsense only if she wants to.This being something I doubt considering what has already transpired.
Dwayne should definitely be awarded primary custody.
A person as mentally immature as Siovaughn is not suitable to raise children.
Ughh I can't stand when women are like this.
a) beg your man to come back to you
b) act like Siovaughn and try to ruin him.
I'd act like it didn't phase me, I'm not going to let the guy know I "need" him and that I'm losing sleep over him. Siovaughn has obviously been losing sleep trying to think of ways to get at him. How immature.
If he doesn't want me why would I try and get him back?
Involving their kids in this is just foolish.
And she's so unattractive - obviously inside and out.
bdm- I don't think that DWade forgot about all that Siohvaugn and her mother did for him, the marriage just got off track. Very few marriages last forever, the Gore's are proof of that. Don't forget they were actually teenagers when they married. She need to let it go before she lose her kids for good. Move on with your life Siohvaughn and spend that money.
Well she's clearly 4 kinds of crazy...And I think she DROVE DWade away from her crazy ass..She better take the money and run..But some things you do/say, you can't take back...I don't blame her friend for keeping it real, dude is probably a good father and wifey was taking it WAY TOO FAR..She's getting just what she deserves!
PURE GHETONESS IN ITS REFINED FORM. I AM SO ANGERED BY WOMEN LIKE THIS COZ THEY GIVE SISTAS A
BAD REP AND NOW DW PROBABLY WONT EVEN WANNA PHUCK WITH A BLACK WOMAN EVER AGAIN. SHE IS
THE REASON Y MIKE HARRIS EXISTS. WHAT A PHUCKING BIICH!!!!!!!!!!!!!
PS. PARTY PARTY ALL DAY.......... SHOUT OUT 2 GA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The woman only lost her kids because she didn't show up for court...the judge is punishing her for her inability to keep her court date. This has nothing to do with the Gabby thing or anything else. If she would have showed up for court, she would have her kids right now. That is why this is TEMPORARY! The divorce proceeding didn't even start. This is why she is looking for a lawyer. The reason the lawyers don't wanna take her case because she has to pay a retainer because this is a high profile divorce. D.Wade has millions to pay for a legal team. His wife does not. MTO, tell the real story
It's sad how Black women can come on here and trash Siovaughn when dwayne's dumb a** hurt her and left her with the kids to start with. No one knows how she is feeling right now; Her family was tocken from her by a homewrecking whore. I just dont understand??
I like D Wade but let her have the kids he has enough money and resources to see his kids when he wants to he lives a great life NBA superstar dating Gabriell Union so Siovaughn should keep the kids to me
OK maybe she did go off the deep end on a relentless crusade to get back at her ex for leaving her, but that in no way makes her unfit as a mother just a little unstable in the head and scorned. Wade doesn't have time for his own children with his basketball career and party lifestyle plus Gabby said she doesn't want to be a mother anyway. Unless he wants Siovaughn to SNAP,CRACKLE and POP he had better let her keep her boys. 4u2.com
Let me quote Nelson from The Simpsons:
That's what that oogly, bitter bytch gets. Someone get the straitjacked and take her looney ass to the crazy house. Kids are better off without her craziness and bitterness.
Did anyone of you forget the key words in here are the CHILDREN. Who cares who he is seeing what she is trying to do (even thought it is wrong as hell) but these kids are not babies they are old enough to know and remember what is going on. Thats who I care about them. And to be honest with you I wouldnt want her around the kids either if she teaching father. Come on now. And if she did lose them because she didnt go to a court date that shows you there exactly what type of mother she was. I would have been the first person there at the hearing. Its just funny though she made all the other hearing to sue Gabby but didnt make a hearing for custody of her own kids. SMH
Another Black family destroyed...and we wonder why we are always 10 steps behind as a people. Why can't Black men and women get along without cheating on, beating, hurting, and messing up our childrens lives? Why can't we come to each other healthy and ready to do the work of building our communities together?
We really need a healing. A deep spiritual healing.
Concentrate on this sentence:
To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did!
When GOD takes something from your grasp, he's not punishing you, but merely, opening your hands to recieve something better.
Concentrate on this sentence:
The Will of GOD will never take you where the Grace of GOD will not protect you.
Retract: Did anyone of you forget the key words in here are the CHILDREN. Who cares who he is seeing and what she is doing (even though it wrong as hell) but these kids are not babies they are old enough to know and remember what is going on. Thats who I care about. And to be honest i wouldnt want her around the kids either if i discovered she was teaching them to lie on their father. Come on now be for real. Thats crazy. And if it is true she lost the kids because she missed a court date for a custody hearing that shows exactly what she whats important to here and what type of mother she really is. She can show up to court dates to sue Gabby but cant show up for a court date to get custody of her kids. SMH
MTO ya'll are full of shiit . LETS GET SOMETHING STRAUGHT : if Dwayne && Siouvaqhn are
NOT fully divorced : so if hes sleepinq around w/ Gabrielle Union , that is CHEATING!!!!
she may hav lost her kids for the moment buht lets not forqett shes qettinq HALF of tht niqqas
everythinq ANYWAYS!! NO PRENUP!!
Dwayne wont hav thoes kids for lonq . they've been livinq w/ there Siouvaqhn for almost 4years!
they arent jus qoinq 2pick up && chanqe schools tht fast! Dwayne has NO stable care or them --
hes qone doinq endorsements or traininq 90% of the time && they cant b left alone!
&& tht niqqa should b ashamed of himself . Siouvaqhns family took him in when he didnt hav a
shoebox to piss in && his crackhead momma left him outt on tha street w/a qarbaqe baq full of
@j3llz...if ur married but seperated that is not cheating...wade can have full custody of the kids and then split it with his mama....the judges cant argue with that..and as crazy as she is I highly doubt she will even get half of what he owns ....especially if she permanently loses the kids
maybelline cut the bullcrap....insensitive about what? so if she been with him for many yrs...she need 2 move on ...everything doesnt last forever...shes gotten 2 enjoy his money and fame she has 3 kids she neeed 2 just collect her check(if she gets the kids back) and do a rebound....but its gone be hard for her 2 find a man after all the crap she just pulled
OK maybe she did go off the deep end on a relentless crusade to get back at her ex for leaving her, but that in no way makes her unfit as a mother just a little unstable in the head and scorned
PROBABLY THE DUMBEST SHYTE I HAVE READ ON THIS BITCH 2 DATE!
HOW DA PHUCK CAN U BE A FIT MOTHER IF UR CRAZY
ANY CASE, DAT BITCH 4 KINDS OF CRAZY
THANK PHUCK SUM JUDGE HAD THE COURAGE TO GO AGAINST THE NORM
Judges have been known to rule in favor of the other parent when one is being completely unreasonable and difficult. This woman should be ashamed of herself for what she has been putting her kids through. And, if her behavior over the last yr or 2 is any indication of what she was like in their marriage, it is no wonder he left. Get your shit together, Siovaugh b.c right now you are acting like a crazy psycho bitch. He couldn't have been that good of a husband for you to be acting like this.
I know a lot of women just like this. They get married and have no life/identity outside of being a wife. She lost herself in him and now has absolutely no idea how to live w/o him. The judge is doing this as a wake up call to her. Hopefully, she will take it. If not, it is her own fault. She has completely gone off the deep in. No stable, loving mom would involve her children in this mess.
Let me start off by saying WOW!!! there are a lot of different opinions on here. First & foremost D. Wade has never forgot who he is or where he comes from. If you watched her interview she said that she got caught up in the lifestyle. He told heer that she was changing for the worse. They were apart for a long time before Gabby came into the picture. He did try to work it out with her but she got greedy and he said DUCES. He was with the kids more than she was and the part about her having a STD was true, he didnt have it. None of us were there, but dhe is being stupid. When you become ....
a mother your kids come first, and whats best for them. Like somebody said she got lost in his light and forgot who she was. It may not be easy but when you have kids you have to support them and not your own stupid habits. She deserves everything she gets for all of this BS.
HOW MTO NOW GONNA HAVE SYMPATHY FOR HER WHEN THEY WERE THE ONES THAT PUT HER ON BLAST EMBARASSING HER! AND STOP LYING YALL WERE THE FIRST ONES TO REPORT THE AFFAIR! YALL WERE ALWAYS DOING PHOTO COMPARISONS OF GABRIELLE AND HIS WIFE SAYING DWAYNE UPGRADED AND SHID...MTO WAS AN ADDITION TO THE EMOTIONAL DISTRESS SHE OBVIOUSLY WAS GOING THRU. POOR THING BROKE DOWN AND DIDNT KNOW HOW TO LET GO...ITS OBVIOUS SHE LOVED HIM VERY MUCH BECAUSE SHE RISKED FINANCIAL GAIN FROM HIM. LOVE CAN BE CRUEL AND VERY UNFAIR AND I HOPE IN THE NEAR FUTURE GOD HELPS AND ALLOW HER TO HEAL COMPLETELY AND FIND HAPPINESS
I'm so glad because it seems like she's missing a few screws. The problem is lack of pride in herself as a woman, if you know he's in the wrong don't stoop to his level be above that, especially if you have children looking at everything you do. Sometimes its not the best thing to award the mom custody because it might not be in the best interest of the children. I pray that the gets herself together, if its not for herself at least for her children.
black women black women get some knowledge of self and quit being like what you see on tv and the radio that goes for us brothas too lets stop the niggerish shit we doin man it ain't cute makes us look bad
@blackmmonroe I agree. I completely forgot about that. MTO was the first one spreading rumors that GU was sleeping with DW. So, I find it funny how they are trying to act like they didn't have shit to do with it now. Siovaughn better get her shit together before she lose her kids. PERIOD. And, unless you are a doctor who has tested somebody, you shouldn't be on the internet saying a person has as STD b/c I am 100% sure you have nothing to back up the claim.
I'm not justifying it but I see why Mike Harris scolds black women sometimes; we can be some dumbass/ignorant bxtches at times. You want to play the d.amn victim role because your husband is leaving you because YOU gave HIM a std and you had an affair with another man on HIM throughout your marriage? Bxtch Please!...get real. You're an unstable, ugly, low-life ass bxtch and you need your kids taken away. Get some help.
He'll has no furry then a women scorned, I fell bad for her she clearly destroyed by fame come on going from five star to two star is complicated. That's why she's behaving this loosing your comfort zone is not easy folks so. Don't pass judgement too quick cause obviously your nor in her shoes so give her the benefit of the doubt people .
Please. Dwayne and Siovaugh cheated on each other. Stop trying to put it all on one person. 'Oh, she cheated on him and that's why he left.' BS. They both had multiple partners. These two aren't innocent by a long shot. The only ppl I feel for are the kids. And, I was wondering how long it would take before somebody came in here judging all black women by this one woman. People are so ignorant. I guess you fell to mention the number of black women that leave black men. What is their reason? *eye roll*
I feel bad for the babies. Cause if they werent going through hell before the flood gates are about to bust open. We just pray that DWade takes this opportunity with his children and does whats best for them and put them first before he thinks about Gabby or his Ex-Wife.