EXCLUSIVE: Venus Williams ENGAGED!!!

: Congratulations are in order. MediaTakeOut.com has learned that over the weekend tennis superstar Venus Williams and her boyfriend of nearly a year, Hank Kuehne, got engaged.

Details of how it happened are still sketchy, but MediaTakeOut.com managed to confirm the engagement with one of Venus' family members. According to Venus' kin, the two lovebirds are trying to keep they're engagement quiet. The insider explained, "Venus is preparing for [the Australian Open] and she doesn't need the [media] distraction. But everyone is very happy - especially Venus."

We have to say, we're really happy for her too.

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cristaboo

TrinniJamacian
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Good for her....best of luck to both of them


RosyPosy
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wow...congrats


cristaboo
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Oh well Second! lol


cristaboo

mumu

ndhines
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They look cute together


Forever_Loved
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OK. I wish them the best


lovelygradstudent
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Good Morning!


eLSoFocused
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She looks like a man in a mini-skirt...He looks like he would take anything afro-american...


sonnydeejay
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who cares about this ugly troll


paperboy64
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gd luck to them...she looks gd in that pic too


aah0526
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Congrats. She's looking better these days too.


hercules98
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Good for her underrated athlete!



SoulPole
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Keep it up Black women!! Breed our race right into extinction!!


MommaPayne
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i need to get me a white man


loyalreadr21
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Can u say "meal ticket"?


marryd2nordstrom
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no one cares. please stop posting stuff about her and her gargantuan sister. so glad jackie left her.


ErlyByrd

ErlyByrd
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ummm (shrugs shoulders) congrats??


ladytee35
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Hope she gets a rock solid prenup.


stopit
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Umm...this is a lie.


skyy
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I BET MTO THA ONLY SITE REPORTING THIS PROBABLY BUZ ITS NOT TRUE!!! MTO NO WHAT TO DO TO KEEP MOTHAFUKHAS COMING BACK TO THIS RAGEDY ASS SITE TO RESPOND TO A COMMENT ESP WHEN RACE IS INVOLVED!!!!!!


pastorsinalot
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I love her so much, why did she cheat on me, wrong sista I like the one with the big behind www.GhettoTube.com <<< we keep it real


954allday
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PEOPLE ARE UP EARLY GETTING THAT MONEY THIS MORNING!! INVEST AT THEOPTIONSTER.COM


DC_REALEST
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babe girl...can u say PRE-NUP...hello


drrknlvly
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can u say PRE-NUP


OsoSEXI
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Thats so nice..congrats 2 her


poetical
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I can't buy this. Not true. Globaldatepages.com it's free



Loan_Until_Friday
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Wow she can do better than that A P P R O V E D Get it today


BENEVOLENT1
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Congrats Serena!!!


IcanPaint
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they look soo good together! mmm a bald man!


supersexychick
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Well MTO respect her privacy so she can whip some azz on that court Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


shlay85
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Damn, the White Boy movement is making a serious comeback. That being said, I got dibbs on Pete Wentz from Fall Out Boy. I love his eyeliner-wearing emo azz. LOL but seriously, he's sexy as f*ck to me. Do it, Venus.


shlay85
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Just to clarify, I don't think the dude in the pic is sexy at all (ugh). To each his/her own. I just love me some Pete Wentz.


touchthesky
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I wish them the best!!!


mrsjmurdock
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ElSoFocused, you are wrong for that!LMAO!!! They look happy, I wish them the best.... By the way, bald is sexy.


touchthesky
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shlay85, I thought i was the only black girl that thought Pete was hot!! Did you see the pics of his dick? mmmm. We gon have to fight!!!


Sexygirl904
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Congrats i'm happy for her.


weneedtostop
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Venus can't win. She gets dogged on for her looks by black folks, then when she gets a white man she gets double dogged. Either way, she looks happy. www.weneedtostop.com


HalfBreed
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Yall seen All bout The Benjamins right? Dude look like the dude Mike Epps and Cube had in the Shower clowin him sayin he got a 5 head and he dont have dreams he has Movies..Dude looks jus like him ....LOL


RudeGal
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DAMN SHE COULDN'T MARRY A BROTHA'! AT LEAST HER SISTA' ISN'T COLOR BLIND.


vidabida
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Wasn't this reported months ago?? Anyhoo, they look boring.


muscleman19
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GREEEEAAAAT!!! NEXT--------->



1_World_1_Man
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Somebody needs to love her ugly azz! LOL!


Thebestof07
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Love the dress.


17th_And_Peachtree
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I saw them walking into SILK on 8th and Peachtree, just the other day... Go figure, This is a NON-ISSUE.... NEXT ITEM OF BUSINESS..............


upsouthboy
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Thats real nice...


touchthesky
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why the fvck would she do that when they all talk sh1t about her. that white man prolly luvs him some brown shuga.


touchthesky
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oh my comment was 2RudeGal


DeeLaw123
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CONGRATULATIONS VENUS!!


DoubleJ
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If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all....NO COMMENT....I took my own advice....LOL


NCM
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lol@ shlay85...before you snap them up I got Adam Levine, James Marsden, Peter Fancinelli (after his divorce) and Orlando Bloom @SoulPole...our black men do it al the time, especially when they get a lil status and we do enough to our race to make us extinct anyway... CONGRATULATIONS TO THE HAPPY COUPLE...


lbankso
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it's a shame how some black people can't even embrace their own kind. I guess the only way she can be beautiful is if she lightened her skin and wore a blond weave...no wonder she dates white men. black men are to damn judgemental and full of self-hate. I don't blame her. at least she's happy.


TimeHater
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Congrats. They look nice together. May they be blessed with beautiful vanilla chocolate swirl babies.


SoulPole
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@Timehater...Good one.. or as George Jefferson would say..Zebras


punkin0404
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MTO, wasn't she supposed to be messing with Common?


I_got_this
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she looking good, do you venus I ain't even mad at cha! and why do black women get so mad when black men date out of their race? damn that shit ain't that serious, damn lbankso get your ass off that soap box


Japanesefood
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Good for her!!!congrats are in order. And, who cares about the difference in race. Get over it!! Where all mixed up anyway!!!



RIDEORDIE
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SHE LOOKS GREAT; LOVE THE NEW LOOK! Her man has money and is a professional golfer; money sticks with money; UNFORTUNATELY rich black guys don't want a sista... so what?? is she suppose to be alone the rest of her life?? NOT PEOPLE WHO WORK AT MCDONALD'S SHOULD BE WITH PEOPLE WHO WORK AT BURGER KING... less drama that way


sirdickery
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Chicken80
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@SOUTHPOLE THATS THE TYPE OF IGNORANCE THATS DIVIDE OUR RACES NOW. WHAT DIFFERENCE DOES IT MAKE IF HE WHITE GREEN OR PURPLE? AS LONG AS HE LOVES HER AND TREAT LIKE THE WOMAN SHE IS; WHY HATE? @Loan_Until_Friday WHY YOU FEEL SHE CAN DO BETTER? DO U PERSONALLY KNOW HIM AND KNOW HE'S A LOWLIFE OR U JUST DON'T THINK HE'S ATTRACTIVE. IF HE HAS EVERYTHING SHE WANTS AND FEEL HES GOOD ENOUGH FOR HER, THEN WHO CARES WHAT HE LOOKS LIKE.


Princess3808
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Brotha dont know a good thing...they feel there is something better out there. They alway want to play "games" So screw it you find a REAL MAN grab him up.


Bronze-Cookie
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Hmmm I'll have to see confirmation for this one!


SisterSallieWalker
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" I guess the only way she can be beautiful is if she lightened her skin and wore a blond weave...no wonder she dates white men. black men are to damn judgemental and full of self-hate." Thank YOU. You really can't blame her when you listen to how black men attack her femininty. She's been dealing with the insults from black men for a long time, and never ONCE, have I heard Venus Williams say anything disrespectful about a black man. In fact, she uplifts her father (who actually physically abused her mother Oracene) in the media all the time. She speaks nothing but glowing things about him, and gives him basically all the credit for her successes. I remember one year at Wimbledon, there where black men int the stands, rooting against Venus LOUDLY when she played some bony white chick.. I was there, I heard and saw them for myself. As loud as they were, a group of white men sitting in front of me where even LOUDER in their support for Venus Williams.. I couldn't do anything but smile at that, they were fiercely cheering the sister on (and she did NOT disappoint, honey). If she is engaged, good for her, and I doubt she'll need a prenup... as it is black men who marry "others" who end up getting sent to the poor house... Jean Strahan ring a bell??? Yeah.. I thought she would.


HalfBreed
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@almighty-mouth Well said....I feel the same way....One Luv


boyshorts28
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I hope she makes him sign a prenup because he doesnt have money like her. Congrats


smtchcose
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Congrats, they look truly happy! I am A Sex Addict. I am american, 26, very nice. A friend on the net tells me:"You are too hot!" I met many great men on interracialloving.com - diversely ethnic singles build lasting interracial relationships. . I also uploads many my hot photos there. My username is xhot. Feel free to chat with me.


SoulPole
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@Chickenhead80.." @SOUTHPOLE THATS THE TYPE OF IGNORANCE THATS DIVIDE OUR RACES NOW. WHAT DIFFERENCE DOES IT MAKE IF HE WHITE GREEN OR PURPLE? AS LONG AS HE LOVES HER AND TREAT LIKE THE WOMAN SHE IS; WHY HATE?" Yes it does make a difference! Blacks for Blacks, whites for whites, Mexicans for Mexicans..you get the point, or do you? Im so sick of you SELLOUT SISTERS that want to blame the black man for you longing for white d ick..But the good thing about interracial dating is, when it's time to chose sides in a race war, you have already made your choice.. So negroes like you will be collateral damage. .......................... @ NCM.. Two wrongs don't make it right..Come better than that sister..


Bronx_Representative
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Is she trying to give Richard Williams a heart attack? I still laugh when Richard called Lindsay Davenport "a big white turkey".


Bronze-Cookie
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WOW why do people care who she's fcking?


COBonner
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I am sooooooooo sure he'd marry her if she was an average Black woman minus the fame and guap! Halle, and Venus your are credit to your race!


lashonj
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You people are so STUPID to post your REAL pic on here!!!! LMFAO!!!!


mera1981
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congrats by why does her breast look long .luv any waY



djjay
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LMAO @ eLSoFocused


COBonner
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Soul Pole it's pointless to argue with pathetic black women who hate being black.


Unlocked77

fatalNsexy
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CONGRADULATION...!!!!!


DubR
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@ SoulPole AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!


esotericdredz
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Man I am sick of the hypocritical bullshyt. If you sistas want to be like Venus and get yourself a geeky, Revenge of the Nerds looking white boy then do you and take your ass on, but do NOT sit here and blame black men as your reason for doing so. Black women have this whole "Get a White boy" campaign going on in the media and bash brothas as their reason for "having" to do so...If you are secure in yours, then don't justify it, and dont throw men who look like your father under the bus in doing so... Then the same sistas have the nerve to turn around and torch a black man for dating anything other than a black woman. Double standards are what's ignorant!


mistyblue
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That's nice to know. I wish them both well.


DubR
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IF SHE WASN'T RICH SHE AND HE CAME ACROSS HER WORKING A REGULAR 9-5 HE WOULD BE CALLING HER ALL TYPES ON NYGGZ SO FOR ALL U CONGADULATING THE LOSS OF ANOTHER RICH BLACK PERSON SWITCHING SIDES REALIZE THE PRIZE IS IN UNDERSTANDING ONES SELF B4 LOVIN THE SLAVE MASTERS


VicSage

nattiwks
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Congratulations!!! I'm very happy for her!


TimeHater
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I'm loving how people get mad at her for being with a white dude. Relax, breathe, walk around the block and get a sip of water. Venus is just one person. A transexual none the less, but she is still one person. No need for the diatribes on interracial relationships.


KiWi84
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What damn difference does it make what race you date as long as both parties are happy. And I am not that female that was hurt by a black man and can't stand them now, b4 n/e 1 jumps to that conclusion. I just feel as though this day and age we can date who we want. White men have been sleeping with black women since we were slaves (rape), and u r crazy if you think they only did it b/c it hurt them, they did it b/c that was the only way they could justify sleeping with a black woman w/out being punished for it. They wanted us then and they want us now. Hell r us same people talking about Halle B and he white baby daddy (bd), b/c you do know that her dad is black and her mom is white. Love who you love, hell I would date outside of my race to if they made me happy. When will race stop being an issue? Sorry for the misspelling in advanced. :)


lala_buddy
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Good for her! I hope he's not gay.


princessdani
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Aww congratulations!


SisterSallieWalker
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Quote - "Is she trying to give Richard Williams a heart attack?" Venus Ebony Starr loves her daddy... she's a real daddy's girl in fact. But, she's been greatly put off by black men, yet, never speaks ill of them. I mean, Richard broke her mom's ribs at one point, was beating the woman up during the marriage. Then her sister Yetunde was stupidly in a relationship with a black man that pretty much ushered her to her death. Black men are just too aimless, reckless and violent. Too troubled and unstable. Black women have to look elsewhere if they want to stay safe.. and sane in a relationship. Richard Williams isn't raising a stink about her being with a white man, he knows first hand what his daughter would be dealing with if she messed up and got with some LaDonta DaeQuan or Travon LaVontay character... LOL.



UKNOWUAINTRIGHT
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Awww She looks great on this picture. That is one of the best photos she has ever taken. Thats terrific that she found someone to love her and that wants to marry her. She looks really happy.


sthrncal
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I thought she was with Jackie Long last year let MTO tell it now she's been with this guy for a year?


SoulPole
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@SisterSallieWalker.. BITCH PLEASE!! "Black women have to look elsewhere if they want to stay safe.. and sane in a relationship." If you consider running into the arms of of the rapist white man is safety, more power to you! Some Black women are sooooo f ucking stupid!


cannon846
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princessdani cute baby awww..and mommy got them big azz gorgeous dimples to die for give me them dimples girl.....congrats to venus and ole' boy ...but venus please make sure if u marry dude get a prenup..don't trustttt noooobody


dropdead71
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All wrong as usual.....I looked at this pic and made an awful sound that has no name....


dropdead71
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All that dough and she has to use it on a white man....what a shame.


liquid_isis
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If this story is true then congratulations Venus. She obtained a college degree now she about to get married . Ladies you need to take notes.


ISIS
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@Sonnydeejay, you are wrong , I feel the same way about you ugly troll. congratulations if this is true I guess all our brothers have taken all the white women so here we go


blackdaddy1696
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THAT WHITE BOY IS GOING TO K FED HER ASS AND TAKE HER FOR EVERYTHING SHES GOT! ILL GIVE THEM 3 YEARS UNTIL THEY SPLIT AND THEY ARE IN COURT DUKING IT OUT!


Royal_Princess
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ALL i WANT 2 KNO iS WHERE iS Sexymom<<<<<< Sexymom<<<<<< Sexymom<<<<<< Sexymom<<<<<< Sexymom<<<<<< Sexymom<<<<<< Sexymom<<<<<< CUZ SHE WROTE SOMETHING ABOUT ME ON THE FERGIE RING BLOq && iVE NEVER SAW HER ON HERE EVERY SENSE....PLZ SHOW UP ON HERE LOL PLZ DO!


OsoSEXI
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HEEEEEY BLACK DADDY!!!!


DatDamnVIRGO
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Damn please TELL ME she not that DESPERATE! He is busted and it looks like he is deranged.


sk8key
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sistas always tryna go after these white boys. she'll be back


esotericdredz
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@ sisterwalliewalker "Black men are just too aimless, reckless and violent. Too troubled and unstable. Black women have to look elsewhere if they want to stay safe.. and sane in a relationship." You CAN'T be serious with this?!?! So Scott Peterson was safe and sane when he killed his wife? Dr. Richard Sharpe, the crossdressing white doctor from Massachusetts who killed his wife was safe and sane? Neil Enwhistle, James Keown, the list goes on and on and on...White men are the FIRST ones to make their wives go missing, so kill that noise... Its a fcuking shame that black women have so thrown black men under the bus that you will run us down like this to justify being with Chad and Charlie. As I said, if that's what you want, do you, but do NOT disrespect men who look like your father in the process....


latinatexxas
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i dont blame her be with who u want who needs all the drama i would be with whatever color i want as long as there is no drama



B-Esq
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I WISH THEM ALL THE BEST. VENUS' ATTORNEY HAS TO MAKE SURE THAT THERE IS A SOLID PRE-NUPTUAL AGREEMENT. SHOULD THEY DIVORCE FOR WHATEVER REASON, HE RECEIVES NO MORE THAN 2 MILLION DOLLARS. THIS MAN IS ALREADY DIVORCED WITH ONE OR TWO CHILDREN. HE'S LOOKING FOR A MONEY MAKER.


blackdaddy1696
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OsoSEXI HEEEEY BABY GOOD TO HAVE U BACK! LOL


Florida_Chick
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congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


SisterSallieWalker
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Quote- "sistas always tryna go after these white boys. she'll be back" Hmmmmmmm... don't think so. Venus has always preferred white men. Whenever I've seen her out with a past boyfriend, he's been white. She won't "be back", because she never was "there" in the first place.. overstand?? *snickering*


spatemag
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I thought she was dating that actor from ATL?


buttaricanmami
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Great! Hope it lasts!


macalac
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He looks like he's a very nice and respectful man. She probably can't find a decent black man because she is very brown skinned and seems to consistently pronounce her words correctly with very good speach. So leave her a lone and go find a white woman. Nothing wrong with that either. A Black man will tear u down for dating and white man and then call you too black. They just want you dead or something! LOL. Like the white man who don't want to see a brotha working in an investment firm, but talks about him and sends him to prison for robbing and stealing to make ends meet. Besides, always see her in the Riviera in Italy on the beach with those Italian dudes. It is unfair and a sin in front of God for a black man to expect ANY WOMAN on the face of the planet to overlooks a fine Italian man to be rejected by some black-ass broke-ass African. I looooove my Black men, but a good one that actually has feelings is soooo few and far between. You can't afford to be like that with7.999 billion other people on the face of the planet.


realwoman
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Wow this is interesting..I have scanned the whole convo and have YET to see the regulars who are always in the BM/WW posts spewing WE ARE THE WORLD..why are they so quick to jump in and defend interracial relationships then but MIA in this one? hahaha... ESOTERICDREDZ?!?!?!?! I am alll confused now. Aren't you usually the one defending interracial relationships when it is a WHITE WOMAN AND BLACK MAN???? You stay doing it even when there are Black men in there hating on Black females... BTW, don't let that fool Sisterwalliewalker fool yuh...MOST intelligent Black women would NEVER pigeon hole all Black men into the negative media driven stereotypes that 'they' want you to buy. She prolly isn't even BLACK.


ke2thecity
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good for her...everyone deserves a someone


Chicken80
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@SOUTHPOLE. I LOVE BEING BLACK AND WOULDN'T HAVE NO OTHER WAY AND I LOVE MY BLACK HUSBAND WHOM I'VE BEEN WITH FOR SIX YEARS AND RUNNING. BUT I DON'T SEE NOTHING WRONG WITH INTERRACIAL DATING. BUT THE POINT I'M TRYING TO MAKE IF SHE LOVES HIM WHAT DIFFERENCE DOES IT MAKE IF HE WHITE. YOU DON'T KNOW IF SHE EVER DATED A BLACK MAN OR WHAT BUT IF A WHITE MAN THAT SHE FELL IN LOVE WITH THEN SO BE IT.


lady_b4u2
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Venus actually looks really good for a change. I'm glad she's found love!!!


pleazures
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Life is toooo short to be unhappy. As long as she is happy; that is all that matters.


Chicken80
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@COBonner IF YOU LITTLE IGNORANT A$$ COMMENT WAS DIRECTED AT ME. I LOVE BEING BLACK AND MY BLACK HUSBAND. BUT I DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH SEEING BLACK AND WHITE PEOPLE TOGETHER. I'VE NEVER DATED A WHITE MAN AAND DON'T PLAN ON IT. BUT I COULD CARE LESS IF A SISTER DATES ONE, THAT DON'T MEAN SHE HATES HER SKIN OR HER RACE.


afro-bella
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Macalac ... EXACTLY!!! (Except for that whole Italian dude part) LOL And I'm NOT gonna name call, but there is a certain poster here who has stated how much he prefers lighter skinned black women over darker sistas. However, he is sitting here having a tantrum over Venus dating a white dude, talk about HYPOCRITICAL!


valpak
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as long as he treats her right, it doesn't matter what color he is



esotericdredz
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@ Realwoman, I have been consistent in saying that I, personally, have no issue whatsoever with people dating whomever they want to date. I have an issue with people..black men and women, who seek to throw other black people under the bus in order to justify their dating choices. And it seems like every time you turn around, sistas are bashing black men as a reason why they "have" to date white men. Its not the dating that bothers me, its the putting down of ourselves to do it. If a person dates interracially and still remains committed to doing positive things in the community, and remembers who they are, then kool in the gang. And as for what other black men were or have said, I cant be responsible for that. I am only bound by my personal view. And yes, the over the top pigeon holing, which is contrary to reality, is what p*ssed me off...


afro-bella
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Don't even entertain cobonner and his ilk. He's using Halle an example however she's mulatto (and not b/c she has black mother). It's like the dummies who were angry about Paula Patton and Robin Thicke meanwhile Paula, like Halle, has a white mom. I wonder if these "brothas" are as pi$$ed at Halle & Paula's daddies as they are at Venus. BTW CBoner My best friend is married to a white guy, you don't know her b/c she ISN'T famous dummy!


ReggieBushGurl87
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CONGRATS BUT THIS STORY IS NOT EXCLUSIVE.


HipHopizMe
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Knew she would marry white www.theconcretejournal.com


Loveyoulikecookfood
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Congrats they are a nice looking couple..... Ladies it's time for us to step outside the black box. I read a report the 70% of all African American women are single... Hmmmm


anointedcam11
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who cares if she marry white black spanish...if shes happy...shes happyy...leave it be..arrying a white man doesn't make her choosing white over blacks.. soulpole: why does it gotta be a race war??? and a sellout for marry white? we all come from africa...whites are african too...they just lighter lol


SisterSallieWalker
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@ realwoman UUhhh... that would be "SisterSALLIEWalker to you.. you dumbazz. And exactly what would your groveling, matted weave wearin'azz know about "Most Intelligent black women"... ??? And all those "negative media driven sterotypes" about black men have been for the most part, SELF-INFLICTED. Get up and off of playing that blaming black men's poor image on the "white media" card. Nobody is making these negores cut the fool they do. You can't keep acting a PLUM azz fool before the world, and expect not to be sterotyped. Black men are just receiving the fruits of their labour, lol.


Foxyfeline
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Congrats! Nuff love, Foxy Feline


SisterSallieWalker
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Good post hotbunny.


NCM
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@ SoulPole- I wasn't saying two wrongs make a right. I just wanted to see if you were biased on the situation, that's all.


sk8key
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why is it that when black women date white boys, you women wanna support and congratulate, but when a brotha has a white chick, all you women do is hate and disrespect him? sounds a bit one-sided to me. it's that hypocritical attitude that drives some cats to white broads in the first place. but not me though.


realwoman
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SisterSallieMae...you are just a lost one..I wonder should I waste my time on you. Maybe one more response and then I am done. The same way you mistakenly assumed I must wear a 'matted weave' because of the STEREOTYPE that all Black women look and act like New York is the same way you are mistaken about most of my brothers. This erroneous assumption is proof of your ignorance and lack of intelligence. Educate yourself on what the AVERAGE Black person looks and acts like then come again. Esoteric if you handle the few idiot Black men that make excuses as to why they date white I will handle the Black women who do the same? Deal? lmao


plug
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she think she white anyway. get that money my brother


KEEL
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@SOULPOLE "OUR BLACK MEN, HAVE SNOW-BUNNY-ITIS. SO, I'D SAY THEY ARE BREEDING WITH THE PASTIES MORE THAN BLACK WOMEN AND THEY ARE BREEDING US INTO EXTINCTION WAY MORE THAN WE EVER COULD!!


darkman
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it seems like sallie walker has issues i think she had been in abusive relationships with black men and takes it out on all black men.. yeah there are some brothers who are violent, thuggish and aimless.... also there are black men who are professional, take care of thier women and families and work. im no thug,, i don't use drugs never been to jail don't have a crinimal record so im a prime example of a good black man hehe



SoulPole
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@NCM..I try not to by hypocritical.. Btw..nice legs, but I guess only a white dude would really know..


darkman
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that right hank get that money lol


SoulPole
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@KEEL.. Some brothas have Becky-itis..not all. What I have a problem with, is the fact the some black women go out of their way to belittle the black man! In essence, because of the elevation of the black woman in corporate America she has been charged with the continued oppresion and mental castration of the black man! A role that clearly alot of Black women take pleasure in!


brewam
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I WISH THEM THE BEST IN LIFE


BOBOKEYS
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I can't blame her. Like Whoopie Goldberg, only a white guy would want her monkey azz.


Nevagan
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Git dat muney main....


NCM
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@SoulPole...Thanks, but dont jump the gun babycakes. I love black men. I dont discriminate because of race tho...*wink* I don't see color, we all human. But I understand your and others points. I was just raised differently.


KEEL
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@SoulPole WELL SAID. BUT I BELIEVE IN UPLIFTING A TRUE BROTHA AND IN HIM UPLIFTING A SISTA LIKE ME UP TOO.


rickdub68
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Whats up with all the celebs sisters and brothers going outside the race. Share the wealth and LOVE:)


lattho

FLYgal
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spell check !!


husak3993
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That's not a good look at all...


chubbyamazonho
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DID YALL SEE HER SISTER'S BOYFRIEND?? HE IS FINE AS HELL!!!


chubbyamazonho
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IS THIS MAN WHITE??


remy
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I see trouble ahead, and it doesn't take a psychic reading to figure out that this marriage won't end well (if it even happens)



Maria121
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Keep it up Black women!! Breed our race right into extinction!! Now thats a good one SoulPole. I like that. But aren't black men doing the same thing. But anyway, 1% of black blood still makes a black person black even if 99% is white blood. Because black genes domiate. Therefore the black race will never enter into extinction. Thank God


esotericdredz
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@ SoulPole, exactly. When I look at this whole agenda pushed by the mainstream media (and we know who runs that), it does seem like a lot of professional black women (not all) have drank the kool-aid and joined in with the system to further destroy the image of black men, treating college educated brothers who have it together like they dont exist and further perpetuating stereotypes against brothers as a whole. That has got to stop! @ realwoman, I hear you, you got a deal...lol


UKNOWUAINTRIGHT
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Venus a black women with some sense. LOL @ Yall trying to talk about what dominates. Black women got to do what they got to do. A LOT of Black men belittle themselves. Don't nobody have to do that for them.


ATL_KIWI
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Benevolent1 or whoever! They said Venus not Serena honey. Pay attention.


UKNOWUAINTRIGHT
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LOL@Sistersallie You not stating nothing but the truth. The Conspiracy theory azz negroes get on my last nerves; never want to take responsibility for anything always trying to blame somebody.


mypleasure
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She looks cute in the picture.


BENEVOLENT1
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Thanks ATL-KIWI for bringing that to my attention....Congrats Venus for the engagement & Congrats are in order to KIWI for completing The Hooked ON Phonics, that I bought her last year for christmas!!! Leave me alone<-----In my Lil Darryl voice....GG


Maria121
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Plus Jewish men love black women... had to add that in there


witfame

dimills
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Awww congratulations, I hope the both of them have a peaceful life together. Get it Venus. www.myspace.com/dimills


BigSwole
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thats whats up! good luck to them


detroitgirl
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That's good!!!


mabeline
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To each his own. To pimp or not be pimped. Whichever one applies, one thing for sure SHE'LL BE ALRIGHT


moonbeams
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I think it is said that so many black women regurgitate media dribble like trained rabbits. Whenever you see a black women with a white man, the justifications are not to far behind. They are usually a mix of dubious statistics and self-hating black-male bashing banter. At the end of the day, the sad truth remains, black people -men and women - are STILL suffering in large numbers from colonized minds.


TheVH1Insider
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REST IN PEACE New York, You will be missed on Reality TV. Left to mourne are 1) thousands of chickenheads all across the country that look up to you. 2) Dozens of starving actors willing to risk touching you to boost their career 3) Mac Make Up 4) 99 cent store weave and eyelash counter 5) Your Momma (Now how’s she gone get money) 6) Your Boobs (You know they’ll be around long after your body rots) 7) The Pharmaceutical companies (Whos gonna buy 75% of their herpes meds? 8 ) Every man that has been on lock down more that 10 years 9) Your clientelle on the corner of Hollywood Blvd and Sell your soul Street. 10) Vh 1 ….. oh wait… I think they can find another you. Any one seen Bootz?



UKNOWUAINTRIGHT
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LOL@MARIA A whole lot of races love black women. With the exception of the black one of the few races that doesn't show love to their own extremely loyal women.


maizeandblue
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ISn't he supposed to a golfer?


moonbeams
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@ kcrusaders1 - I don't ever remember Venus having a black boyfriend. Serena has dated black men. But all of Venus's boyfriends have been white from what I have seen over the years. It is obvious that she has some issues with her black identity. I have been around white men all my life. Actually, more white men have approached me than black men. However, I have never had the desire to date them. There is usually some underlying issue that motivates a person of any race to exclusively date outside of his/her race. And it has nothing to do with "attraction." It's deeper than that.


600pounds
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If and I say If this is true, then congrats to them. If it's love, it's love. And who cares about interracial relationships, people will live their life the way they want to.


BoogyBlack
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Congrats to Venus!!!!


moonbeams
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He's a low-rate golfer. He didn't earn any money in 2007 and only earned $24,000 in 2006. He's been pro since 1999, but his lifetime earnings are about $2.6 mil. So he is typical of what most famous black women get when they pair up with white men, a bum.


Howardclt
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Well congrats would be in order for Venus. I hope that she has a good atty. with and even better pre-nup! ----- life is short be happy... do better... take what u can, keep what u got... always be better than good.---------------


tjscrib
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Who dat wite craker she be hangin on??


kgrady01
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All sistas deserve happiness no matter what color it comes in. So stop haten


10-UH-C

focus
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Someone fulfilled her needs and she deserves it. No matter what color he is.


ReddzBadBidness
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SoulPole Keep it up Black women!! Breed our race right into extinction!! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ unfortunately this is SO NOT TRUE!! for some odd reason us black women are more reluctant to date outside of our race, we will take all the b.s from our brothers only to be treated SECOND CLASS?!?! I think yall brothas need to get it togeather and leave the "I'll conquer EVERTYTHING mentality alone" in trying to conquer it all yall have conquered NOTHING!! <<<<CONGRATS VENUS>>>


STAYPOPPIN01
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Congrats to them! The statistics are just as many black women date oustide their race as black men once they get some money. Black men just catch more flack!


JAE_RO
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Alright..Let's get some things straight here people. First thing: No black man on earth needs to be bashing Venus for dating a white/Italian man. Cause let me tell you something. I promise you there are QUADRUPLE the amount of black men dating white women, and all of a sudden, it's ok, right? and "Oh, it's love, who cares what race she is!, and black women this and black women that, stop hatin etc, etc." That's Bullsh*t. You think it's alright for a man to do it, but if a black woman does it, oh heaven forbid. Get off your Got damn high horse and let people date whoever the hell they want. If it's ok for one, it's ok for the other one. Second: I am an African American Lady and I talk to whoever the hell I please and who treats me right. I have dately mostly black men and yea most of them have been retarded but in NO SHAPE OR FORM am I assuming that all black men act the same. So if you are thinking all black women down black men, you need to think again. Maybe you are just a little insecure and defensive. Instead of thinking black women have a problem maybe you need to worry about your damn self and DO YOU. I don't like seeing all these black dudes with white women, but sh*t what can I do? Not a damn thang. Just worry about what I'm doin and let other people do them. It don't concern me. Hell yea it hurts when black men make it to the top and all of a sudden a black woman aint good enough anymore? Yal ni*gas wanna talk about that? I didn't think so. Stop worrying about black women dating white men and "doggin" black men out. You just take care of your damn self and NOBODY will have nothin to say about you.


WakeUpCall
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all i have to say is get a good lawyer to draw up a pre-nup. we wouldn't want to see you end up like michael strayhand, giving up over half



BigBootyBoy_Fan
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REST IN PEACE New York, You will be missed on Reality TV. Left to mourne are 1) thousands of chickenheads all across the country that look up to you. 2) Dozens of starving actors willing to risk touching you to boost their career 3) Mac Make Up 4) 99 cent store weave and eyelash counter 5) Your Momma (Now how’s she gone get money) 6) Your Boobs (You know they’ll be around long after your body rots) 7) The Pharmaceutical companies (Whos gonna buy 75% of their herpes meds? 8 ) Every man that has been on lock down more that 10 years 9) Your clientelle on the corner of Hollywood Blvd and Sell your soul Street. 10) Vh 1 ….. oh wait… I think they can find another you. Any one seen Bootz? 11) Big Booty Boy, you know his implants are modeled after your titties Anyone wanna add to NY's eulogy list just copy, paste and add a number :)


JmaicnLvr19
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I had a Huge crush on Venus Williams growing up. She's a beautiful, statuesque, classy woman. It's always sad when I hear people dogging her, especially people of her own race. She's done a great job representing herself and her race in a predominantly white sport and at the very least she deserves respect. I'm not saying everyone should find her attractive, I'm just saying respect her because she's a respectable person. For those of you who don't follow tennis, the Williams' have endured A LOT in the way of bad press, hateful fans, booing at their matches. It hasn't been easy for them but they continue to persevere and that to me is both heroic and admirable. I hope Venus is happy and I wish her and her sister all the best on and off the tennis court.


Lis
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BigBootyBoy_Fan Flag post REST IN PEACE New York, You will be missed on Reality TV. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ *gasps!* OMG, what are you saying????


big-slim
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2 dudes ingaged wow?????


nici
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why are so many of the male posters(I see alot saying positive things too though so let me acknowledge that) saying such disrespectful things to an accomplished, respected young woman like Venus? She's never been nothing less than a class act on the public stage all these years, and yet so many attack her looks and call her despicable names. She does not deserve this. And oh-I forgot-congrats to her for being engaged if she is(you never know with mto). Who cares what color he is-hopefully he's a good person who will treat her with the respect she DERSERVES yet rarely receives on this site anyways.


roxiehart
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I used to look past many of white dudes in hopes to find a good black man that's right for me(even though the young black guys i knew certainly did not hold that same regard for black women)...that will never happen again...being that i'm over 25 as long as were attracted, we click, good man, and established i would not let that go...i'm talking to a black man that has a career now(i'm not giving up yet unless the better man is of another race)...not just a job to get by...i hope it works...i have a degree and am about to get my career started


roxiehart
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venus might not be a natural beauty, but that's why she with her white boy who's looking past that


CharmedArts1
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This dude looks gay


Strwbrymuffin
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What!!! MTO finally said some kind words to someone(especially seeing that venus is marrying a white guy). I'm proud of you MTO, keep it up! Congrats Venus wishing you the best in '08.


Sean
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I know 2 DARK-SKINNED BLACK WOMEN who recently decided to date white men because say that black men only want light-skinned black women (Beyonce,Rhianna). Maybe Venus is having this problem.


makeover_queen
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If she's happy...cool...


M-M
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Yeah Sean, I agree with you, maybe Venus finds it difficult to date black men-from the comments of the brothas on this site, I can see why she is with a white man. Truly though, I think black men are intimidated of women like Venus-smart,strong,powerful and successful. The poeple making negative comments about her wish they had half of what she has. GO GIRL!


moonbeams
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That "white men accept natural beauty" line is a crock. White men are men, period. These white men see black women like Venus as either meal tickets or exotic curiosities. Yes, you always have the chance the two people fall in love regardless of race, status, etc. but that is the exception, not the rule.


terfite28
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WAIT, NO BLACK MEN CHECK FOR THAT MUSCULAR BODY ? I GUESS NOT AND I DON'T BLAME THEM.


esotericdredz
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@ staypoppin, THANK YOU...when you factor in socioeconomic status, just as many middle and upper middle class black women date interracially as black men, so that "black men get money and run to white women" bullshyt is nothing but a myth that dumba*s people keep pushing. This thread is a symbol of hatred towards black men, and its a sad day that so many of our women are buying into the media spin that's pushed against us.



Mizzy99
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@ terfite28 black men are threatened by successful strong " muscular" black women who can if needed, kick their a$$.


STAYPOPPIN01
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Let a white richer woman come along, we'll see how much he loves her. Or let him get a big time endorsement deal come along and he no longer needs her money. We'll see!


tha_deacon
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sister patterson = venus williams in 10 yrs. don't do it white boy !!!!! [img]http://img.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2007/07_01/VenusNipES0907_468x661.jpg[/img] [img]http://www.aolcdn.com/ch_bv/sister-patterson-400a031407.jpg[/img] sup shlay85.....*wink*


tha_deacon
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dammit..my images didn't wrk...this site sux !!


kissmenthemorning
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I HAVE READ A LOT OF COMMENTS ON THIS POST AND SOME OF THE GROUP HAS FORGOTTEN WHAT THE POST WAS ABOUT. IT IS ABOUT HER HAVING SOME FORM OF HAPPINESS IN THE WORLD OF THE RICH AND FAMOUS. WE CAN NOT MAKE JUDGEMENTS ABOUT THINGS WE DO NOT KNOW. SHE DID NOT COME OUT AND SAY THAT SHE HATES BLACK MEN THAT IS WHY SHE IS DATING A WHITE GUY. WHO REALLYS KNOWS HOW THIS GUY MAKES HER FEELS. A LOT OF BLACK MEN DATE WHITE WOMEN AND MARRY THEM. DO WE HERE ALL THE NEGATIVE FEEDBACK WHEN IT HAPPENS NO. MAYBE IF ONE OF THESE BEAUTIFUL BLACK MEN IN THIS GROUP HARD THE HEART TO TRY AND MEET HER THEN MAYBE SHE WOULD BE ENGAGED TO YOU. DON'T HATE HER FOR DATING OUTSIDE OF HER RACE. HER AND HER SISTER DOES A LOT OF WORK IN THE COMMUNITY I.E. AT HOSPITALS AND SCHOOLS. SO PEOPLE LET'S NOT FORGET THE BIGGER PICTURE IT IS NOT WHAT RACE YOU ARE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS IS HOW THAT PERSON MAKE YOU FEEL AS AN INDIVIDUAL. AND THE STORY IS TRUE IT IS ALSO POSTED ON TENNIS.COM GIVE THE YOUNG LADY A BREAK. CONGRATS VENUS!!!!!!!


seraphim
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"That "white men accept natural beauty" line is a crock. White men are men, period. These white men see black women like Venus as either meal tickets or exotic curiosities. Yes, you always have the chance the two people fall in love regardless of race, status, etc. but that is the exception, not the rule." @moonbeams What do black men see, when they date interracially, since according to you, a white man would only see Venus as a meal ticket or an exotic curiosity? Does Reggie Bush see Kim K as such? While the number of blacks in interracial relationships is small, black men make up the overwhelming majority of those couples. Now I know that not every black man has dated interracially, but it's a little ironic for black men to object to black women doing something that statistically, as a demo, they do far more often than black females. M-M, Sean, co-sign. I wouldn't surprise me in the least if Venus does have a hard time with black men of her own ilk, given her skin color.


bolio
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ElSoFocused and soulpole couldnt agree with u more. i dont f@ck with a black women shes been with a white man to me thats damage goods hell if they think about dating a white man they are damaged goods.ladies i know the brothas are fucking up too bot im not one of them im true to the game. i have the the upmost respect for my sista's but if they wanna direspsct them self sleeping with crackers f#ckem, and almighty-mouth its not your fault but you are not black remember black mom black dad = black child except it your mixed just like a mutt dog,smtchcose this is a blck site get your monkey ass off of it with that stupid picture nobody wants to see that shit. i dont have a roblem with venus dark skin i love dark skinned sista's i just hate she is a cracker lover waiting to have a litter of mutts. for this to be a black site it surely is alot of white ass kissing going on


brickxxx
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Congrats to them.....just wondering what the kids gonna look like......????????


bluberries
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you blacks call serena and venus black goriilas,ugly and trannies, why blacks are so jealous of these positive females, you treat ur black women like dogs , portray them on videos as nasty skanks, why do you care if venus dates a white dude, hey black chics in america come to australia and italy, the men their love black american women and treat them with respect and kindness. congratlations to serena and mardy fish for winning the hopman cup. way to go guys


trinigyal05
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I hope mama don't have that same blond wig on at the wedding :/


SoulPole
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@NCM.. I hear what your saying, although I disagree you have a right to your opinion. Your still a beautiful soul sister.. ................................................ @KEEL.."WELL SAID. BUT I BELIEVE IN UPLIFTING A TRUE BROTHA AND IN HIM UPLIFTING A SISTA LIKE ME UP TOO" I couldn't agree with you more Keel, Black unity is a two way street..Imo there's nothing more beautiful than a Black man and woman in unison..Maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic! ................................................ @Maria121.. Yes I do realize that it's genecticaly impossible for Blacks to breed ourselves into extinction..But I had to throw in something for a lil drama ;-0 ................................................. @esotericdredz.. Glad to see that some brothas still have the intestinal fortitude to confront Black women on their bs! Being a strong Black woman is one thing, but wanting to be the man is another! ................................................. @ReddzBadBidness "unfortunately this is SO NOT TRUE!! for some odd reason us black women are more reluctant to date outside of our race, we will take all the b.s from our brothers only to be treated SECOND CLASS?!?! I think yall brothas need to get it togeather and leave the "I'll conquer EVERTYTHING mentality alone" in trying to conquer it all yall have conquered NOTHING" Don't get me started on you woman! Unlike alot of weak Black man who are afraid to put a sister in her place when she's out of bounds, I'm not one of them! ................................................


blondie
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he looks like he is scared to death.. look at his eyes


seraphim
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@esoteric Not true. When it comes to blacks in IR's, black men set the tone. There is some truth to the "black male shortage" as sistahs progress up the socio-econ ladder, so that leaves them with three options if they want to date a black man like themselves but can't find one. They can date a black man unlike themselves (with less money or education). They can date interracially or be alone. The irony of this, is that black men don't have such a problem, yet black males are in more interracial couples than black females.


STAYPOPPIN01
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@ seraphim Because of racism black women will forever have a problem with finding black men on their level in the work place. This is strategically done so that black men don't become "to attractive" in any woman's eyes. Especially white women! The answer to that is encourage him to get a side business or something. Black women have always been able to date outside their race decades before black men, and they did! Society dehumanized black men in white women's eyes, and now that the veil is being lifted white women are sick of those bossy white men and checking out the forbidden fruit!


lbankso
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I don't know, I always thought that if someone found love, and as long as they were happy, who cares what color the other person is. I've read some of these comments on here, and they are just so negative. Why? Black comes in all shades, and just because she doesn't look like a model, that doesn't mean she's ugly. One person on here joked about her being a man...ha ha, very funny. This woman is educated, strong and athletic and rich, and it's these types of women that intimidate some black men...why insult the woman just because she's not pretty to you...obviously she's pretty to someone, chick is engaged.



imalright
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I don't know what psychological reasons there may or may not be for her marrying this man or whether or not he's a bumb. I'll leave that up to the 2 people involved. I will; however, say that I am truly saddened by the number of attacks constantly made on this woman and her sister's looks. I realize that hatin' on people is form of enternainment on this site, but these are 2 women who have endured a great deal of controversy and ridicule to accomplish something that only a few people have done in life. You rarely hear of these 2 ladies getting involved in anything negative. Other than thier feats on the tennis court, most of their media attention is because of something postive they've done in thier communities. So, I think it's a little unfair to attack them so harsly. I'm not saying you need to find them attractive; but just something to think about....


seraphim
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hmm, interesting theory STAYPOPPIN, but I think it has more to do with media exposure. Black men are far more visible in the media doing "manly" things like playing sports and what not, but black women aren't as visible when it comes to media interpretations of femininity. Looking at fashion magazines, tv and film roles, men's magazines and like, black women stuggle for visibility in these areas, whereas non-black, particularly white women, are everywhere and black men are not immune to their (non-black women) exposure. Even "black" media goes out of its way to promote a European beauty ideal. Look at the girls in the music videos. Look at the black couples that receive the most media exposure. The ones that get the most coverage involve black men with light skinned and/or non-black women. I still stand by my assertion, though. when it comes to IR's these days black men are setting the tone. If there were more balance, it wouldn't be an issue, but I actually support the idea of more black women in IR's and the media covering these couples.


inpectorgadget
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@ SisterSallieWalker TOUCHE on your first comment!!!! The Jean Strahan comment was on point, but not all black men are f***ed up as you say.


NCM
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How can we be mad about O.J, Jena & Rodney King and we racist as hell? Come one man...we all human. That racism has to stop all the way around the board, we all gotta livfe together.


choclitcandee
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If this is true that she's engaged I am so happy for her...but don't think Venus is sleepin' on this cat...she ain't stupid...she from compton! Just cause she plays tennis don't mean she still ain't got some hood in her. She probably had him sign a pre-nup AND the love contract...LOL


STAYPOPPIN01
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@ seraphim Yeah you're are right, black men do get a lot more exposure compared to black women. I'm sure that has a lot to do with it. As far as the "light skinned black woman" thing unfortunately blacks have to play ball with mainstream media. The lighter you are the more "white buyers" will watch the commercials that run during a TV show. Or the more light you are the more they can market you to "white buyers" as far as selling records because these women look closer to them! The media will never show white men/black women relationships because white men are bound by honor to uphold the white race, and black women don't fit into the equasion!


cashqueen
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CONGRATULATIONS! If you like, I love it. LOVE IS LOVE AT OF THE DAY!


cashqueen
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CORRECTION:CONGRATULATIONS! If you like, I love it. LOVE IS LOVE AT THE END OF THE DAY!


Afro_puff_Queen
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To Venus- You dont find love- Love finds you. If he makes you happy- it does not matter what race he is- we are all a part of the human race. Just as long as he makes you happy. When all else fails.......


SoulPole
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@Begonce.. How can I put this.. Your statement, what a load of bullshyt! I realize this is not the most intellectual of responses, but I'm done wasting my energy on so called "sisters" like you!


MicMoney
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Had to be a white man huh?........


seraphim
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"As far as the "light skinned black woman" thing unfortunately blacks have to play ball with mainstream media. The lighter you are the more "white buyers" will watch the commercials that run during a TV show. Or the more light you are the more they can market you to "white buyers" as far as selling records because these women look closer to them!" @STAYPOPPIN how do you know that's true, about light skinned black women selling more product? Why are you so certain of that? Are the girls selling the music or are the artists selling the music? Do album sales depend upon how fair or mixed race looking a video girl is? For all of 50 Cent's mysoginy, he features black women of many shades as "it" girls in his videos. My younger cousin just got a Chris Brown retrospective DVD, and I had never really watched his videos before, but I noticed a colorist theme in what the women looked like. Most of the "featured" girls were light, mixed race looking, or hispanic/non-black. If you look at the world of high fashion, the top, black models are very ethnic/African looking. There's a biracial one right now, half black and Korean, but she's not quite as known or as famous as Naomi, Alek Wek, Liya Kibede, Tyra, Oluchi etc. These women manage to sell products to white people all the time. Selita Ebanks (Tyra's replacement as the "black Victoria's secret model) isn't selling as many undies to white women as Tyra did, and she's lighter than Tyra.


girlygirl
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How is she engaged when she's already married!


STAYPOPPIN01
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There are always acceptions, but you are talking about the video girls, and I'm talking about the artist. They're usually light brown to light! Alicia Keys, Beyonce, Keisha cole, Mary J, etc. Don't get me wrong it's plenty of foxy darkskin girls, I've gone out with some actually. In the world of sales, nine times out of ten they are catering to whites, because they have more money, and believe me they pick these girls according to how close they are to white, and how whites will receive them. It's a dirty game, but it dominates the globe! (I'm out)


DCPAPI
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They look just alike..LOL



Tea-time
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Venus do you thang girl!


herewegoagain
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Congratulations Venus.


herewegoagain
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Judging by the comments posted by the boys here. I see some self hatred. Why are you guys calling Venus ugly? I came across a White gentlemen and we got into a conversation about pretty women versus other (Ok looking person). He clearly stated he would never date a women for their looks, why? he does not want to be concerned about whether or not she will cheat because all she'll be about is her looks and herself. Now for Black men, I don't understand the self hatred for your own kind and its scary. Its 2007 and we talk about how racism still exists, well guess what we still talk down about our own kind and we go around justifying equal rights.


Yauhhuh
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First I would like to say that Venus looks GREAT, probably the best I have ever seen her. The VH1Insider is funny, and I love the post! Third SolePole do you ever think about anything that you say? You sound the most stupid person on MTO. Black men are the worse perpetrators of dating outside their race. It seems like MOST black man of any high status date white or really light black skin or another race, never a dark sister like Venus. What race is your woman? I bet she is white or so light that she gets confused for being white? Now you on here pretending for everyone on here that you are some black panther or something! Why don't you really do the black community a favor by sitting down and shutting up because you sound like an ignorant fool!


seraphim
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But we’re not talking about individual female artists. We’re talking about video girls, who are more or less shills or props anyway. So what evidence can you provide that light skinned/mixed-race/non-black video girls contribute to the bottom line of album sales? You can’t really. You can only speculate. 50 featured a brown skinned girl in his Wanksta video and Get Rich or Die Trying was his best selling disc ever, but you would never credit the girl with the album’s success. So if album sales of hip-hop artists are not dependent upon how light the props/girls are, then what’s driving the trend? Maybe it’s casting directors, not consumers. What white person is buying a rap cd because of the girls in the video? I don’t think this is a trend that white consumers are fueling.


esotericdredz
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@ begonce, sounds like you are scapegoating black men....Your statement that "Black men’s self hatred issues run so deep it spills over to sistas" shows a total lack of accountability on the part of black women and sistas total willingness to sell out black men and throw us under the bus to make you all look better by comparison. And as to your statement "the majority of the dysfunction in the black community points to the fact that black men aren’t pulling their weight" is a massive overgeneralization about black men....Which is unfortunate. Having worked in the juvenile justice system and child welfare system, trust me, the dysfunction that does exist in our community is SHARED and black women contribute equally to it with black men.... This whole tend of sistas bashing, tearing down and distancing yourselves from black men in order to praise and appeal to white men is unfortunate and selling out at its worst.


NotimeforBS
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Venus, why don't you just sign a check made out to cash and let him enter the amount. A mind is a terrible thing to waste...........


begonce
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@esotericdredz and soul pole.... I'm not a basher of black men. I happen to care deeply for black men. However, black men overwhelming are putting the black community at risk by irresponsible, damaging behavior leaving the responsibility of the survival of Black America squarely on the shoulders of Black women. Black women are frustrated and hurt. We are not mules.We see ever other race of men proactively creating a future for their communities and our men faltering, not accepting responsibility and in the process turning their backs on us. Why should Black women tolerate this?? To say that the dysfuntion is SHARED by both Black men AND Black women is laughable. Any expert, historian, pundit, intellectual, etc would agree that the Black man is not pulling their weight. Statistics are what they are. In fact, if it weren't for the strides made by Black women, our community would be in a more abysmal state than it is already. Your response doesn't suprise me...what other group of men looks to blame their women for their communities downfall and shortcomings? Really, when has that ever happened in history? Black men have a unique habit of displaying little responsibility yet pointing the finger at everyone but themselves. 1) What other group of men finds sport in degrading their women and then tries to justify it as artistic expression? 2) What other group of men abandons their children in such staggering numbers? 3) What other group of men glorifies criminal behavior as being cool and belittles academic behavior as being nerdy? 4) What other group of men has dispropotianately put women at risk of AIDS due to irresponsible Down Low behavior? 5) What other group of men idolizes the Eurocentric ideal of beauty, regards their women as beautiful if they are close to that ideal and marginalizes them if they are not, and eventually seeks that Euro ideal while leapfrogging over their own educated, beautiful, caring women in such record numbers? Black women have been loyal to Black men for so long (and most still are). That loyalty is not given to us. I would say this recent movement of Black women looking outside the race in large numbers is a recent phenomenon. Largely, it's not out of desire, it's out of necessity, accessibility and to some degree rejection by Black men. Ask a sista in Minneaplois---Black women are pretty much invisible to Black men. This scenario is repeated in many other parts of the country. Why should black women be alone and loyal to a Black man who has decided that Black women are out of style?


esotericdredz
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@ begonce, Sista I hear your sentiment, but you are really just regurgitating a bunch of tired, distorted stereotypes about black men! Let me run through your list: 1) Who by and large are the forces behind the porn industry? White men...Do a little googling and you will see plenty of blond haired, blue eyed "eurocentric" looking women involved in some of the most vile activities possible. Additionally, Britney Spears as a teenage girl in a school girl outfit was not the creation of black men.....Paris Hilton with no panties was not the creation of black men....Hugh Heffner and the people behind Maxim, Stuff and FHM are not black...So please, sexism is NOT the creation or province of Black men...White men established the sexist dichotomy, and they profit plenty off of objectification of their women. 2)You are taking a class issue and making it a race issue. You see more child abandonment by fathers in poor, underprivileged communities across racial lines. Hell, I grew up in rural Appalachia....The majority of the white kids I grew up with didnt know who their fathers were, or werent involved with them. ...So let not buy into the White male "Father Knows Best" image. Its bunk....Middle class men and Upper class men..Even working class men are statistically more involved with their kids...Men in the poorest parts of society arent, and that is true across racial lines... 3) Once again, class more than race....Go into poor communities in rural white america and check the test scores and graduation rates....Go look at the test scores of the children of the Black middle class.... 4)The myth of the "DL Brotha" and the skewered statistics were pushed out as just another way to villify Black men. This is a whole different, more detailed conversation....Lets just say that since JL King or whatever that fairy's name was came out, there have been some sound medical research authorities that have poked holes in this phenomenon and showed how the "numbers" are easily manipulated and inaccurate. I am more than willing to share the research and sources on this one. 5) All I can say to this one is, what brothas are you dealing with? This is a HUGE generalization....I dont think its fair to take the handful of brothas in Minneapolis and Seattle and showcase them as the norm when you have Black men in Black Enterprises Top 10 cities for black professionals overwhelmingly marrying Black women. Botton line is that Black men still overwhelmingly marry Black women (94% around the time of the last census I believe) so we arent doing THAT much idolizing... If Black women can't find a man, then I think she needs to look in the mirror and look at the men she's approaching and the men she's passing by....Take some personal accountability rather than bashing a whole gender as a whole, and the same goes for Black men. If people date interracially, that's cool, but that is a CHOICE that is made. And its a choice that should not be justified by bashing your own race.


nici
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There are so many gross generalizations about different groups going on. You will find the good, the bad, and the ugly in EVERY group-black men, white men, black women, white women. The reality is in alot of places(like where I"m from), people from different races date with little to no stigma attached. I realize some posters here are from very different places where there's alot more stigma attached. But that doesn't mean Venus is coming from the place you are coming from. So, you it's hard to judge her motivations for her dating a white man--just as it is to judge the motivations for her white fiancee dating her. There is no need to take it personally when someone dates outside their race. Our race in America has always been mixed, as has the white race in America. And it only will get more mixed with time as interracial dating becomes the norm more and moret-the train's left the station people!


queenblv3
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i thought she was gay but im happy 4 her


Da_Lovely_Lady_K
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congrats!!!! and nice picture of her


sexxiReddBoneStarr
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ITS A LIE MAN.....NOBODY ELSE TALKED ON THAT.


ImThatChick
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oooooooooook...bums are bums and they come in every color. Hopefully the color she has chosen will bring her much happiness. Its 08 people stop dwelling in misery and grab your own happiness whatever color that may be. We've got to stop living w/limitations. As black people we shouldnt have any prejudices against any group of people based on outward appearances. Make your personal selection but dont press your value system on someone else or hold it against them. Much happiness to Venus.


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martinalutherking
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My questions is this: Who the hell was she suppose to date?! All the brothers in Hollywood are either gay or dating white/misc. women. She's damned if she do, damned if she dont. I for one think this nothing wrong w/ Venus Williams. I can see, however, how she would get caught up and date a white man. Everyone on this site and other blacks around the country are so confused and hate themselves so much they cant appreciate a dark skinned sistah. I wish she could find a brother, but at the end of the day i'm sure this man makes her happy and isn't putting her down because of her complexion. I wish them the best. I am for the rest of the sistahs not settling for the few black men that are out there and picking up your luggage and moving on to white men. I mean, might as well the black race is on its way out anyway!


JU
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Ve has been looking amazing ever since she has gotten with che' whitey


chocolatevixen
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@Maria121, a black female friend of mine told me that Jewish men are hung!! I'm finna find out for myself if that's true b/c money plus big schlong = happy black girl!!!


begonce
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@esotericdredz: Wow! You amaze me...Do you not agree that there are behaviors that need to be adressed and confronted in the black community--particulary where black men are concerned? It's amazing to me how you can rationalize every shortcoming by saying it's the white man who has perpetuated or created it. The fact that white men are behind the porn industry does not negate the fact that black men exploit black women which is overall far more detrimental to our community. The depiction and reference of black women as "bitches and hos" is extremely damaging to the psyche of not only black women but also black men. If you don't respect the women within your culture how can you respect yourself or expect anyone else to? If that is the prevailing image, what does that say about our values as a people? That image is promoted all over the world. All of the empirical evidence shows that this is clearly damaging to our community. The plain fact is that we are not on the same playing field as White America, so pathologies and dysfunction have a more debilitating effect on us. When you say other men abandon their children--it's no where near the extent that occurs in Black America. More than 70% of black children are raised without fathers. No other community has numbers even approaching that. It's reached epidemic proportions. Many Black fathers are not paying child support.This has long reaching effects on the future of Black America. If no other problem were eradicated in our community besides repairing the Black family structure--that alone would be huge. That alone would rectify so much in our crumbling communities. We cannot continue saying "White folks do it too" to justify pathologies in our community. We have to do better. By the way, you're not fooling anybody by saying Black men don't overwhelming prefer lighter skinned black women.We've already established this and there are countless accounts and evidence to substantiate this. Besides the requisite music videos, there are films, books,songs, tv shows in addition to data and random polling of your average black man. On the other hand, black women are quite vocal of their appreciation of black men with many expressing a strong preference for darker skinned brothas. You can't convince me, yourself or anyone else otherwise. There is the occasional successful brotha that has a dark skinned sista on his arm but that clearly is the exception. While we're at it, you may as well fess up that there are countless black men with a strong preference for white, Asian, Hispanic women to the exclusion of black women. Or the brotha that will say "I don't see color, I'm colorblind, I date the rainbow...etc" (yet, it's anyone but a black women) This desire runs deep in black men. The classic book "Soul On Ice" by Eldridge Cleaver (a Black Panther no less) illustrated this. He was quite poetic in his lust for any woman that wasn't black and his disdain and contempt for black women. Many of his friends, colleagues, etc expressed the same views. There's a new book titled "Why Black Men Love White Women" (you can find it online) that breaks this down quite well. Once again, the flip side of this is that black women are NOW looking beyond black men generally not out of preference,or not seeing beauty in blackness (like black men do)---but out of necessity and realizing that hey, maybe we're entitled to being treated well and cherished like other women. If we're not getting from black men then we have a right to look elsewhere like everyone else. If black men displayed the loyalty we show them, black women would rarely even consider it. If black women didn't feel maligned and marginalized then they would rarely give it a second thought. A little background on myself, I graduated from one of the finest universities in the country, was born and bred in NYC, have traveled all over the world, I've modeled since my pre-teen years and am a successful businesswoman. I've overwhelming dated and preferred black men throughout my life. However, men of other races have always pursued me and I've dated them on occasion. I've never been at a loss for a man and I'm currently in a stable, healthy relationship. During the course of my studies, travels and experiences I've witnessed the way men of all races treat women and have usually not been pleased with where black men generally rank on that scale. Don't get me wrong, being in NYC I move in circles of upwardly mobile black folks. I know some black couples that are doing well. But, it's not the majority. Black men tend to be extremely phobic about marriage especially to a black woman. More and more, upwardly mobile, progressive black men are not choosing a black woman as the woman they want on their arm. On the other hand, among my friends of other races it is far more commonplace to get married and settle down and the baby mama/baby daddy phenomenon is non-existent. My point is, more and more black women feel like it's time we get the treatment we deserve, to think of our own preservation instead of sacrificing happiness and feeling beholden to our families, churches,community, etc while the honorable, respectful, black men is nowhere to be found.


TYRA8972
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Good for her she deserves it


esotericdredz
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@ begonce, I am blown away by the sweeping generalizations that you make about black men...and that you seem to really believe! Wow! There are behaviors that need to be addressed in the black community and black women are not blameless in those behaviors! Stop looking at it like black women are as a whole these paragons of virtue and perfection that are dragged down by the evil black man. You are vilifying your own men!!! And in the process buying into the Willie Lynch mentality. It just sounds like you have bought into this notion that society and the media love to perpetuate....that EVERY problem in society is the problem of the black man....No matter what it is, its the black man's fault, its hip-hops fault...This society has always placed its foot on the neck of the black man....and to see black women buying in and joining in is hurtful and just wrong. Every generalization you have thrown at Black men, those same characteristics apply to many, many black women..and many men and women of other races and backgrounds. They just arent harped on over and over....Because its Black men that have been made into the scapegoat for society's ills...And Black women have not just stood idly by and watched this happen to us, they seem to be gleefully joining in! I have Soul on Ice in the bookshelf right behind me. And the fact that you would pick that book out of all the ones written during that time period....Most of which exalted the beauty of black women...Shows that you, unfortunately, have fallen into the same pattern as most of white america: Seeing only the worst in black men while glossing over and ignoring the positives. Good black men are out there...Educated black men are out there...And the statistics show that the majority of them are married to Black women. If black women cant find them or cant keep them, then they need to look in the mirror and have some self analysis. But that takes personal accountability and responsibility...and why should people do that when they can just throw their brothas under the bus. And for the record, do not assume that just because I am a brotha with locks and some tattoos that I am somehow not, as you describe yourself, educated and successful. I have a law degree, my own business in the black community, am on the board of a nonprofit that does work in the black community, have set foot on 4 continents with number 5 coming this spring. But to you, I am a myth evidently because black men like myself dont exist..lol


wendsts2325
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wow...congrats... But his dating profile is also found at the celeb club millionairecupid.com. He has posted his nice pics there and exclaimed he is looking for serious girlfriend for relationships.


Ameil23
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NOW THAT THE TABLES ARE TURNED THE BROTHER ARE GETTING MAD!!!!! WTF....BUT ITS OK FOR YALL 2 FUCK EVERY WHITE/LATIN/ASIAN BITCH WALKING...LET THAT GIRL BE SO WHAT SHE FOUND HAPPINESS OUTSIDE OF BLACKMEN I DONT BLAME HER YALL AINT SHIT ANYWAY!! GOOD LUCK..I JUST COULDNT DO IT!! BUT GOOD LUCK SISTER!!!


jayyyyy
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he look like the gut off deal or no deal lol. but v you still look good to me


EliteSista
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Why are people surprised? It's like being shocked at the fact someone in a wheelchair can't walk, ya'll saw this coming!!!! Anyway, most sistas aren't down for see-thru penis so why stress ya self? If someone on this post wants to speak about the ills of black men and women let them be. I can't stand people who do nothing but count loses when the fact most in our community already won their black king/queen. Oh yeah and Venus clothing line/shoe line HATED IT!


Ms_Afghanistan2008
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Brothers be careful with these DL sisters. They bringing home Herpes. Find a good Afghani girl.


Thickness
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Can you all say Pre_NUP!


CRAZY_DAVE
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You Go Honkey!!! Tell her sister Serena, Crazy Dave wants to go for the Grand Slam Title!!!


coochieboo
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Wow, I am happy for her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


STAYPOPPIN01
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@ sepharim Yeah these girls are props, but beleive me most of the time they're strategically placed to go into the homes of white folks. It's all about selling to white folks, the artist is the star but they want to surround him with white-looking girs so he apears more mainstream. Where is the proof that darskin girls can't sell? In the eyes of white folks dark skin represents "urban blacks", and they beleive white folks will stay away from the product, because it's a "black product." B.E.T. knows this and they play ball because the bottom line is revenue. I don't share their opinion, I just answered your question concerning the ligh skin syndrome.



SisterSallieWalker
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Uuhh... dieselpro... you have NO IDEA of what you are speaking of concerning Venus and Serena and their relationship with their father Richard Williams... no idea whatsoever. All you've done is pass on misinformation.


PreppyNoir
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Bitterness is the devil.


NotimeforBS
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@Msafghanistan, plaheeeez, you desert goats sleep with snakes, and donkeys, and can't even identify the diseases you carry. Go put your head back in the sand


THEUNDERDOG1
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This post has turned into a racial debate. Please, black people, please, don't buy into the media hype. What is illustrated here is not a reflection of the majority of black folk. Putting too much emphasis on the negative only gives leverage for other people of different nationalities to capitalize off this issue. There's nothing wrong debating on this issue. Just as long as it doesn't escalate to random violence. There's enough negative vibes going amongst ourselves as it is.


Queens4life

NYATWAIN
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2 CLEAR ALL RUMOURS OF MY DEAR FRIEND ANGELA SIMMON'S SHE NO LONGER WITH BOW WOW..NO SHE IS DEFINETLY NOT DATING LLOYD THERE ARE JUST GOOD FRIENDS..SHE IS CURRENTLY DATING TERRY KENNEDY OF FLYSOCIETY & HAS MOVE 2 CALI 2 BE WITH HIM..THE PROOF CKECK OUT HER MYSPACE PAGE MYSPACE.COM/LOVEMEFORME143 OR HIS MYSPACE.COM/TERRYKENNEDY..SO PLEASE STOP LINKING HER 2 ALL THESE OTHER PEOPLE & LET HER BE!!