You know i often read the comments on here and I get very frustrated knowing that many of them are from the persepctive of black women.
I agree with the ones who have mentioned how we make sure to talk about one another and judge more than anyone else. I could care less what white folks think. I don't make it a ahbit to explain myself to anyone, let alone them.
Furthermore, there is NOTHING wrong with this girl's hair. It looks normal for hairstyles today and the color isn't at all vivid. Furthermore, I am sick of people making black women's hair color or styles an important determinant to further pick us apart. The aesy thing to do from the perspective of the high and mighty and self-righteous who have posted on here is to simply conform.
And then if you conform to everyhting white folks come up with, then what? It's the hair, the cloths, the music. Next we will be back in Jim Crow and then in shackles, b/c we go along to get along.
And to the person that continues to take their step and fetchin show from threadt to thread, talking about don't we know how white folks are tired of us playing the race card, I would like to ask you a question.
You probably work for a company and feel that you are somewhat successful. But there isn't a way in hell you can honestly tell me, that after all that damn conforming and following the rules and going by the book, for them to only tell you, they need much more, you don't get pissed. You get dressed every damn morning to go to a job where outwardly, you act like its going great. You are probably the person that the NICE white people can have those "what is wrong with black people?" conversations to get your point of view as if you somehow speak for the black race.
Our problem right now isn't white folks. It's us. Because we volunteer to tear ourselves down for white folks. "Oh No Sir, you don't have to worry yourself with them ni$$as, I will handle it for ya, sir"
Bottomline, if a white broad get to dye her hair as blonde as possible, when her natural hair color is brown, or dye it red, then ain't no way, you can tell me, that something is wrong with burgundy or maroon or whatever.
So all these women on here that can be self righteous and act like they have all the answers, need to get off the damn gas. Furthermore for the mother, it isn't even about the money, it's about nature of the situation.
And for those people who can't read and talk about, if the rules say this, you must follow them. That school handbook doesn't specifically mention anything of the sort. That was the point of the article. Amazing how we can judgme before we even get the full understanding of what we just found out.
But that's black folks for ya. I can see that many of you agree with how Bill Cosby goes around putting blacks on blast in front of white folks.